BigSyke

alright, here it goes, she finally picked up her phone, and I asked her what she did last night, she said "I hung out with this guy i met, and haha we had sex 8 times bla bla bla" EFFING NC starts NOW! Im going to stab myself with a pen if I have to, It will begin, im not destroying the relationship im about the get into, for a prostitute.

yea it truly is unbelievable, a true nightmare, like where the last person on this planet, turns against you. Im at work now, and whoa its hard! she deactivated her cell phone, so now its going put me into a crazy spin. I have not gone a day without seeing her for 1 year, not gone a few hours without talking to her....even when shes getting drunk at a party or bar, she still would at least answer and be mean, this time, nothing. This is how i know shes with this guy, this is for real. wow. Honestly im so weak to think about moving on, which when i do, will happen very quickly because of the way she treated me, and things she has done. I cant wait for that. I still just want her closure, and for her to say "im with this guy now, im dating him" Im thinking shes toying with me, keeping me on the back burner....she did this with her other ex, when we started out. He would call and call, and she wouldnt answer. And the sad part about it was, we had sex ALOT durring the start of the relationship, the same time he was calling non-stop. So i think im in his spot now, and it KILLS ME!

yes your right, i almost wish i was lying about this, i WISH my mind was playing games and i was lying to get attention, iv never thought this would happen. She's staying wtih this guy now, after 2 days of knowing him. I guess all they do is have sex all day and night, according to random guy's phone calls to let me listen. Today is harder, its setting in more and all the good times are coming back to me HARD. I was lucky i had the past 2 days off work, now its back to work, which will be the worst time i will go through, since she would always show up there to bring me food, and just hang out. I smoke ALOT now, i being at work i will nto be able to smoke. Im dreading this hardcore, and im dreading the future now. You guys are all 100% correct, and im sure every body knows this all along, its the paint that blinds the truth, and being so desperate you dont take anybodys advice but your own. Im going to try NC, all i really wanted to know was, what was going on, if were still together, or if its done for good, i just needed closure from her. i dont think im gonna get it.

i feel your pain, trust me, read my post, my girl slept with a random guy 8 times so far, 3 times in front of a crowd, i dont even know if were broken up or not, she just wont talk to me.

thank you for your replies, and dont worry about saying horrible things, i need to hear them right now. typing on here is amazing for getting things out of my system, i feel better every time i read something replied. Im just shocked how somebody can move on that quickly, the texts she sent me from a few days ago are nothing but "i love you" and how much im the one for her and she cant wait to spend the rest of her life with me! In one day, somebody can completely move on and forget about that person. The roller coaster continues, and its hurting deeper now. I cant reason with myself, It feels like all this never happened, and then BAM! it hits me harder than a school bus, she had sex with a random guy, more than once in 1 night!!!!! She has a very high sexual drive, so i know this ride will not be fun one bit! She was my leader, and now im just wandering a desert hopeless, knowing i wont reach a near city for a long time, and I have a very short ammount of time to get there, so im panicking, HARD! Its kinda like if your dying, and you dont get home in 10 of minutes, you miss a phone call that will save your life, and your 30 minutes away, this is the panick im going through, i cannot waste time or all is lost, and there is NOTHING i can do. I keep having dreams about me in an old city, trying to chase her, but other guys keep blocking me off like bouncers at a club, and then when i finally get in there, shes gone, and its off to the next building, and when i finally find her, she cant hear me, shes def, and enters a room to have sex wtih a guy, and the door closes, and i sit, wait and wonder. These dreams KILL me. I write all this stuff too, so when its all over with, i look back.

that guy is making her get an abortion. I am Totally against that. Im trying to refrain from becoming violent, but that babys already dead, my child is already dead. I cant wait till the anger phase, which is already here, but its still 96% desperate panick. She does have huge issues, which were overlooked because she was my best friend, and I was hers. Yes, once im at that stage of accepting everything, I will let the hurt take over, and just close the door on that one, a few months of my life will be wasted, I will be in a struggle for life. If i can pass this suicidal stage I will be golden, but right now my girl is having sex. Well not sure what to do now but stare at the wall, and wait.

sorry for multi posting, but whoa, i just got knocked off my chair. The reality of her having sex, MY GIRL having sex is striking me like electricity. Its seriously powerfull enough to make me puke, or knock me off my chair. Its almost like im having a sesure. How long does this last? because right now im struggling for dear life.

