PrettyTallGirl Posted July 8, 2008 Share Posted July 8, 2008 Hi Everyone, My boyfriend (now ex-boyfriend) cheated on me with a girl early into our relationship. He says he cheated because I said some mean things to him but I think that's just a cop out to place the blame on anyone but his self. He even told me that he actually feel in love with the girl. She ended up finding about me because I caught her at his house one night. He had told her that I was his crazy ex-girlfriend that couldn't move on and that we weren't ever that serious. I had a chance to speak with her over the phone because he gave her my number. He even had the audacity to ask me to lie to her and tell her that we were in fact NOT together and that I just couldn't move on. You could imagine how hurtful that was. He even tried to cut his wrists once to get my attention and told her that I had someone beat him up and I stole his phone. He also wanted me too lie to her about that to. Has anyone here had this problem before? How did you feel about it? I broke it off with him and he sent me a text message saying "call me in 10" then when I called he had changed his number. The girl he cheated with told me that he changed it. If you only knew the devastation I felt to have him leave me for the girl he cheated on me with. I know its probably for the best but it really hurts because not only was the relationship really serious, I was pregnant and we were engaged and going to get our names tattooed on each other. Why do men do these idiotic things. Its such a selfish thing to do and they seem not too care about the people they hurt and this was the same man who claimed he loved me. Link to comment
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