honeydipped

i didnt know it was poetry,sorry, i thought u were telling us u were going to cut up, i work with teenagers, and a lot of young girls do this for attention, and i thought u were one of them, ooops, lol sorry, but im glad u look beyond the pain of lifes mean little trials, take care, and good luck, debbie, oh yeah, keep that attitute, ull do ok, debbie

wow you need psychiatric help and fast, im serious, you are so mixed up here, why do you think people would cry for you cause you scratched up your leg or arm over stupidity, get real here, grow up, and get some help, tell your parents you need councelling and fast, no one wants a mixed up confused person, so get with it here, why do you think scaring up your body is attractive , cause its not, it only shows weakness, attention seeking, and someone who is so imature they dont know what they're doing, all i can say is you need help!!!!

i wish i knew how old you and your friends are, so i know what kind of comment to make, but what i see, is someone very young, someone who is in search of love, and eager to be loved. yes i do think your letter is much too deep, for someone who just danced with someone, the girl has a boyfriend, you should just drop it and have fun, also with no insult here, just an observation, i think your letter is very desperate for her to feel sorry for you, and then maybe you would like her to see you, because she would feel sorry for you, trust me, you dont want a relationship that is based on pity, or feeling sorry for the person, it sounds like your making a big thing out of nothing here, did she make a date with you? why did you go there with your male friend, why not with her if it was a date, and you mentioned you wanted a limo, wow this is a bit much to grab a pizza with some girl you like, if you do things like this now, when you are really in love with someone, you wont have any other special things to do for her, as you have already done them all, so i say, enjoy your youth, have fun, dont take things so seriously, and dont be so deep, it scares people off, sorry, but its true, take care, debbie

hi, im female, soo.. to me i think she has had time to get over her boyfriend, and is now ready to explore a new relationship, but before you count your chickens before they hatch, ask, ask her does she mean as a date, or as friends go out, you have the right to know before you go out, if its friends dont let her take advantage of your interest in her, make sure she pays for her own meal, or "friend date". hope this helps u a bit, good luck, debbie

go with your heart, if your not happy, leave. we are only here once, this is not a rehersal, this is our one time only deal, if u screw it up, u lose. if your not in love, leave, your kids know when parents are not in love, or not happy, plz dont waste your life with this man, if you dont love him, and shame on your parents saying you wont find any better. what a mean thing to say, if they think he is such a catch, then tell them they can live with him, because you are now tired of living a lie, you owe it to yourself and your children to be happy, so plz do it, be happy, good luck. debbie

well, im a 40 yr old female, and im so in love with a 24 year old man, i love him so much, and he feels the same way, we let nothing come between us, at least we try, we do have our little up and down time, but we rise above this, go with ur heart, and what feels good to u, do not let age, race, or money come between love, take care, and enjoy ur new love, debbie

i really have a big problem here, and i dont know who to get some advice from, so here i am, i hope someone can help out if they can. the problem is, i am in love with a young man, he is also in love with me, thats not the problem, lol, well, he has male and some female friends, this one female friend just seems to be getting in the way, he has never had sex with her, he doesnt even like her, she is totally not his type, but when i cant go out, or im busy at home, she asks him to pick her up and take her out, my b/f and i usually go cruising sunday nights, and if i cant go, he seems to think its ok to pick her up and take her, i get upset, i let him know how hurt i was, he got really upset and said well fine, i wont have any friends then, and... he also just went ahead last sunday and picked her up and took her cruising , here, in manitoba cruising is a big thing, and my b/f meets with all his male friends, soo, they saw him with this mixed up girl, very mixed up, which also bothers, me as he told me he felt the need to explain to his friends, that he was not cheating on me, when i asked him why he explained that to him, he said cause i know how closed minded people can be, anyways after this cruising last week, he met me, i was crying and felt betrayed, i told him i would also go out then, with guy friends, cruising coffee, whatever, well he said no way, i cant, he said my male friends want more than a cruise or coffee,but last week he agreed to stop seeing her, and to block her on messenger, well this weekend was great, we went camping, had lots of close time, so i get home, he messages me, that this "girl" wants to go cruising again tonight, if i cant go,but i was upset, so then he invited me for a 3 way conversation with her, and told me to tell her im not comfortable with her going out with my b/f, she said i have nothing to worry about, lol, yeah, well then they both ganged up on me, saying im controlling, i shouldnt pick his friends, she even had the nerve to invite me to go cruising with her and my boyfriend, omg, i was shocked, so, anyways he phoned me, gave me heck, told me im being selfish and all. but he would agree not to see her again, anyways, yes we are going cruising tonight, together, without her, but he is upset about this, as he feels im controlling, and says i say i wont let him hang out with his friends, even though he does all the time, soo, who is right plzzz, am i too old fashioned, is he right, should i loosen up, should i say its ok to have female friends to go out with , i need some other point of view on this, if u can help let me know, thanks, debbie