lady_android

well, I know you've been badly hurt because you've loved the girl too much. It sounds to me that somebody here is not over yet. Look, maybe you've not yet fully admitted to yourself that you've been treated like that because your ego was hurt and everything happened was very embarrassing for you...but you gotta let it go, think that its not your loss, its theirs..you believe in karma? you shouln't waste your love and your time for a girl like that. She's selfish and immature. No Regrets, that's the best thing! And believe that someone better out there is instore for you... Goodluck and enjoy life! hope this helped a little! Peace out! 8)

I think she was badly hurt with what you did. You can't blame her, she's probaly thinking about it right now whether to bear with you or not because you left her hanging when she was having troubles of her own. Maybe you both need some time right now on making your decisions, you've got to settle some issues here and the wound is still fresh on her part so let her have some space. And if you must, explain how you're feeling right now and about what happened. good luck. ciao.

so why did you two broke up? maybe there you can figure out why she reacted like that. I thought you've let go of her already? or maybe, she just needed some time and space for whatever..just let her think about it.

hmm....are you sure that you're really inlove with her? well, based on your story the girl seemed to have fallen for you so deeply...why did you reject her? make up your mind. "...you don't know what you got till its gone? " anyway, you're both still young and you'll meet a lot of girls out there. if she's meant for you, you'll find each other eventually! Peace out! 8)

Just curious! hi guys, I was just wondering...does love really fade away? Is it possible that your love for someone whom you gave your whole heart and soul could fade away just like that? or for someone whose been your first love? or if ever if you've been with that person for a very long time and then suddenly you're feeling that your love for him/her continues to lessen?....

actually, that depends on the situation... like i had this ex of mine and he cheated on me thrice..haha! now that's a real issue! i don't know if you can trust someone again with that kind of attitude even if you love him that much...especially if you continued your relationship with that person and you always forgive him and tolerate what he's been doing to you. i mean its not a good thing anymore, it isnt love anymore, its called cheating and stupidity. me, i always get jealous and hurt then so i decided not to reconcile with him again ever! coz that is enough...TRUST is something to be gained and not to be ruined coz once you broke that trust, it is very difficult to get it back! Peace out! 8)

Girl I think that all may be a challenge for you two, how much you love each other and how strong is your relationship. And you must also decide whether you want to enter in that kind of situation and if you can handle it that way..if you choose to stick to your commitment with him then just accept everything about him, the ex-wife, the kids etc. And know what's in his mind if he really wanted to be with you forever. You wouldn't want what had happened to his wife and you wouldn't to get a divoce too do ya? im sure that you would to have a nice family of your own someday right? peace out!

Hi there people.. I would like to share my problems with you guys. Ok, I've been in a 7-year relationship and my boyfriend broke up with me 4mos. ago. What's hurts me most is that it was after our ANNIVERSARY and before my BIRTHDAY! He told me that his feelings continue to lessen and he wouldn't want to lie to me anymore. 1 week after the break-up I found out that he has another girl! Then one of his friends confide to me that they've been together even before our break-up. OUCH! in short, he two-timed me. Oh and just for the record, he did it to me twice already. For the first two months I was able to recover from it but as time passes, I'm starting to realize that its not very easy to get over him. There are times that he would call me up and say that he misses me...I would really want to forget about him but I'm very close to his family and to some of his friends too. He's the only person I've ever loved...But my mind's been tellin me to let him go because my friends told me that he's not worth it. I do miss him a couple of times but I guess everybody passes through that stage...The thing is, I'm really bothered..because he would call me up and text me sometimes which I don't want him to do. i still love him, I'm still hurtin'...everytime I talk to him I just get disappointed because I always say to him that I've always wished him well so I'm hoping that he'll be doing the same for me but he would be tellin me that he still loves me and that he misses me so much, you know, those kinds of stuff! I think that he shouldn't be tellin me those things because it would be very hard for me to move on. He just won't let me be..and until now he hasn't admitted to me yet of what he did and I haven't got any apologies from him too, instead he would blame me for being so jealous and unappreciative before when we were still together. Its like his defense mechanism for his guilt. I don't know what else to do, his attitude is starting to irritate me and I'm losing my grip...HELP!!!

Hi there peolple.. I would like to share my problems with you guys. Ok, I've been in a 7-year relationship and my boyfriend broke up with me 4mos. ago. What's hurts me most is that it was after our ANNIVERSARY and before my BIRTHDAY! He told me that his feelings continue to lessen and he wouldn't want to lie to me anymore. 1 week after the break-up I found out that he has another girl! Then one of his friends confide to me that they've been together even before our break-up. OUCH! in short, he two-timed me. Oh and just for the record, he did it to me twice already. For the first two months I was able to recover from it but as time passes, I'm starting to realize that its not very easy to get over him. There are times that he would call me up and say that he misses me...I would really want to forget about him but I'm very close to his family and to some of his friends too. He's the only person I've ever loved...But my mind's been tellin me to let him go because my friends told me that he's not worth it. I do miss him a couple of times but I guess everybody passes through that stage...The thing is, I'm really bothered..because he would call me up and text me sometimes which I don't want him to do. i still love him, I'm still hurtin'...everytime I talk to him I just get disappointed because I always say to him that I've always wished him well so I'm hoping that he'll be doing the same for me but we would be tellin me that he still loves me and that he misses me so much, you know, those kinds of stuff! I think that he shouldn't be tellin me those things because it would be very hard for me to move on. He just won't let me be..and until now he hasn't admitted to me yet of what he did and I haven't got any apologies from him too, instead he would blame me for being so jealous and unappreciative. Its like his defense mechanism for his guilt. I don't know what else to do, his attitude is starting to irritate me and I'm losing my grip...HELP!!!