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ARabbitGod

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  1. How does teen porn make it different any ways teen porn is more like tv teen roles, chances they are nineteen are very low they are more like twenty four... personalty I would find it more sick if he was looking at grandmothers. As for how much porn is too much porn... how much exercise is too much exercise? How much food is too much food? How much drinking is too much drinking? As soon as it starts to effect what it is that you want to do and what you want to be and starts to hurt those things then it is too much. PS: something with no personal advancement value at all isn't good for you by its very nature, but it isn't costing you much more than time. Then that is all you have isn't it.
  2. Jealousy is a form of control. It also has the additional connotation of being immature. So are you overly domineering? Do you ever call her names or suggest anything to make her feel bad about herself? Have you ever hit her, or threatened to hit her, or used any other form of intimidation to get your way? If the above answers are yes then you are too domineering, and that is much worse than being jealous once in a while. It is bad to be jealous but what you do when jealous is really bad (unless it's nothing). You should tell her you don't want her going out with a bunch of drunk friends who are still looking for their man. You are right there is an attitude about the clubs, go with her that would be nice but she shouldn't be going out alone to clubs often. If that is the sort of thing she is set on doing that would not make me mad... It would just make me think it isn't worth me getting mad, as a matter of fact she wouldn't be worth thinking about at all. Your girl seems to have made sacrifices for you. If you are dominating... you should ask yourself why does she put up with it? If your domination is as extreme as you think then she would probably have low self esteem and depressive tendances or she would be out of there in a flash. If she has low self esteem and is looking for her ego fix where ever she can (I'm sure everyone has met one of those girls) then you do have reason to be worried. If someone cheated on you in the past, why? Were you overly controlling then too? Why did you pick someone who would cheat on you without the backbone to tell you she wants to leave. I didn't tell you what to do but there should be enough here to think about. Now if you are in a relationship with a very mature girl and none of this makes sense... then your canary isn't dead and you dont need to worry.
  3. I guess you were looking for some magic cure... it is very rare for one to hop along... guess what one did! (I am not joking... I do have to say that because I most always am being a bit of an * * *). There is this tree that has a bark that does the same job as Viagra (with additional sexual benefits), now if you are not getting exercise and have been getting off before seeing your girl well try to avoid that but even so this stuff looks very interesting. It is called Yohimbe Bark, there is information on wikipedia (including chemical) and many web sites if you do a search for it. There are also extracts but they are said to be crap by some people so the best would be to get the bark. They say it tastes horrible and 5-6 ground teaspoons should do it. No I have never tried the stuff. I recommend you do your own research. If you do try it let me know! It is damn interesting I am thinking of ordering some just to have a conversation piece.
  4. You have tried not getting off until you see her? I think after a few days to a week this issue should not be an issue. Also if you can get off, you can get off... so you know it isn’t ED. BTW, if you can get off and it wouldn’t take long to find out, don’t! Save it for her instead of getting the goat pills. If it works then it must be in your head and what are the goat pills going to do? If you think it is stress try exercise. Go running that morning. It is a great way to reduce stress. Prescription: Rigorous exercise (cardio) + no getting off.
  5. If you don't tell people anything how are they going to relate to you? And by relate I suppose you mean in a positive way.
  6. I sat in on information session for a company that does Internet research. I forget the exact numbers but for men looking at porn but it was between 80%-90% and for women was 40% and 60%. For men viewing hours ranged greatly for women the most frequent hours were between 2:00 am and 6:00am during the hours when no one is awake. The information was gathered from home users who subscribed to an Internet service who surfed though proxy servers, that means that nothing was hidden (it is as if your Internet provider had bugged you). The numbers were for all ages. Does this seem to mean it is normal? Yes btw if it is child porn... this is not normal and he is a freak. This didn't used to happen in the past because there was no Internet. If you throw the computer out he will still think of these things. You just have insight into the male mind that you didn't have before. Since it disagrees with you I would recommend not looking. If you decide that you cant live with a sex that thinks this way... perhaps you should consider women.
  7. For a guy being jealous is about how he handles certain situations. For the non jealous type... it is not a sign of high trust in the relationship it has much more to do with his values. The non jealous does value trust very highly and is very rational but that is not necessarily how he sees you. He is almost impossible to threaten and feels relationships are about finding strength from working together. They tend to be responsible, serious, introverted and very loyal. They see things which make most people jealous as violations of trust and become increasingly distant. Such a person may tolerate this unless they are driven to prove their 'love' by being bothered to performing petty actions to a person they are distant towards (they would feel like they are being jerked around by an irrational child). These non jealous people tend to be very sensitive to the attitudes of people and are often very intuitive. If you want a stable secure relationship that is what they desire and everything will be peaches. If you want someone to 'train' you like a parent-lover, then find a more jealous type.
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