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Z~ I think you should ask her to leave yourt belonging wherever you are comfortable retrieving them from. (within reason, I don't think you should choose the mouth of an active volcano or anything, knowing she will have to go first!)lol. This is where you and I have something in common. My ex used to also work here, before she went back to school. The first time we broke up we worked here together. it suck, it sucked so bad to break up with someone you work with. You get no relief! Ask her to put it where ever you want it and don't think twice about it. Thats my take.
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I could stay in our old place either, just couldn't do it.... I got my own apartment after staying with friends in what those same friends and I now refer to as my "rehab period" lol. But seriously I was very depressed. It was better for me to be around people. I never tired the underware thing, who knew. lol
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Morning Desert~how goes it? Beebee, good to hear from you as well. How's goes it Z? Camber~well hello! Camber while I am happy for you because you are such a great guy, I am a little concered about the timing of this new realtionship. Please be very careful, I think maybe you are very vunderable right now, and I also worry a bit for the feeling of this new woman as things are so fresh and unresolved with your marriage. I urge you to tread very carefully with this as I worry about someone getting hurt. Having said that, you seem like a super guy who deserves someone in their life who makes them very happy and I am glad you have found someone to share yourself and your feelings with and of whom you are obviously very fond of.
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Hi John, It's all very normal, everything you are feeling and everything you are doing are all normal. You are not a monster you are a good man who has been hurt. Just continue to be honest with this other woman. She will understand. If she does not she has not been listening anyway. Please stop sleeping in your car John. It's just not healthy or safe. It won't resolve a thing. If the house is full of ememories, change the house, even if it is just long enough for you to recover. If you cannot bare to get rid of things, don't, you don't have to, but store them. Move the bed inot ther living room if you need to, buy a new comforter...whatever it takes. You're so hard on yourself, and you deserve to be so happy. I hope this day gets better for you and you find yourself feeling wonderful just knowing how cared about you really are.
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Whoops, how did that happen? Anyway as I was saying, Z, I am sure that wasn't what you wanted to hear, but hey, you have been doing a little dating yourself right? Besides, how's she going to wallow all around sorry for what she lost, if she has nothing to compare you to. Try to shake it off, nurse the head. lol
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Morning folks~I'm so tired MJ keeps me up at night playing! Last night, she lost a toy mouse between my bed and the wall...at 1:45 am...well, I'm you can imagine...have I meanyioned how fat MJ is? lol Z~i'M SURE THAT WASN
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Hi Joyl. Bravo Terk2021! well said. I agree. NC will give you the space you need to heal. You will begin to move on ....slowly but forward. Take good care Lone
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ohhhh yeah...me to Sandy. I think I'm going to allow myself to slow down a bit tonight, I think I am tired enough that the mind won't wonder.
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Oh lord, I'd never get a darn thing done!! (I work for the largest fastener distributor in the world, how boring is that...but hey did someone say they needed nuts?) Thats us~ "Holding the world together, one nut at a time." (just kidding, thats not our slogan...lol)
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World largest Booze company.....???? (lifts an eyebrow) Yeah they can clean it up AFTER we're all gone!!
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Hi Desert!! (...mumble... cat...) Why yes, Z and Kelo are cooking and baking!!! (with rum!!!! yippeee!) Pull up a shot glass and stay awhile.
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LOL!!! Love it Z~~good stuff!!!
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Oh I see...you put rum in it!! Oh make mine a BIG slice then please!
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I don't know if I like mince pie...Humm. I like food in general though (lol)so the chances are pretty darn good. Yes Z ~I believe I will. Cut me a slice please
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I am doing well thanks (although not quite as well as you Mr. Stud Muffin! lol) But I am very glad to hear your self confidence is on the rise!! Working out is great for everything isn't it?It's good for the body and the mind (since it boosts the sertonin level) and it does to wonders for the self esteem! (not to meantion getting out anger in apostive way!) I'm so glad things are well for you today Z! (gotta get me a magic somethin...maybe a magic hat...!)
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Z, Camber? You guys doing okay?
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Hi Sandy! Hanging in and hangin on huh? You can do it! Desert, where are you? Cat?
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John, no wet lashes at all...and I actually think you are doing very well. All one would need to do is read back on your posts. I just wanted to point out to you where are minds keep us sometimes, thats all. Everything you are going through, everything you are feeling, it's all so very normal. We are all hurting and "paying the price" for not letting go, but letting go is a process, it won't happen overnight. (oh how we wish) I know you don't want to let go~but evenually you will make the decision to act on what you already know,that you must in order to heal. Some of us do so because we cannot stand the pain any longer. So of us do so because we know we want more. Some people find another relationship ( although I do not think that is the answer until we are healed) and some, simply let go after the passing of time. In some cases, a very long time I think.
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whoops "We have get to the point I think where we can accept that we see the stars without them...for me thats called letting go and it may just be the scariest part of it all." try that...
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Good Morning, John~we have missed you! I'm sorry you are struggling. Having read your post this morning I have do have a few questions for you. " miss you my love... even on a clear night; I can’t see the stars without you. " Thats beautiful John, it is. And I know the part of you that loves her and is hurts truly feels that. BUT... Is it true? (I'm pretty sure you can really still see the stars on a clear night) And do you realize that those are the type of thoughts that will keep you in agony? Also, coming into this year were they truly clear? Are things ever truly clear? Or did you just not know the road ahead? Last year I anticapated how my life would be this year. I was wrong. This year I am antipating how my life will be again. Who knows~what I do know is that it's up to me. It's in my hands, it always was and I just forgot. We have get to the point I think where we can accept that we see the starts without them...for me thats called letting go and it may just be the scariest part of it all.
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I'm outta here for the day kiddo's, if you see any of the folks who haven't shown up in a while ask them to check in with us, okay? Keep it between the ditches~ Lone
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Dang Sandy he must have really showed his A**!! Well wishing bad things on our ex's isn't really going to change anything anyway so...but ohhhh if I had a vodoo doll, and knew how to use it!!!
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That cat owes me allot of beer Desert. (of course I don't think I'll bring that up to cat jussssst now) How about "all I want for Chistmas is my two front teeth, Doc." By Buggs Bunny? Do you like that one Sandy? ehhhh, I hope my ex has a rash or something right now...lol!!
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Bahhhh I think I could handle that porky pig one too, but thats it!!
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I'm not wearing those, they ride.