and one thing, is it possible, if she somehow wants to get back with me, that things may work out? or do these actions sound like somebody who will NEVER be a loyal girlfriend? THe connection we have is beyond anything ive ever felt, she has everything i need in a girl, and then some, its like we were born for eachother, she kjnows that too, she says it all the time.

i know i dont need this, but this is the 4th harsh breakup ive been through. For some reason this one is just so different. Usually i could just do other things and slowly forget about it. I know working out will help, but its weird because i have 0 energy to even move. I feel like i have the flu. The worst part is, the situation is still settling, and it just gets worse, until about 5 months down the road when ive moved on. She moved on in 2 days. Im just trying to find out how to cope wtih the pain, which is pretty intense because i worshiped this girl, closer than best friends, were talking EVERY living breathing minute together. Its crazy how you think things wouldve went differently, not such a harsh revenge style breakup. The only thing that works here, is if we see eachother in person, then she realises what shes losing. I dont know how to deal wtih this, its destroying alot right now. I have this other girl who im now talking to, and for some reason, all I can think about is my EX when i take her out on a date, which wasnt the case before. Its just this "freefalling" type feeling where, i feel like im actually falling and have 0 control. This is what gets me, im alone as can be right now, and the ONLY thing that helps, is texting her, or calling her, thinking im making a difference.

its getting bad, ive been destroyed before durring breakups, but this by far tops them well over 900%. actually you cant put a number on it. I wish this was a lie, i almost wish i was lying. I keep telling myself it didnt happen, this is not happening. She is going to see the guy again tonight. I told her "listen, i am soo sorry about taking a step back, i took you forgranted, let me fix this just 10 minutes of your time you wont regret it, trust me" she followed with "iiiiiiiii gottaaaa gooooo byeeeeeeee" The worst part is I started this, sorta. I needed to show her i wouldnt take partying and drinking lightly. So i stepped back. She would beg and beg and cry, and i wouldnt do anything. 3 days of that and It hit me, GET HER BACK STAT! by that time it was almost too late. I didnt spend christmas or new years with her, which was a complete A** move by me, i then realised what i did. Its now to the point where she has 0 feelings, and just dangles this other guy, and OTHER GUYS in my face and laughs. I saw her yesterday for a bit, cried and begged, and she finally gave it where she started crying saying WERE GETTING MARRIED! IM SO SORRY! it was almost perfect again, until STUPID me left. I left for an hour, and she then went to see that other guy. I needed to think for an hour, that was too long i guess, now shes hooked on this guy, and im left for nothing. Im having the most intense roller coaster emotions possible. And when its low, i almost puke, litterallly it comes up in my mouth, thinking my WIFEY, is having sex with a random stranger. Its so weird how i look at things now. WOW i cant get her out of my head, AT ALL! our whole relationship is playing back, over and over. The pain is so intense i dont know what to do. If i do NC, i will lose her for good, do you think shes just going through a stage?

ok, its only going to get worse, she keeps laughing at me, just rubbing it in that she had sex wtih him in front of 30 people....she told me she had sex wtih him 8 times the past 2 days. How good it felt and bla bla bla...alot of people dont know this pain and shock, ive had 2 fingers cut off, sowed back on, id take that ANYday over this. So aside from moving on, which is destined to happen, how can you block this out of your head? ive tried smoking alot of ciggs, but just sitting there makes me so desperate, that i have to call her, almost like im obsessed. Ive tried playing it like i dont care, and shes loosing a good thing, and its her loss,but she laughes and says "whateva, i got lots of D*** to play with, buh bye now!" and she goes and does it. So yes its hard and its a huge change, and when its done ill probably turn gay, haha...but seriously its worse than people think when you have nobody to turn to, and your girl/best friend is just laughing at you, while having sex! Just wish i could block this all out, and realise i am a model man for any woman, and most of them would kill for me, but being 22, its so difficult to meet women, good ones who dont drink and party. its just everything ive ever done lately was with her, every store, place ive gone, and we had a blast! now im alone, remembering the best times ive ever had in my life! ive never been so close to an object, or thing. my life relyed on her. Im in a total panic state, which i may need to seek help on, but still wont change the facts at hand. I cant wait till this is over. I wish she never had sex, because i would give her time to change, that is the part that bothers me, she destroyed it.

