materia_goddess

hey there prince. sounds like your worried that this girl is way superior to you and that you feel over come by this and who you are. she sounds like a terrific girl but everyone has their negatives, and although you might not see them they will be there. dont feel second to her, we are all equal. you sound like a super person, and maturity doesn't define personality. if your interested in her then try talking to her about how you feel. if she's as nice as you say then you'll be absolutely fine. it sounds like she likes you, and dont frighten yourself by weighing up her positives with yours. we are all different but no one is better. it shouldnt be a competition, you should try and see more good in yourself than just in others. i have the same problem where i feel i am "too" nice in public, and because i hold in all of my hostility and then i release it at home. i understand that you are afraid that because you are different at home than you are elsewhere, that this "other" person is who you really are. the truth is you have a choice who you want to be. dont change, but just be yourself everywhere. i may sound hypocritical because i have the same worry that although i wish i could be nice ALL the time, i easily explode at home (perhaps because i know that they "have" to accept and love me no matter what). its best to even out everything, and to not try and be something impossible (eg super nice 24/7). we are allowed our outbursts now and then. so remember that she is no better than you, and she is after all human, so see her as one, and not as some super being. you are just as special, and im sure she knows it.

oh yeah that girls a real sour one alright! just forget about her, she's not worth the scum on your shoe. about the ex, id say he's a more talk and no action person....alot of people are like that these days, but if he tries anything then give him one! my main point is to let you know that not every girl is like this or does this sort of thing. i dont understand why some people do this, but it only reflects on the person not the gender. there are plenty of great gals out there!!

hey music guy im so sorry to hear about your financee, i hope she recovers. its really awful when things like this happen, but unfortuanetly they do. its good to get her to tell someone about this, coz it is illegal and this man should be in prison! im so happy to hear that you will be supporting her, coz im sure she will now need you more than ever. a rape crisis centre is a good idea (or any help for that matter), but make sure she is ready, and dont rush her (im sure you wont). i dont have much advice, other than to say im real sorry this happened and i wish you the best of luck. tell her, (and you too) to just stick in there, and you'll get through it!

i cant take it anymore!!! all this stress..........all this pressure!!!! i always cope with stress bad, and now with the HSC on my back i think im gonna DIE from stress........i cant get space where ever i go.........its surrounding me.......i cant escape it at all........i hate this.......i hate it so much that sometimes i stop breathing coz its so overwelming! i know its not the end of the world, but my parents are putting the pressure on big time......why couldn't i just be smart........i try to study, but even that stresses me out............the other night my dad gave me this talk before i went to bed.......more like a HUGE scary lecture about how if i do bad im gonna be working at Coles for the rest of my life.........and that this will determine my whole future...........about how much work i havent done, the time i've wasted, and how everyone else is gonna fly right by me, and im gonna end up on the street. i tried to hold it in till he left......i almost cried right there...........why cant he understand that i have a stress problem.....he knows this....im even seing a doctor about it....but yet he pushes the bar.........my heart hurts.......i hurt all over........i wish my problem was about breaking up with my boyfriend or something......ANYTHING but this...........i dont want to do this.........please dear god i dont want to go into that exam room......i dont think i can do this.........someone please help me........i feel so alone right now.......