JenGurl

I think that what you did was nice. If she is any kind of person she will atleast give you a Thank You. You to have a past together weither it be bad or not you were a part of each others lives. And you telling her Happy Bday is just a way of being nice. I dont think it was bad of you at all i think It shows what kind of person you truly are to be able to say ok u sucked at some point but im still telling you happy birthday lol ya know?

We broke up after 2yrs. We were engaged and living together in his home state. My family was going through some things and wanted me to be home. We came home for a visit and i wanted to stay longer so he decided to leave without me. We tried the long distance thing but it didnt work out because he would tell me about how girls at his work would mess with him and flirt with him so it hurt me alot. HE even called me and told me he slept with some girl friend of his sisters in his bed the bed we shared and that he did it with her in MY spot.. talking about low i was so depressed and upset about it. I thought i was over him until i ran into him and his family at the beach. He tried to talk to me i wouldnt talk to him. I thought he was the love of my life but i can see now where i was wrong and naive...

SO me and my ex have been broken up for awhile now. He still calls and we talk sometimes. Some convos are better than others. Sometimes he is jus plain out mean. I dont understand why? He puts me down and makes fun of me all the time just for no reason. He will go out of his way to try to ruin my day. But other times he talks about how he loved me more than anything on this earth and blah blah. how he misses me etc. but then he will pop off with some rude comments about me or something stupid that will annoy me. I sometimes go on block just so he cant im me.. I dont think its fair. Ive done nothing but try to be nice to him.. And why is it after all this i still have some kind of feelings for him in my heart... and find myself thinking of the good times.. When all he does right now is make me feel bad? Ive tried the NC thing Its worked ok but he still finds someway to get in contact.. Please give me some reasons why he would be doing this?? He wasnt at all like this when we first met....

Hey! I really enjoyed your post.. It helped me realize that it is possible once a break happens to find someone new. Ive printed out ur tips to help me at my times of weakness! thank you! Good luck to u

Try laying under the faucet in the bathtub..

Hi, my situation is alot similar. I Really just am happy to know that other people have experienced what im experiencing right now, and realizing that it is not the end of the world and i will get through it Thanks so much for all the advice even though it wasnt my post it helped me alot!

Me and my ex were together 2 yrs. Lived together almost all of that. We were even engaged for 11 months. He was my first love. I moved 5 hours away to be with him in another state. I thought he loved me as much as i loved him. My family all wanted me to be here in my home state and he wouldnt compromise. So he moved back home. We broke up needless to say, neither one of us wanted to.. I love him with all my heart and still care for him deeply. He has moved on with his life and is seeing another girl. He still calls all the time wanting us to be friends and saying how much he cares etc , ive even not answered his calls sometimes to try to get over him but find myself missing him when i dont hear his voice. Recently I ran into him on vaction and he tried to talk to me but i didnt do it partly because i was afraid of those old feelings coming back.. I cant get over him. Ive found no one that feels that void or takes my mind off him... Will I ever get over him? How do i do it? Should i still talk to him?