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Thank you so much for the advice, but to late, someone already asked her out , but i have def. learned a lesson, thanks for the help. Peaceout.........muchas

so sry i couldnt get on the internet (had some problems), the 1st post of pg 5-what happened?! you need to cut down on the negative"ness" after all youve been through I think you should do this b/c what eviljedi said. Even if things dont go perfect it will still be better than if you never say anything to her and look back on it later and really regret it. My dad always got me to do something that i was "iffy" about doing by telling me "you'll be glad you did it" And it seems perfect for what your going through, even if things dont happen the way you want them to one- like eviljedi said it will be a good experience, and two- you'll be glad you did it. I dont think that her not smiling at you or not looking at you means anything, sometimes (i do this) its just an excuse we make to give more reason for us to "give up", but if you think about it, it doesnt mean anything (the not looking at you). Think about the positive side, she said thank you. This leads me to my original question, how come you didnt say yourwelcome?? what is making you freeze up. you need to make yourself say something, again, whats the worst that could happen? You just need to overcome that adrenaline and say something during that moment where you freeze up. MAKE yourself do it. (sry if any of my post sounded a bit harsh, i just want you do this b/c i really think you should)(hope my post made sense) sry about the delay peaceout..........muchas

awsome, ur gunna have no problem at all doing this peaceout.......muchas

fine nvm...............

thats awsome that is the perfect attitude goin into it, but again and again y would she be bothered by you. she has no reason to be, ur just thinkin that, so if you do find yourself thinking then when u talk to her push it out of ur mind, she has no reason to think your "a menace" you havnt done nething to bother her. dont worry about it, when u decide u want to do it just go for it nothing bad is gunna happen there is no reason for ne thing bad to happen, just be yourself. Nice attitude about the whole thing, im rooting for ya. i really think your gunna do this. Go for it peaceout.....muchas

ne one.....i need some feedback, whatever u think is fine

I understand what your saying, well ether u do still want to do it or not, my feeling after all your posts i think you should, she isnt scared of you so thats good, and again what would make her scared of u? u said yourself u would never do nething to try and make her uncomftorable so you know whats right and wrong. the thing about the next class was just an example. u said sometimes she looks at u and smiles just try ur hardest to smile back or say hey, i always tell myself whats the worst that could happen? and i doubt she thinks your a menace, what have you done wrong? i think your just thinking thats what she thinks, if someone looked at you would u consider them a menace, hardly (i hope u wouldnt) people arnt that mean, and i dont think she is that type of person. how are you planning on getting to know her a little better? peaceout........muchas

Ok, here we go, me current situation- i am 15(a guy) (freshman, not for long) and i am going to a high school that i didnt want to go to (my parents made me go) so all my old friends are at another school (which sux, but is also good, fresh new start) the problem is all the guys in my grade are amazingly immature so all the girls go for upperclassmen which really brings me down when i wanna hook up with a girl in my grade because they think im immature also. im a pretty friendly person and get along easily with people. i have had a bad history of becoming friends with people i like but then becoming to good of friends to the point where it would b weird for them if we were to go out (just how i am, but im working on it) so there is this girl (as usual, lol) and weve been ok friends not to close so there is still a chance (i think) and weve talked and there are some sparks but she is really unpredictable, one day she will be totally on to me and another its like she doesnt see me (she went out with an upperclassmen but broke up and is now having issues of her own about getting in another relationship- my chance maybe) should i try and be friends a little longer and see what the deal is with her (i dont wanna get to good of friend), or should i just go for it (dont really want to do that yet) or just wait until im a sophmore and all the freshman girls will go for upperclassmen (me, maybe ) we have talked about her getting in a relationship (is that what i shouldnt be doing? is that the type of thing that makes me a to good of a friend to go out with) i hope u understood my post, im not good at explaneing these things with words peaceout........ muchas

Dead eyes ive been reading your posts and i might be able to help u a little, fisrt off i agree with suzyQ about not freeking her out or doing nething stalkish cuz that will ruin things, As for talking to her i think starting off with light conversation would b the best way to go, not telling her how u feel right away, before you go and talk to her u said u get nervous, well ask yourself a couple questions, whats the worst that could happen? she tells you off and u never talk to her again?(do u really think she would be the type of person to do that, that would be pretty low) and if u think she would is that really the type of person u want to be around? and then ask yourself the best that could happen (dont get carried away things arnt gunna happen right off the first day) you have a good conversation (even just a hey whats up whats ur next class, *history*, o lol have fun) something to give u a reason to talk to her later online. I ask myself that all the time, whats the worst that could happen because chances of that happening are pretty low, no one is that mean. I hope this was a little help to u, if it made ne sense at all. what are you most nervous about before you talk to her? peace out.........muchas