igwmuchas
-
Posts
62 -
Joined
Content Type
Profiles
Forums
Articles
Videos
Blogs
Store
Everything posted by igwmuchas
-
btw just to clear up they got together sort of on the DL so i didnt know that it was going on, thats why i put my other post on the 1st. he was doing that but a while back. now hes got her
-
ok well she took him back, this is a reoccurring problem with me, how do u just "move on" to someone else. There are other people I could start dating with, but I know once on the date, it wouldnt feel real knowing there is someone more "for me" out there. how do you get over this, I want to move on, but I feel like noone else will be the same, becuase it's not that person. and I want to like other girls, there are some really nice people, but I just can't bring myself to LIKE them, like I did with this girl. argh
-
How do u start a convo with a beautiful stranger
igwmuchas replied to coldplay's topic in Dating Advice
i dont think that was the intention? ^ -
the worst part of the situation, it the guy who broke up with her, tried to get another girl immediately after, he hangs out with both of them "playing" them. makes me mad cuz neither of them deserve that.
-
o i forgot, i talked to her tonight online cuz her phone was dead, and at the end of the convo she said love you, and shes never done that before....... peace
-
Ok so i have this really good friend, she broke up with her bf in the past month, and i kinda helped her through it all, and i really liked this girl before but i came to late, and she got her bf. so they broke up, i help her through it, and all the feelings i have for her are coming back like crazy now. Problem is, i dont know weather or not to go for it or wait, she acts like shes over him, she tells me shes over him, but im still skeptical, and that she might just be saying that to help herself actually get over him. her ex and her hang out (they go to the same school, i dont go to the same one) and so im thinking if shes around him and not getting emotional or anything, is she over him for real, becuase she can be around him and be fine, or is she just getting caught up in the moment. she flirts with me, not a lot, but enough to know there is something unique there. she really is different then most girls ive liked. most girls i like them and its a crush and just sort of a good feeling. but with her im happy just to talk to her online, or on the phone. i just get these really good feelings around her, im not trying to "work" my conversation with her like i do with girls i like, i can just talk to her. so what i want all of ur advice, is should i tell her my feelings for her. im afraid to do it in person becuase if shes not over him, it would be really awkward afterwards. and i could still be friends with her even if i cant have her, and i can explain this to her, im just worried about that 20 minutes after i tell her, if she rejects me (in person), it would be really bad. so i kinda want to do it over the phone, but at the same time i want to do it in person cuz it means a lot more. should i even tell her anything in the first place? I cant say much now cuz nothing has happened, but if something were to happen between us, i would definantly fall in love with her. confused about this all, need some feedback. peace.
-
ok well if things to get to a certain point with me and this girl, and i want to kiss her, how should i kiss her the 1st time...? there are lots of ways, the biggest issue would be tongue or no tongue, cuz i would be really really emberrassed if i went to kiss her, and she intended it to be just lips and i end up like licking her, frieghtening thought......
-
*edit* just wanted to ad, not that it makes a difference, we have a lot in common, i guess that was kind of a given, byeness
-
ok i guess i want advice but more of just a place to vent and give up. theres this girl and weve been friends for a long time and over the summer we got really close over the internet, we were gunna meet (which wasnt a big deal cuz we've known each other through families). but we both left for long vacations before we could meet, and when we got back things just sort of died, no one at fault. we still talked but not in a special way ne more. she started dating my best friend ( which isnt something new to me, happens to a lot of the girls i like ) but this time its so hard to see them together, but i cope, and id rather see her happy and move on. we talk a lot, we talk about her relationship with him. he is a goodboyfriend, but he has trouble keeping a strong relationship which is what she wants. its been working out for 3 months now, with my help
-
i dunno if this topic has been covered already or not. do u think that anyone can be in a relationship with anyone else, or do you think we are made for certain people? Hope that made sense muchas.................
-
How to quit smoking COMPLETELY?
igwmuchas replied to John_Simons's topic in Health: Body, Mind and Spirit
all great advice, it is willpower, and it is overlooked, people think you need something to help you quit. but i think the one that works, is just stop. seems simple and stupid but if you really look at the statement and think about it. just stop. my dad was addicted for 3 years, and he got sick with a cold, and hes in bed, hes got a cough and the chills, and he really wants a cig, so he lights one up starts puffing, and starts to cough madly. after hes done coughing he puts the cig out and says this is stupid, and he just stopped. no bs, he just stopped. some people seem to think they need something to help them fight the addiction. ive been addicted to dip, (chewing tabbaco) for a year and when i wanted to quit i thought of my dad, and i looked at how i was gunna quit. and i looked at it as a test. a sort of "are you man enough to just stop" and i did. i just stopped. just man up, and stop. its really simple if you want it to be, i hope this helped. peaceout........muchas -
weird how things turn out eh? what do you mean by weird stuff, or are you not allowed to tell us nice to hear from you peaceout............muchas...............