ironpumper, totally know what you mean. Im a normal sane guy, but now ive officially snapped. Ive imagined alot of bad situations, this one couldnt top the worst ive thought of. i have so many things i need to do, but i cannot leave my room, as hard as i try. I keep smoking ciggeretts, like 3 packs a day now, i only used to smoke a 5 ciggettes a day. I keep trying to talk to her, which i know is the worst thing to do, but in my case, the damage is already done. Usuall case is to move on and pretend nothing happened, then they wonder why. She is a totally different person now, TOTALLY! her voice has changed. It sounds like she is having sex all the time now, which she probably is. Seriously she talks and moans and makes these sexual noises while talking to me all in some new valley girl voice, as high pitched as possible, borderline mentally retarted. This girl is seriously ill, i dont think professional help can save her, the ammount of detail she says about having sex with this guy now is worse than a hard core porn, and shes laughing too. This girl 2 weeks ago cried and cried for days when i said Im taking a break because you cant stop drinking, and doing your valley girl voice. I went back thinking she was done, a few days later, this happens. Its SOOO hard not to drive over there and set her straight, she is so rude and explicit, and says she wants to have sex with me, and the new guy at the same time. This is such a blow! how can a female talk like this? i thought they were mostly modest? welcome the new 2007 huh!

its starting to settle in, im crying alot more today because the shock is wearing off. How does people deal with their one and only having sex with somebody else? for me its the hardest thing on earth! She is 25 years old, 120lbs with fake breasts, alot of guys worship her. The guy she landed with is 300lbs, ugly she said and smells really bad. WHY? Me and her were like brad pitt and angelina jolie, and people said that ALL the time, we look just like them. Now its angelina jolie, and Silent bob/michael moore. WHOA! I called her today, and she was laughing about it, "no i was out with my girlfriends...yea the sex was ok, but no i didnt have sex with him, but wow i really like this guy and having sex with him last night didnt compare to you, but yah, im gonna go see if its any better, Buh bye now"....click WHAT?????Ive never heard a woman talk like this. She doesnt believe in using condoms, shes pregnant and drinks ALL the time now, EVERY night. She told me she was going to treatment, and she would call me when she got out, thats the day she had sex with him. Most of all, the nightmares im having are unexplainalbe, I wake up soaked in tears!

worst of all, I lost ALL of my friends, so I just sit here, with nobody to talk to! i tried calling them, but they think im pathetic since i spent all my time with her

So my soon wife to be, is currently having sex with another man, as i type this. She had sex with him last night, and tonight is doing the same. I am more depressed, hurt and filled with pain than words can even reach. I went to speak with her today. The 1st night she had sex wtih him, his buddys called me up, to let me listen. Yes, it was confirmed, i heard her screams in the background. TOday i went to speak with her, and finally she broke down, and said they had sex all night and morning. I couldnt stop crying and i actually threw up. I bought a house with this girl a few weeks back, shes pregnant and were getting married soon. I have lived with this girl for a year, and spent every minute with her. How do you guys do this? i cant function, this was such a blow/shock and i cant just sit here thinking what shes doing with him right now. I kept calling her phone, but she would either answer and let me listen, or just not answer. I had dinner reservations all setup too....I guess i saw this coming (NOT) because she ahs been ditching me for the last week. How do I deal with this pain? i have been left for somebody else before, but this does NOT compare, one bit, this is my best friend/wife to be, having sex, JUST LIKE THAT!

dude, if you EVER talk to that chick again, you make every guy out there seem like a complete idiot. my girl has cheated on me with over 200 guys, i have pictures and DVDs to back it up

yes, all true and im making a documentary, its gonna be good. steven speilberg good

are you kidding guys? 1 billion people out there and you would put yourself through what i go through? IVE ALMOST DIED 2wice because a cheating girlfriend/prostitute! and i didnt find out she was like this until 9 months into the relationsship. Might seem innocent, but you need to check up on them, F trust now because u give it to the wrong person...-they will break it. oh and shes cheating right now, im on the phone with her, shes having sex. haha

