Ok, Ive been chatting with a guy for about 3 1/2 years maybe a little longer, maybe 4 years. We met through designing websites. He lives in another country. I live in the US. Weve been good friends and recently its become more. We have both sent eachother pix. We both really want to meet eachother face to face and hopefully have a realtionship. My question is am I being unrealistic? Am I being too much of an idealist to think that an online relationship could work? I really think it could we have so much in common. He wants to move to the US. And maybe be my room mate. But I cant do that b/c i will be living in the dorms @ college. But We are trying to find a way to meet up. I havent told my parents or any of my friends they will think Im stupid or something. I'd just like an opinion about this.