DN Posted May 15, 2009 Share Posted May 15, 2009 why can't he just admit he has feelings for me too? :sad: Because he is leaving and wants to hurt neither of you more than necessary? Link to comment
annie24 Posted May 17, 2009 Author Share Posted May 17, 2009 aaah, i feel a little sad tonight. he graduated yesterday (the official ceremony) and i know his family is in town this weekend with him. i haven't talked to him in a while (almost 2 weeks). i feel like the ball is in his court to contact me though, if he wants to talk. i just feel a little sad. not too insanely sad. i've done some chores today, got some groceries, ate some sushi, watched some TV, fell asleep on the couch for a while. i'll try to get some real work done tomorrow. Link to comment
annie24 Posted May 17, 2009 Author Share Posted May 17, 2009 i forgot to mention! my neighbor who has the world's most adorable dog, will be out of town for 2 weeks and asked if i would dog sit! i said hell yes! she offered to pay me, i offered to do it for free - or even pay her! i am crazy about her dog. he is the most adorable little thing. super friendly and the goofiest smile. he's such a silly boy and has the most adorable racoon-eye pattern on his face. i can't wait to have him with me and get to walk with him and cuddle with him at night!!!! Link to comment
annie24 Posted May 17, 2009 Author Share Posted May 17, 2009 ok, he just wrote this on my facebook wall. like what the heck?!?!? i haven't contacted him since that email 2 weeks ago. Yo, I've been meaning to e-mail you. I'm sorry things have gotten hectic the past few days, but don't worry, I haven't forgotten about you like, what the heck?!?!? Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted May 17, 2009 Share Posted May 17, 2009 Maybe he feels bad and thinks your feelings might be hurt that he hasn't got back to you about the email so he put this out there. Link to comment
annie24 Posted May 17, 2009 Author Share Posted May 17, 2009 well, it's lilke, i'm just trying to move on. i sent the email 2 weeks ago. so why not just respond privately, instead of putting it up on my facebook wall that he is going to email me?! it's like, what the heck is he doing? Link to comment
DN Posted May 17, 2009 Share Posted May 17, 2009 If he can take the time to write on your facebook why can't he take the same time to e-mail? I would ask him. Link to comment
annie24 Posted May 17, 2009 Author Share Posted May 17, 2009 i dunno -he's just weird. i don't even really want to talk to him at this point. you think i should really just ask him that?! Link to comment
DN Posted May 17, 2009 Share Posted May 17, 2009 I would - make it like a sort of joke so as to not be too serious or aggressive. Link to comment
annie24 Posted May 17, 2009 Author Share Posted May 17, 2009 i can't even think of a way to say that to him without being serious or aggresive. i guess i'll just wait and see if he does write to me or what. or maybe i should just 'defriend' him off of facebook and move on with my life for good? Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted May 17, 2009 Share Posted May 17, 2009 If you "defriended" him from FB, are you afraid to hurt his feelings? Link to comment
annie24 Posted May 17, 2009 Author Share Posted May 17, 2009 i care more about my feelings than his feelings. Link to comment
DN Posted May 17, 2009 Share Posted May 17, 2009 "Hi, BusBoy, Thanks for the FB note - your computer must be weird 'cause mine takes the same amount of time to post something on FB as it does to send an e-mail. I would get yours checked by an IT expert if I were you - I bet it has a virus or something. Hope all is well with you. Annie" Link to comment
annie24 Posted May 17, 2009 Author Share Posted May 17, 2009 lol, that's funny. think i should send that? Link to comment
annie24 Posted May 17, 2009 Author Share Posted May 17, 2009 ok, will do that. i like the idea of calling him out on his BS Link to comment
DN Posted May 17, 2009 Share Posted May 17, 2009 Cool - I wonder if he will reply and what he will say. Link to comment
annie24 Posted May 17, 2009 Author Share Posted May 17, 2009 does it even matter what he says? sheesh. i don't know what this guy's deal is. why can't he just let me move on? or just be friends? or just pick something and go with it. why come to my shows, do that kind of stuff? but, yeah, i'm defiately glad to call him out on a BS facebook wall post. Link to comment
Daligal83 Posted May 17, 2009 Share Posted May 17, 2009 I think it's good you called him out on it. He needs to make up his mind and stop attempting to lead you on. He moves soon, right? I think that will be a very very good thing. Hey maybe this just all shows you that he may not be as great as you thought he was and it might even be a good thing that it didn't work out. Link to comment
DN Posted May 17, 2009 Share Posted May 17, 2009 It might matter what he says. Depends on what he says and what happens as a result. Link to comment
annie24 Posted May 17, 2009 Author Share Posted May 17, 2009 well, since i haven't talked to him for 2 weeks and haven't checked his fb, i dunno if he's bought a ticket. last time we talked, his intention was to move at the end of may (so, i guess that means he'll be out of here by June 1?) yes, i am looking forward to him leaving. yeah, i do feel a bit 'jerked around.' my ex did that to me too, and i didn't like it one bit. Link to comment
annie24 Posted May 17, 2009 Author Share Posted May 17, 2009 oh gawd, now i'm sad and crying again Link to comment
Daligal83 Posted May 17, 2009 Share Posted May 17, 2009 Let it out! He's appearing and disappearing and it's messing with your emotions. Cry and you'll feel a little better and then go do something that makes you happy! Link to comment
annie24 Posted May 17, 2009 Author Share Posted May 17, 2009 why is he doing this? why can't he just leave me alone or just be friends or just choose something? why act this way? i am getting so close to defriending him and telling him to leave me alone for good. Link to comment
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