ive been cheated on, in every single relationship ive had. over 20. Not that theres something wrong with me, im probably the perfect husband or boyfriend. Its the girls. The 1st couple times i found out about my girlfriends cheating, I got revenge, hard. But then it kept happening with other girls. Our relationship was perfect, but then they CHEAT! HOW! just little things like at a party with 2 guys or something. However these are just minor things, yes I was attached, but not married or anything. Now this relationship im in,(pretty much done) is the worst. I bought a house with this girl 2 months after i met her. Rich blond supermodel, and super smart and cool. I became attached to the hip of her, attached to her blood. Never spent a day apart it seems, except when she flew down to cali to meet guys she met off myspace. Pictures she would then post up on her myspace account. Saying on one picture, this is my future husband, weve been together for 2 years and are getting married in may. Next picture, this is ryan, so good in bed, just met him too isnt he hot? I have become more aggresive now. I do not care about her, i rely on her, but do not care if she gets hit by a vehicle like a hummer. We are best friends, in fact shes my only friend now, the only person I know. But finding photos of a maxim model sleeping with a 580lbs guy in bed rest is heartbreaking, this is not the worst.. I became violent and crazy now. we have gotten into fights where she would be drunk!!!! and me driving her home she was stab me with a pen saying "I WANNA HAVE SEX WITH EVERYBODY! DROP ME OFF SO I CAN HAVE SEXY TIME WITH THAT GUY RIGHT THERE, NO HOW BOUT HIM DRIVING THE RED TRUCK! HOW BOUT THAT GAS STATION WORKER! I WANT SEX FROM EVERY GUY! NOW!" that is just random drunk talk from the girl who is known to run down the highway naked i guess, and have sex with any guy who pulls over to ask if she needs help. After getting stabbed in the ribcage from her, oh yes, i did break her nose, and arm in 2 places. This was my relationship with a girl who i found out was a myspace prostitute, waste of my life, and i feel i can never get my prime years of 21-23 back. I am now a lost soul. For all the guys out there, please dont put up with a cheating girl, yes im going to say it, girls will cheat more than guys, because al they have to do is ask them if they want it, answer is always yes. oh and to edit the post up a bid; words of advice to alot of guys.. I have gotten around alot in my life. I was the popular guy in highschool and college. Those years were bad, why? i have witnessed alot of stuff that has destroyed my life. Cheating girls is one of them. I have seen good girls with boyfriends do things not even a vegas call girl would do for a whole casino. I have seen 30+ guys sleep with a "loyal" housewife of 10 to their husband with 4 children (in one night). I have seen everygirl ive ever known have sex with random people. Just random. I have seen good girls too, and i advance. they end up trying to sleep with me and my friends at the same time at a party. The advice? do not let your self get attached to a girl partys, that goes clubbing, that drinks. These are the types of girls who just sleep with guys because their cute, or because they drive a mercedes. Ive heard my girlfriend has done things so twisted and crazy, that they could never pay any kinda adult entertainer enough money to do, she has done it, like sleeping with 1/2 of the car dealership because they sell BMW's. She goes in with me, checks out a new x5 bmw, gets a guys card. Calls back later saying "hey, im going to come back in there after hours, you can get as many guys as you'd like, ill do anything" -tells me shes going shopping and BAM, they have a photoshoot and burn it on a DVD. I find the DVD later on....thats life, my life. So where are the good housewife type women? Im still looking, but its funny, quite funny remembering my whole life.....the things ive seen. Watch out people.

ok, if you guys think shes cheating, you think shes having sex? she could be just talking. Enough of that, get a keylogger from link removed stat. Thats the best thing ive ever done. I was able to crack down on over 1500 emails of cheating. Explicit emails, with pictures. Best thing ive ever done. I was then able to get all of her facebook, myspace passwords and thats where the fun really started. The perfect girl.......however she is that smart to play it where i still dont know if she ever has cheated on me or not, even tho i have found pictures, videos and DVDs and even seen my girlfriend go into a room with a guy, naked. Maybe she has, maybe she hasnt. She told me on my birthday, she cheated on me with over 300 guys, and got pregnant 10 times, had 7 abortions, 3 of which i brought her too, and paid for. one of the times she was almost 7 months pregnant, and had a doctor buddy she was supposidly seeing abort the baby. (which is illegal).... I also dragged her out from a party full of drug dealers, and some of the guys said she was having sex with 10+ guys. i dont know what to believe, because this is the way my girl is, talks very slutty when shes drunk. that same night i made her drive drunk, and had her arrested....didnt help she was seeing the cop too, watching her drive away after getting pulled over, puking drunk, puke all over the car and seats with open bottles all over. Tell me, do you want this? my stuff started the SAME way, got suspicious, and it all picked up after i installed the keylogger, and now look what it has become. GET OUT NOW! please bro! I am not the same person i used to be because of all this. Take the kids and dip! please! my nun-type wife to be seemed too good to be true, get OUT! do leave room to find out how many guys. In my case it wouldnt only be another teacher she was seeing, it would be the janitor and the whole classroom. GET OUT!@

