wimmie the pooh

well it's from MILLENCOLIN a Swedish punk band. If u want u can add me at your msn and i can send it to you

well, yeah i could use some advise for gaining weight. Loosing weight is not really nessesairy for me. Thx anyway!

here's a song i found.I think a lot of people here can recognise them in it... Please read it and tell me what u think of it: MILLENCOLIN "A Ten" I'm holding you as you feel scared and small. You've lost someone you love and it's her you're thinking of. It's all that matters to you right now and it will be like this for long. I'll be close to you, won't hide 'cause I know you need me by your side. You wanna see her back again. You wanna see her back into this world. The past few months have been the toughest of your life. You've lost someone you love and there's no greater pain above. I know how close you were you two and the joy and love you shared. It was sweet for me to see, but now it's aching inside me. If only she could see you now. Deep inside I think she can somehow. She'd be the happiest mom, she'd be so proud. She'd laugh and smile. -Shut up you're dreaming! You're screaming at me loud. And that's the way you really feel. Back into this world...

u wanna give up on the crush??? whoaw, i wish my ex did that to the guy she is with now.If she did we would still be together!! She had a relation with me for five years. and u don't. u r single. So i ask myself, if u like that guy, why would u give up? Just be yourself and see what happens. W.

well, im in a kinda same situation... Wel im 23 and i didnt made it this year in school.But becaus i have to pay for everything for myself i have to work so i can afford it to redo my last year. Well i don't have that many dept, but i shurely do undrstand it's hard to get out of it! If u don't have enough money, u'll heve to go lend it from everywhere, and if u don't or can't repay it when they say u must, it's verry possible that you'll get into a fight or something. Money is something dangerous if u don't watch out. U can mae friends with it, but u defenetly make enemys with it too. That's why i try not to lend someone money.But then again if u need it and u dont have it... well,I would say to you, keep trying or it only get worse. i hope it can help you.

whoaw, this is soo true, i like that sentence!!

well, if u two would get back together, i would wach out carefully how your relationship evoluates.If a woman "may" go with another man from her bf (even once), she probably thinks like, i could do it then, so why can't i do it now? Well maybe this is not the correct way to explain myself, but i mean that you'll have to make yourself clear to your gf what's ok for you and what not. And if you ever suspects something u HAVE THE RIGHT to get an explenation for it. well, that's what i think... dontknow if other r agree with it, so take it for what it's worth W.

and what i can say from my expiriances is: if she sais i love u, know that she means that she loves you ON THAT MOMENT! maybe tomoorow she gets home and tells you she's leaving u or something. I dont say u 2 r gonna breakup, i only say that a girl wants to hear nice and sweet words and when someone els says those sweet words on the right time to her, u could loose her. So if u want to stay with her, talk to her a lot!!

will i have to say, right now, i still do want to be friends with my ex. We had been together for five years and for me the break up was totally unaspected! When she told me to leave 'cause she needed time, i still wanted to do everything to get her back.She was m best friend, she was my SOULMATE, really! aargh why r women so cruel? so right now i do wanted to be friends with her, BUT then we will talk abolut all of this firsyt becaus u don't treat friends like that either!!

i think for me the hardest part is over.I know we're not geting back together, but SHE asked to stay friends, because our relationship of five years did mean a lot to her and she don't want to loose me completely, she said. But slill, when we meet on the internet on mIRC she is so aggressive and if i don't wach out what i type and how i react, we would have a fight or she would just leave the chat session(which she already did once). ALthough, yesterday i saw her in town, and she was soo nice and sweet and understanding to me. What's the problem with women?? She said "she doesn't has anything to say to me, becaus i am who i am" and so she don't want to talk about our relationship anymore or about the wa she broke up! First we would talk about everything on friday(because she needed time to see for herself what r the feelings for me and for that other guy, but she went all the time to that other guy) but on one moment she couldn't friday anymore so she told me wednesday online that it's over, but that she wants t o stay friends.And she told she had time again on monday. When i saw her on mIRC on thurseday, she said "monday?? what is going to happen on monday???" so monday she can't either and now it's on next wednesday we'll meet (but only to talk about the commonm stuff). And i hope it stays wednesday. She broke up with me and that is still pretty hard, and it looks like she just dont want to see mee again. Why did she became such a bitch? Why doesnt she want to talk to me? It's not like our relationship was so ***ed up or something. We where best friends! i really could tell her ebverything anytime!! so why don't she want to talk about it anymore and why is she so angry about on me??? I have the feeling that she wants to give herself the feeling, that the end of our relationship is mostely my fault.Although i wanted to fight 4 our relatioonship and she don't. and that she can't face me because in some way she knows she is the one who broke up and hurted me and not otherwise. is that possible?

well, right now i think thaat u just have to be there for her as a friend. Stick with her and show her u care about her. Right now she needs time to forget het ex-bf and i can imagine she dn't want to jump into another relationship right now. If u are good friends, u can try to tell it to her. But off course u'll have to find the right moment for thatt, and that's different for everybody. i only can say: if u really like this girl, don't give up, but don't start to stalk her or something!! greetz wimmie

well, nothing so far... and I lalked about it with her mother, and she said she would try to talk to her.But i dont know when she's gonna give any reaction to me. Today is her final exam, after it she goes with her friends and new bf to a pub to drink something, after that they're gonna party, and trhey're going in the weekend with a truck to France (we're from belgium) to a GOA-party. So she will be partying all weekend and told me she will have time wednesday. So first it was friday, that became monday and now it's wednesday. Do u have the idea too that she's playing with my balls? What do i have to do? Do i really have to acceot everything what's happening like it is a normal thing?? or is it a normal thing maybe? i don't know anymore, really!! so please

true, but the only thing is that i dont see positive things yet, so i guess i have to give it more time

indeed its beatiful, but in a lot of situations they WILL let u down too!!!! and that's sad, but also damn true!

