lizharris619 Posted January 30, 2012 Share Posted January 30, 2012 I accept this challenge. DAY 1: This is day 1 and I am feeling strong and really good about this decision. He cheated on me with his adopted sister. He had a five month affair and he still denies it despite all family members telling me the truth. I am DONE!! I kicked him out of the house and he had to move to his mothers home 8 hours away. Link to comment
lemonhaze Posted January 30, 2012 Share Posted January 30, 2012 That's kind of messed up Liz, good luck with the challenge. Link to comment
Melting Posted January 31, 2012 Share Posted January 31, 2012 I have come back to try this again, been LC for the last 5mths as we work together and he is still messing with my head and I am allowing it! Well today, the buck stops right here and I am going to accomplish what I have set out to do and that is to rid him from my thoughts and heart. Day 2 NC ......... Bring on tomorrow! Link to comment
soybeans Posted January 31, 2012 Share Posted January 31, 2012 Day 13 This anxiety is overwhelming. I used to depend on you to give me strength and trust me, I am now seeing how wrong that was. Some days I'm fine and days like today, I miss you as soon as I open my eyes in the morning. I am staying busy with school and work everyday but it doesn't make it any easier. When will this pain go away? Link to comment
Nickles Posted January 31, 2012 Share Posted January 31, 2012 Can I jump in at day 3? I haven't contacted the love of my life since Saturday. We have a house together and all our stuff is in it. He says it's over and has gone to his mother's I have gone to my parent's house too. We will have to sort out the house but I am not contacting him. It would be too disrespectful for him (I was dumped for being clingy and I don't want to turn into a stalker). I want him to see I've changed....one...two...three....GO! Link to comment
lizharris619 Posted January 31, 2012 Share Posted January 31, 2012 DAY 2: Feel like calling and telling him off. He called me and text me yesterday. He wants to reconcile. Link to comment
Melting Posted January 31, 2012 Share Posted January 31, 2012 Day 3 and I am feeling great! I don't need you in my life to make me feel like crap all the time. Link to comment
Nickles Posted February 1, 2012 Share Posted February 1, 2012 Day 4 and considering sending him a letter. Link to comment
lizharris619 Posted February 1, 2012 Share Posted February 1, 2012 DAY 1 (AGAIN) - I called yesterday just to make it clear that I do not want anything to do with him because he has hurt me so bad and our situation is not healthy. At the end of a number of back and forth texting and a call he said i dont want you in my life. So I have said what I have to say and I need to leave this guy alone. So no contact starting today!!! Link to comment
lizharris619 Posted February 1, 2012 Share Posted February 1, 2012 Thanks and the worst part is that he continues to deny it despite irrefutable proof. Link to comment
lizharris619 Posted February 1, 2012 Share Posted February 1, 2012 Don't do it!! Write it but don't send it. I broke down yesterday on Day 2 and I regret it. Link to comment
Melting Posted February 1, 2012 Share Posted February 1, 2012 Day 4, Just had 2 good days in a row.... I must be getting better! Link to comment
unkown1921 Posted February 2, 2012 Share Posted February 2, 2012 Wow i havent seen my ex in months and i feel great, im about to turn 22 on the 11th and while im currently single, im gonna have a blast Link to comment
The walkingman Posted February 2, 2012 Share Posted February 2, 2012 2 months NC down! Going out on a Thursday night tomorrow for the first time in almost a year. Link to comment
Nickles Posted February 2, 2012 Share Posted February 2, 2012 Day 5 of no contact. It's tough because we're soul mates. If it's meant to be it's meant to be. I need to work out my issues first. Link to comment
brandnewday47 Posted February 2, 2012 Share Posted February 2, 2012 Back to day 1. I responded yesterday to an email. Not feeling great as I was well over 30. Link to comment
Nickles Posted February 2, 2012 Share Posted February 2, 2012 I didn't send the letter but I accidentally bumped into him and it was great. We agreed this is not goodbye but we needed to work out our problems. I followed the a get your ex back type ebook and asked him for lunch to "go out on a high." He said no and we had a chat instead and he asked to see me next week. I know we won't live together and I happy about that as I love him but need to love myself before we can make things work. Keep up no contact guys if you feel it's the right thing to do as things will work out either way. Link to comment
Melting Posted February 2, 2012 Share Posted February 2, 2012 Day 5 Going strong, nothing is going to stop me now! Link to comment
Melting Posted February 5, 2012 Share Posted February 5, 2012 Day 7 Have started to miss you, but I will not fail. Link to comment
Melting Posted February 5, 2012 Share Posted February 5, 2012 Day 8 This is the longest I have gone NC so far and I have no doubts I will continue on this steady stream. I deserve alot better then what you had on offer. Link to comment
Dibbs Posted February 6, 2012 Share Posted February 6, 2012 She called me after one month of no contact. She wants to meet and talk about us. I don't know what to think of that because she was so against reconciliation... I also don't want to get hurt again by only getting my hopes up W broke up almost 6 months ago... Link to comment
Melting Posted February 6, 2012 Share Posted February 6, 2012 Day 9 ... Wooooooooooooohooooooooooooo Almost broke contact last night and to say he isn't on my mind 24/7 would be lying, but the sadness is not there so much. I do however go thru anger/hurt/sorrow/hope all in one day! Working with him every day, does not help at all! Link to comment
digdug Posted February 6, 2012 Share Posted February 6, 2012 Day 9 ... Wooooooooooooohooooooooooooo Almost broke contact last night and to say he isn't on my mind 24/7 would be lying, but the sadness is not there so much. I do however go thru anger/hurt/sorrow/hope all in one day! Working with him every day, does not help at all! Look at you !!!! Sooooo happy to see you're doing well. I'm happy for you, keep pushing !! ~dig Link to comment
lonelyheart2 Posted February 6, 2012 Share Posted February 6, 2012 Ashamed to admit I am back on day 4...but this time it's for real!!! I really will make it. I actual feel that the idea of me being with someone else is actually an exciting thought now Link to comment
Melting Posted February 7, 2012 Share Posted February 7, 2012 Day 10 I am so proud of myself for getting this far, I never believed it was possible. Instead of putting your feelings first, I am putting mine.... you only cared about yourself, so why should I care about you. I really, really do pray that one day soon you will quit work and then vanish from my life forever. Link to comment
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