sorry i kinda breezed over your stuff, but brotha, my world is an example on why you should become YOU! you are not her anymore, your YOU! this should help; I met this girl, thought she was most gorgous women ever saw....dated her off an act of god....well she started seeming kinda suspecious. Ex-BF calling the house 409 times a day, stoppin over. Skipping over years of hollywod type drama, Crying harder than i have ever cried, cutting myself, and nearly getting shot 12 times....i have stepped back from the relationship. This girl (very beautiful) has done things I cant even picture a human doing. A live person doing the things she has done. You will be supprised on what you might find, when you hack into your girls email account. I found over 1500 hundred cases of her cheating on me with over 200 guys. Were talking pictures, DVD's videos. She's even so smart to leave the DVD's on my desk, and pictures on her myspace! She tells me im crazy for thinking shes cheating on me, and shes getting sick of me blaming her. The nights she does cheat, we somehow werent dating at the time. You could never picture this girl doing this. Its so funny how some women can have sex with 6 guys at the same time, and giggle about it on myspace the next day, when theyre married. I have seen it all my brother, in fact i have seen and experienced more than 99% of all males out there. Im ready to retire myself, im getting tired, old (22yrs old) and angry at life. I have no life anymore because of this ruthless girl. Just evil. This girl you would never imagine doing this. And if I had not investigated and done my own coordinated sting ops, i would think shes the perfect wife. However, after cracking emails, bugging phones, rigging cellphones, and using buddies as stings, i found this girl had some scandolous ways, prostitute scandolous. (again would never imagine). If I wouldnt have dug this deep, i would think shes a nun....now im not surprised if shes working for a drug cartel. This girl is upper class too. Rich daddy and mommy. Has everything. Has lots of money. Last car was a ferrari, and is highly religioius. I thought this girl had the morality of a nun! I couldnt see past it! her spell worked! thought she was perfect! while she was at "school" she was really at some guys house. She supposidly now shops from 7am, till 1 am (16 hours a day now???) HAHA what was I doing with her? I am smarter than her, she always told me that she KNEW i would never leave her, and I said "yea, i love you too much" Booyakasha! after i got fed up of the real bad stuff like dragging her naked from some "gang bang" drug dealer fiesta, I finally got fed up. She even posted these sexually explicit pictures on her facebook. She locked me down, broke me down until i relyed on her, and without her cheating self i would die. Now I have smartend up, found a new girl who is BEGGING to take me out, who is more beautiful than she will ever be. I am not phased by the cheating anymore! she can do what she wants, she will never be a human. After 3 near death experiences because of her, i am done. DONE. and I said exactly what you said "she's very sorry for cheating that one time, she said she would never do it again, im going to give her a second chance" 185 chances later, thank god im still alive.....other guys seem to get violent when theyre having sex with your girlfriend, and you try to stop it.

thanks iceman! yea i guess that is so true. I mean i need to get out so i can take my mind off her body, and focus on the true B*** and Sl*t she is