-
HELLO????
-
The weirdest thing has happened to me. ok im a pretty social person, and have no problem socializing with girls and going out in gruops and stuff. and this girl and i have gotten close, but i get really nervous when it comes to one on one dating. and it really pisses me off because usually im so cool about this kinda stuff. but i find myself making excuses not to go on dates or changing the conversation because i get so nervous about it. please i need some advice or something fast. (i hope that made sense) peaceout.......muchas HELP!
-
go with the SN. but start off right away on how she got the wrong impression on you so she doesnt ignore you (you know what i mean?) but dont be to emphasised on that and just tell her how you want to get to know her a little better. and like some of the posts in the past, try to be funny it will never fail you when you try to get to know someone. But you can email her if u want but i would go with SN cuz a call is way to sudden and suprising and one-on-one. and an email is to "mild" and she can always choose not to reply. But an SN its a little of both and (in my personal feeling) will work the best. Hope this made sense and helped. peaceout............muchas......
-
ok since u sorta freaked her out with the letter i dont think the phone call is such a good idea, and i know what u mean by a more immediate reaction but i dont think that would be the best way to do it yet. i would get her email and introduce yourself, probally make some joke about yourself or something so she will know who you are and will be intruigued (sp?) into reading on. and then just tell her how u felt she got the wrong impression on you and you would like to get to know her better, ask for her SN after the 1st couple of emails. hope that made sense and helped peaceout.........muchas.................
-
well you know what you need to talk to her about- correcting her impression on you how you want to do it is up to you. personally (just my opinion) i would go with email and after youve gotten to know her a little better through that then its ok to ask for her SN or her phone #. i dunno if calling her w/o her giving you her fone # would b the best thing, might freak her out a little. email or SN is a little less "intense" for getting to know someone and a lot "milder" for correcting the impression she has on you. but thats my opinion. If anyone else has any other outlooks on this post them. again, its up to you deadeyes and how you personally want to do it. whats the deal with the friend who knows her and will help you with her? Is he helping, if so, do you want him to or is it helpful at all? (hope this post made sense) Peaceout..............muchas.........
-
sooooooooo sry i havnt been on to reply i wish i could go back in time aaaaah! lol sry my internet was bein screwy again finals were stressful and my boss was being even more stressfull (had to do a catering party for 2000 people *ouch*) anyway. Deadeyes- for future reference (idunno if you will like this) but if she is with her friends going up to her and pulling her over to talk is not a bad thing and works very well, just going up to them and saying "excuse me ladies could i talk to soandso for a quick second" and just tell her what the past 30 posts talk about. (i dunno if this thread already talked about that i read back but i have trouble reading so things arent always clear to me) If you have her Email adress my feeling is that would be the best way to keep this going, and after a couple of emails ask her for her SN and then talk to her on AIM/MSN (whatever) then ask her for her phone # but when you get her phone # then u wanna ask her over the phone to hang out (my feeling is that is the best way "steps" to seeing her again and talking to her make it clear to her that you think she got the wrong impression about you because that will/should sorta "break the barrier" of any "uncomftorableness" she has about you and will make her more open to getting to know you. Do you think her friends had any impact on how she sees you? You said her friend asked her Y she was stopping when you gave her the letter. and on some days she gives you a mean look and on other days you stare at each other. If they are affecting the way she sees you that would definantly be something to get over or talk to her about and letting her know the real you and not just what her friends say about you (if that made ne sense at all, sry im not good at explaining things) I hope to hear back soon and hopefully my internet will hold peaceout..............muchas.............
-
Come on Dead Eyes You know you want to do this, so do it! I know u can do it, and in these next 2 days im hoping u will. And im not giving u a reason to procrastinate until the last moment, but just today (actually yesterday cuz it just turned 12) i told this girl I liked her on the second to last day of school, although the outcome wasnt what i expected it was a good experience, ive let girls known ive liked them but today was the first time ive ever told someone directly. And I know you have it in you to do this also. Go for it and push all the bad thoughts out. Nothing bad can happen, only good can come from it. You will be glad you did it. Peaceout..........muchas
-
u need to stop making excuses and just go for it. you havnt done anything wrong to her, so why would she be mad, its just something ur getting nervous about and making up in ur head. do it, u dont wanna b kicking urself later for never having done it. peaceout........muchas
-
Thanks everyone.
-
exactly.
-
sry about 3 times i was desperate cuz i was planning on asking her the next day, sry. Thanx for the advice. Peaceout.......muchas
-
Should? u mean, im WILL post ASAP, lol, dude u got this no problem, go for it uve got this whole thread to help u (again sry about my internet problems and my lack of bein able to update) peaceout.......muchas
-
I had the problem of always waiing for the "perfect time" but then i would always end up waiting to long, because there is hardly ever a perfect time. you want this so force yourself to do it. the next time you see her alone- thats when you should. Peacout..........muchas