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  1. MrLonely
    The thing is she did say that if i got my crap together, we would be perfect. She just a) doesnt want a relationship right now and b) i have to prove it to her. She is still asking if i am seing anyone, etc...."were you actually out with her..." that kind of thing... With all she said, it feels so much more.
  2. MrLonely
    Simply for me, i am still madly in love with her.
  3. MrLonely
    Simply stated, why do they call. The ex called me last night, out of the blue, to wish me good luck on my exams. I havn't spoken to her in a week since she told me she wants "her cake and eat it too", that she loves me, is worried that she will loose me, interested in somone else, thats she is just plain confused. She has told me she doesn't know what she wants, and thats it. So, why do they call out of the blue? She immediately went offline last time she told me her feelings, and now, she says she wants to take it easy. Just seemed weird having her call...she could have msgme...
  4. MrLonely
    No experience yet - just hopin'
  5. MrLonely
    How about kissing her breasts and nipples
  6. MrLonely
    She wants her cake and eat it too, although in my situation, my ex actually told me that. Don't let yourself be used, like I did. It just hurts more in the end. If you really do care, NC is best. That way, your not being pulled around with her emotions.
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    I dont want to ever forget the little things i had with my ex, they still bring a smile to my face, followed immediately by a frown and a tear.
  8. MrLonely
    I see you point.... Mine is saying she is too confused, just doesn't want to loose me (worried about that) but doesn't want to miss out on the oppurtunity with this other guy (who is not that interested since he is still in love with his ex). I attribute most of it to her immaturity, she has never been hurt, never been a long relationship other than us. But do we still want them back?
  9. MrLonely
    Some guys will play hard to get, but you can test their "interest" by moving on. If you stop calling and move on, and he really is interested, then he will come running back.
  10. MrLonely
    Same situation here, she told me that she wants her cake and eat it too . If they really cared about us the way we do them, i guess they wouldn't do it.
  11. MrLonely
    Your right, nothing good can come of it i guess....
  12. MrLonely
    Ohh...right! She ended our conversation with "Dont hate me, it's not worth it". What on earth?
  13. MrLonely
    Wow trueheart your almost in the same boat as me! link removed Although, our bridge is not totally gone, she told me that she "wants to have her cake and eat to". Not sure what to do - but i'm following your thread
  14. MrLonely
    Man, i hate seeing her online now - she isn't mssging me since her "honesty" speal two nights ago. I know it's only 2 days, and i went 3 weeks before...it just feels weird again after hanging out and her saying all that stuff. I dont want to msg her, she probably thinks i am mad at her. Is this a bad thing that she told me?
  15. MrLonely
    This is gonna be hard all over again.... When we were talking, i was asking her if she truly ment what she said, about blaming me for crap (after breakup blaming) - she said she ment none of it! What kills is the yo-yo effect. She is all over me one minute, the next weird. I love you and what you around because i dont want to risk somthing that might happen with us, yet the "party is coming up and the new guy might be there and somthing might happen", yet "you and i are done for good..." then "i dont want to ruin the possibility".... Shoot me! I do want to be her friend and see her and hang out, i don't know if she wants more from the friendship - but i dont and can't stand idly by while she is off with some other dude. What was suggested is easier said then done, unfortunately - since if i choose not to see her when she asks me, the she see's the other guy, that might ruin my chances? If she askes me first does that mean anything? So freakin' confused!
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    eek! How do i do that? Seriously though -- she is confused right? Like, now she is acting strange towards me altogether. Big difference from the girl who was crying in my arms a weeks ago. I can't walk away from her....and neither can she it seems...
  17. MrLonely
    Thats a good idea. Yeah it was 4 weeks and she broke the NC with "I miss you alot, and havn't stopped thinking about you". "I was out with the other guy and we kissed, thats it - and he is an idiot." Turns out, he is still in love with his ex, and doesnt want anything from her right now. Is my analysis correct? She said when we broke up that she "doesn't love me anymore like that" and we are "done for good". Now she is telling me one night she never stopped loving me, then telling me only as a friend. That she misses me and us, then not sure if she misses the comfort. Then she broke down and said that she is worried about losing me, yet keeping her options open (i guess because i showed her i will always be there). If she was really done with me and us, she wouldn't be doing this song and dance? And i guess her emotions would not be so confused?
  18. MrLonely
    Yeah, it does. She wants to be good friends, she is honest about that. But, she said "there is a party in 2 weeks and "guy" might be there and somthing might happen". Not sex mind you, just kissing and crap. But, she still wants me over for xmas dinner and stuff. I would love to stay in it because i care deeply about her, but i dont want to stand around while she is off with others and only calling me when she is lonely. I'll try your idea. I basically posted the above from our im conversation, so you got all the details. I did ask her why she said crap about me when we broke up, she said becuase she was trying to justify her actions. I guess if she was done with me, the cake analogy wouldn't fit.
  19. MrLonely
    So, my ex of 1.5 years broke NC last weekend to tell me she misses me alot, still loves me, misses what we had and if i was too fix my "issues", we would be "perfect". We hung out twice, each time she said she misses me and the thing with the other guy didn't work out (she seen someone else a few times over the last 4 weeks). Last night she confessed she doesn't what she wants, that she wants her cake and eat it too. She doesn't want to loose me, but doesn't want to loose this new guy. I told her i might be interested in another, and she got worried. I said, what happens in (whenever) when you get your emotions figured out and i'm gone, she said thats her worry. She said that she doesn't want to loose me, since somthing might happen and she loved our relationship yet she doesn't want to miss out on the new guy possibility. She flip/flops back and forth between I love you (no, only as a friend), I miss you (but only as a friend), I want you (no i dont). She hugged me when we were out and cried alot....mad me sad too. She is young 20, and still immature, i was her first long BF. She said that she doesn't want me to be the only guy she is with, but at the same time, worried about losing a good thing. She has said that she has never dated alot, and that we would be perfect later in life when she wants to settle down. Meanwhile, i have been with different people and have experienced that. I was in her room the other night and all my pics and stuff is still up, and she is still wearing my jewlery i gave her. She (and i) both agreed that when we hung it was excellent, like a first data again. I know i am being used, but I love her too much. Is there any good in this?
  20. MrLonely
    I know, I know...... I love her - and it felt so good seeing her the past weekend. The way she acted, and what she said............... Life sux.
  21. MrLonely
    Well she told me that she wants her cake and eat it too. She wants to see where it can go with the other guy (and maybe another) BUT still keep me around since there could be a chance for us again. I told her that, that is not fair - and she said it's not fair for her either......since she is getting crap for it from me. Well she should! So she is feeling bad for using me (and she said she is not using me since we are not together, that makes no sense). Am i reading into this right? Is this correct meaning of "having cake and eating it too"..... I still love her very much - but what the heck do i do??
  22. MrLonely
    well
  23. MrLonely
    That sounds good. I just told her about another girl i am interested in, and the 20 questions came. I asked her what she is gonna do if she finds out i'm with somone when she figures it out, and she said that that is what worries her.... She seems to want me close, but not too close...so she can still be free, but have me around... ?????
  24. MrLonely
    AAARRGGGHHH! So confused! Now she is saying that we are only friends and that she loves me like her friends...and that we are still done. Also, that she said all the things because of her emotions -- she doesn't understand them..... One sec she wants to see where it goes, the next...only friends!! She said she doesn't know if she misses me, or the comfort of the relationship..... Going crazy!! Someone please help!!
  25. MrLonely
    I guess i shouldnt push things, she said what she said. Still i get worried.... Anybody else ever in this situation???
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