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If ur involved with someone that is a good person inside and out but things just haven't been working well and the person that wants to end it says "I will cut my losses"....What exactly does that mean when that person wasa good??? I get a bit confused to this terminology...whats ur opinion to this phrase?

Thanks to all!

I want a relationship but he doesnt want one right now. BUT we do not see other people but we are not an "item" soooooo bothersome!!!

I have been dating my guy for 4 months now but he's not my "man".... is 4 months too soon/early to even think about a "relationship"?

lick his anus until he moans!!!!

suck and lick his * * * * * * *...that would rock his world for sure...TRUST ME!!

I feel the distance in evry way...no phone calls anymore/txt messages, no initiating going out all unless I do it. Im so lost and sad right now and I cant do this anymore! Tonight when I speak to him im going to have to bring this whole issue up tho I dread doing so but its just something that I have to bring up and put whats going on on the table! Dating 4 months anad the distance began last month. He recently went on a cruise with his "fam" and when he got off the cruis in Florida not even a phone call to me BUIT of course like an idiot i called him...we spoke 2 seconds cuz I felt the distance from him to me...gotta say something....but how do I start?

Thank you all soooo much! I have to say taht i can say we are "exclusive" he takes me everywhere with him. I met his friends, I have gone to occasions with him, his cop friends and sargent have met me. He introduces me as his "girl" but I just ignore that he says that and dont say anything to him in regard to that statement i leave it alone as if it were okay...(bad move) but i just dont want to open another can of worms. Hes a man and they all do that....but yea i guess i have to do what i gotta do but now as time is going its getting harder to end it

When dating how long is enough of "dating" and time to move on to a relationship? I have been dating this one guy going on 4 months and when I mention us as "one" he tells me to just take it slow and see what happens. Now im thinking is he going to say this 6 months down the line too? Am I wasting my time cuz he knows im a serious girl that wants a relationship. He has told me from the start that he didn't want a relationship and that he takes one say at a time and sees where it goes? What should I do? Talks happened already and it was said that we stay just seeing one another only sooooo I feel like im heading to hearbreak central!!! L

i have brought up the dating scene and what if I was dating another guy...he was like your're going to do what u want but i dont want u to forget about me....ugggghhh!! im sooo frustrated!!

well it just turned 2months that i have been dating him...and i do feel a bit hesistant to bring up the topic since I already spoke about once a month ago. I agree that I should date other guys but the question is would I have the guts to tell him???Thats what is bothering me when im with him I dont want the day to end b/c when he walks out the door/vice versa the thoughts in my head are still there how im feeling hes not the one for me but i just cant let go! oh god am i ina rut!

Im going to make this short and sweet...Im seeing this guy for 2 months and I have a great time when im with him and all BUT he doesnt want a relationship...It's like I wasnt to ends the whole seeing him thing but then again I dont ...I really see heartache for me down the road if I stay...im soooo confused...I dont want to let him go but am I seriously wasting my time since I want a relationship??? Im going crazy and dont know what to do!! Any advice??? I cant take this anymore!! BTW...he tells me to just take things day by day and just enjoy the ride...he tells me to stop analyzing everything...i just cant sit here and know that hes not ready for a relationship at this time but he does want to stick with me...like * * *!!!

who knows....I really dont pay attention to that kind of stuff its not of importance to me...I just post when I want to....

Firstly...its his house that he bought...It has nothing to do with family and he is very stable with his family. Secondly, he is not my boyfriend im just seeing him and its only been a lil over a month...He's an undercover narcotics Police Officer...My avatar has been the same for nearly 3 yrs that i have been on this site....