not really no... ok everybody has his pain, but the pain of others doesn't make my pain less! it's always that girl in my thoughts!

thx! i'll let u know if it helped and if i get any reaction!

wel, i gave het time, but she almost was all the time with this other guy. When she got home(late) she had to study 4 her exams. Now that i'm left, she's even home later, so i think she's with him more often. But when she's with him, she only forgets me more, and prob likes him more, or am i completely wrong in this?

thx segagirl! That was exactly wat i was trying to do because i knew this woudnt solve anything! so that's why i told her about that idea too bad she didn't read it i really still like this girl a lot and don't want to hurt her, but i don't want to let her mess with me either, u know? it really isnt easy to do the right thing i wonder if i shoudl send her tomorrow before noon an sms to which her luck with her last exam and to explain what i meant? or is itbetter to leave her alone 'till she contacts me again?

thx 4 the help on my post "please help me with this one" Now at least i know where i stand. Yesterday, when she told me (online) that it's over, she said i had to go get my clothes there today and asked what we should do about the stuff that we bought together(like cd's, pc-games, playstaytion2,...) and i told her that i prefer to talk about those things in personal.So today i went 4 my clothes, and already putted some of MY cd's in a box in a corner. This evening she came online again, but was kinda angry. She said: what the *** are we doing??? What has happened here? so i told her i went for my clothes like she asked and that i already putted some cds in a box.She this all the cds that u r leaving for me??? So i said again, i like to talk about those thing in personal.And off course, we started to argue about our stuff(like i-want-that-cd-and-u'll-get-those-two-bullshit) so i told het again i rather talk this over in personal that through the internet. But then she started to argue about what actually went wrng in our relationship (like didnt gave me much attention lately huh me: but didn't i had to let you study for your exams?", or "she your gf smsses almost the whole evening then u have to know that there's something wrong, me i gave u trust and normally if something is wrong we tell eachother, no?" I really didn't like this so i said: i have an idea and she was like ok, tell me 1.we let this rest for a couple of weeks or months and we'll talk about our relationship later in personal 2.in the meantime, we'll try to be nice to eachother and try to not to talk about our relationship so we can work the 'this is mine' part more easeyly and less painfull for both But the only problem is that she went offline before i typed "2". I think she went offline because she was too pissed off.And is it possible that she was that pissed off because i didn't gave her imediatly what she wanted? does anyone know how we can work this out so this won't drive us more apart from argueing? PS/ if im online i like to chat 'bout it, talking really helps!

she said it was better to tell me like this, becaus i, and she prob too, wouldnt be strong enough to talk about it in real life.She said we would end up crying together.But then again, first she said we would talk friday, and now she is gone from friday till mondaymorning with het uncle and his friends(the guy she fell on is a friend of her uncle).So now she sais we'll see when we meet again, but i really don't want to loose u. In the night that has passed after she told me, i made a drawning of her, and i wrote a letter to explain how i felt on that moment.I didnt gave her the drawning but i did left het the letter. The next day i called her, but because i was so insecure of what was going to happen after a while i started crying. Yesterday, she said the letter was a good way, and helped a bit, but the call only worked the opposite way. So now i only can wait. i planned to put roses on her bed with on every rose a reason why i love her, but now i'm not going to do that. I think i only can cool it down and hope she 'll call me

hi im a 23 y old guy and i had a relationship for almost five years with a girl i still love. But last monday she came home verry late, told me she had feelings 4 someone else and that i had to go back to my mother's place to sleep t'ill friday.After she told that to me, she went downstairs to study some more and didn't came back upstairs. So the next day she already was gone when i got up. And i had to go back to my mothers place (bweirk ) so the next two days i don't here anything from her, and the only thing i know is that she has feelings for someone else.But i had no idea who or how long or what was going to happen.She said we would talk on friday. Yesterdayevening(wednesday)she came online with msn, and told me that it's over between us!She told me who the other guy was, and she told me that she don't want to loose me as a friend, because five years ain't nothing. But she also told me that the time that i was home alone with all my questions, that she stayed with that other guy and that she felt for him becaus he sended her a lot of sweet sms messeges and that that was the cause that she felt for him. So what happened for me? First i got to hear that from one second to another, that i have to leave the house, and that she don't want to see me anymore 'till friday.Next she left me two days without letting something know from herself, she didn't answered my calles or sms. And yesterdayevening she tells me through MSN that our relationship is completely over and that i have to go get my stuff as soon as possible. I don't know if this is only my opinion, but i think that this is not a correct way to tell all that to someone u love(d), is it? She told me she melted 4 him because of the smsses, but that everything still can chenge. And because i still love her with all my body, i want to do everything i can to get her back. Right now, i think it's better to let everything cool down for a while. but i'll do anything to get her with me again. So now i wonder what orthers think of it, and if u have ANY suggestions (to get her back or to not loose her), please tell me!! Greetz broken heart wimmie