and i thought only us have these serious problems with men... well, first of all, i think you are an adorable person and very much likeable. as for your question; "how do you know when someone really likes you?" in my own opinion, those girls really like you and it is evident in all those attention and those glances that you are getting. however, what you're really asking is if they are interested in you. well, having to agree to go on a date with you is one thing for sure that she is interested and lying in bed with you for a cuddle is another. so you see, it's really easy to detect but what's hard to do is getting our attention. you sure got her attention already, so what you need to do is to get to know each other better. take it slowly like you said.
i don't think you should wait for her to call you. your the guy, make the move and call her. invite her for another date. who knows, she's just waiting for you to do so. if she isn't, then when you call her you'll get her answer right away. rather than wait for nothing.
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