His behavior is really driving me insane!! His mood swings and all!! I hate to always be the one bringing up anything or mentioning the fact of us seeing each otherm etc...he's going through some stuff with his home in Florida..the tenants and bull crap and he really has not been in the best of moods and doesnt want to be bothered...I told him that i'll leave him alone and he said I dont want u to do that but I want u to stop pushing it. He says that he feels that im pushing us seeing one another and i said where is this going and he says that it is going somewhere to just let him take care and worry about his main priorities right now and that he's not in the right state of mind for anything else...hes just concerned with his home...etc...his actions and mood is driving me insane...should I deal with it and just wait for him to come to me when hes ready OR should I slowly drift away??I dont know what to do. Friends tell me that i could so so much better than dating a Narc cuz they are crazy! I like him but im starting to have mixed feelings....help me please

Thank you guyes sooooooo much!!! I appreciate each and every comment! You guys made me feel more at ease! Thanks!

It takes so much for me to cum while having sex. It takes anything to turn me off. Too much talking,he touches my spot but then starts moving his body another way,I start to think of other things....it just sucks....he gets angry and says i never cum and if i do it takes forever...do u think that turns him off? I cant help it....If something turns me off i'm turned off for the rest of the time...dont know what to do

thank you...I will keep you posted

wow!! Kellbell....im reading ur reply and ur soooooooooooooooo right!! Though I feel as if im in denial for doing such meaning my past actions with the ex and the feelings and all taht...I hate this sooo much! You have no idea!!!! I willl not contact him and I will wait for a response and see what he says....welll i have to say i am eased a bit that i didnt mess up ...i hope.....

I just feel like I was acting a lil too much like a girlfriend...ya know...welll; to be honest i met him online and i see all the time comments that these girls post and i do get jealous but he tells me that he has so many friends on the site and that for me not to put so much attention into that....he has a jealous streak as well in regard to me being on the site but thats besides the point....bottom line is i do have a bit of insecurity with seeing him but I guess im only human and its natural to feel such way. In regard to "bachelor" i meant it just as that . Hes single and has been single for a while and has many friends but choose to date me and soley me....so u think i didnt mess up anything? It was a psycho move to send him such message? I dont know im such a pessimistic and I hate it sometimes

In regard to the guy that im seeing everything is nice so far but I think I messed up. I personally was feeling that I was doing things so quickly like cooking for him wanting to buy him things and just treating him like a b/f….honestly that is just me and I cant change who I am and wont. He's been very appreciative but I just to sent him an email stating how I don't want to overwhelm him with the type of woman I am so early . We've been seeing each other for a month. I told me that I know he's a bachelor and is just taking things slow and though he hasn't complain I feel a load off my chest b/c I expressed to him how I feel and I don't want to sway him away by my actions so on and so forth. Was doing this a bad move?? Now im hesitant to even speaking wit him. I feel I did nothing wrong. Since I treat him like a b/f and I totally devote and commit myself to him I asked him if he wanted otherwise lke for me not to do that and to see other people as well….i don't know…these days u just cant tell and I just couldn't tell lwith this one so I respectfully sent him the email…. I would like to hear from u guys whether I messed up by doing this with him not even showing any signs of negativity towards us….

I know for a fact that im NOT scaring him off but have him wanting me more and more

i never told him that i miss him and he told me I never expressed myself to him in the sense that he would think anything...he knows i like him like i know the same for him....so i guess its just one of those things where i just have to keep on being me and not changing anything

I have been seeing this guy and he's great! I met him online and everything is flowing nicely. He left to Florida to vist his fam and will be back on Saturday and im being him up from the airport. He has many friends online and honestly it bothers me a bit but hey I jusy have to cope with it and make sure everything remains civil….he called me from Fl to say that he misses me so on and so forth. We already discussed that we will be celebrating V-Day on Sat upon his return. Now my question to u all tho it seems like everything is good how can I maintain it and keep it clean and fresh? Well im not one to call all the time or ask questions which he respects and lovews that about me that's y I don't even want to bring up the site….I really want to move fwd with him…can it happen? What should be done?

Thanks guys but should I just cut everything off..I mean we are dating and all BUT this is not for me! I cant even focus at this moment! I guess u just cant trust anyone!! Should I continue or not? And no im not on any bc .........