Hello everyone. I've been reading so many of these posts and feel that I can somehow relate.
My boyfriend of 3 and half yrs broke up with me a month ago without a complete explanation. It happened so suddenly and till this day I don't know what exactly happened. We're both in our late 20s and really focused on our careers. We've been so supportive of each other and have planned a future together. All he told me was that he needs time away from me and needs to figure out what he wants in his life. He also told me he was still in love with me. He thought NC would be the best way to do things.
Our mutual friends tell me (because they've talked to him about it) say that he probably wants to "experience other women".
I'm angry confused depressed - you name it. I've tried to look back at the months preceding the breakup to look for any signs - but I can't seem to find any. He was wonderful, understanding, and kind. Even up to the point of breakup, he would send me emails telling me how wonderful I was and happy he was to have someone so great in his life.
I've tried to meet w/him and talk things out, but he seems convinced that I'm not "good for him" although it has "nothing to do with me". He's never done anything like this before, he was always so emotionally stable and now all I'm left with this is this huge void in my life. He also insists that NC is the best way to get over me and doesn't want to talk to me for at least a few months.
In all this confusion, I'm trying to get over him. But how do you get over someone whose never hurt you except to break up with you? Part of me wants to completely understand whats going on w/him but I don't think he even knows. So all I'm left with is trying to get over him. Where do I go from here?