well, i did kick her to the curb, but being me, all of the girls i have dated, have cheated on me, alot. I dont know if its something wiht me, or just the girls i date (even church girls!) but this is making me think, this is life! you will be cheated on, at least, 50 times a year, or what not. And i feel like i have accepted it. It hurts, but i have built up a blindness against it, so it KILLS me deep down inside, but its like i just brush it off, and try harder to make things work. But deep inside i wanna snap, and as time goes by, and looking back at the reality, that my wife to be, is having sex! with metally retarted people (literally, 4 years with a mentally retarted guy, who sues people for money hence=filty rich) She says she gives him private dances, but now im hearing she is actually sleeping with him! she is supposidly married to this guy too!! im emailing her father about this. Im defintaly getting rid of her, but honestly the reason im on here, is to get strength. My brain is telling me there is nobody better than her, you will be single forever. I lost all of my friends for her, they dont wanna talk to me anymore. Its really really really hard to leave a woman who is so wanted by EVERY single guy including your 15 year old younger brother hahah! There are posters of her in some of my buddies rooms! everywhere i look, i feel like i dont have a chance. She will replace me in 2 minutes flat. She really wouldnt care if I really left, because in the past, i have tried to leave and break up with her. By the time i arrive at my parents house which is 2 minutes away, shes already at some guys house getting it on. Im in hell right now, in a prision i need to move away. How do you get over somebody quickly? I know once im gone, the only thing i will beable to think about, is who she is with, and it will control me to the point of uselessness.

ok so i confronted her last night. She said "haha, whatever, your messing around with your ex-girlfriend anyways, uhh i gotta go...." I dont really have an ex-girlfriend in this state anymore. She said the computer typed all that stuff, and the dates are messed up because of a virus. She also said the 500lbs guy had a prophecy that i would go in and read her emails, so he made up that they were having sex, and photoshopped her into the XXX photos. HA! Her and the 500lb guy had a small relationship years ago, and lived together. She then changed the story and said we werent dating at the time they had sex like bunnie rabits, and the times they had sex after that, and she cheated on me, she....uhhh...uhhh...had him type that to get me jelious? HAHAHA ladies and gentlemen. I have heard some of the dumbest excuses known to man, and since im pretty much a certified investigator, I just couldnt believe her responses. "NO baby, i love you, just come her....FINE YOU A HOLE, IM GOING TO have sex with the world!......no im kidding come here i love you!" oh my god seriously, after everything i showed her printed out, showed her, around 300 pages of just GRAPHIC XXX pictures of her and just crack dealing looking white gangsters, her excuses are, "HA you made that up because your having sex with your ex-girlfriend wow just leave so i can have some guys over!" WOW! I am a very profesional, good looking businessman, and shes going after these toothless crack dealing gangbangers, who call her ma, or runner, or bustdown, and she loves it. Hundreds, HUNDREDS of guys, everywhere we go, say a gangster is like "hey sexy you wanna taste of what the homies could do to your "BEEP", i bet we could run a train on you" and she smiles and shows the her cleavage like its a game. wow a pretty blonde just out of effing control. But once i do get my stuff and leave, then personality 2 kicks in, to where shes begging and begging and crying, telling me it was all a joke, and how her dad used to beat her, and shes just trying to get attention. We talked for 3 hours last night on why she did those things. "I cheated on you all those million times with hundreds of guys, because you didnt give me the attention i needed, i know you talked to your ex while we were dating!!!! but i did NOT cheat on you!" WHAT THE F!!!!!! sorry for all the B.S but finding out that she was a prostitute in vegas, and now In MN, i feel like turning her in, I could get her jail time with all the signed checks and pictures of prostitution. What do I do? drag her to councelling? she said she would stop and get help with me, and as long as i give her the attention she needs, she will "NEVER talk to another guy, unless its for sex, or money". AND YOU CAN QUOTE ME ON THESE QUOTES!

So ive been engaged to this girl that im in love with. She is a model and has posed for playboy many times. She started off being not the greatest girlfriend, and slowly has stopped the drinking and other stuff. it was bad. But her sister died recently, and now she has been slowing down. We live together and spend every day with eachother. We are best friends. Well i have been getting suspicious lately, very suspicious. The myspace addiction for her started 3 months ago. Thats all she does now. All night. She has meet over 1200 guys off of there, and the story gets ALOT WORSE! She was using my computer to do the pimping, so i decided enough was enough. I got a keylogger, found out her passwords. The rest is very graphic, well sorta, but it hurts for me. I read her email, and i guess for 5 months she has been going up to see this 520lb guy, while she only weighs 105lbs. I was shocked. Hundreds of dirty emails from him, and emails of him finding out about me. Worse, there was tons of sexual pictures on there. I puked, then started shaking. I kept reading all of these emails and just couldnt believe it. Shocked. Ive seen worse pictures on her email than ive seen in hardcore xxx movies. I have then found out she meet a guy off myspace, who was 65 and lived in san diego. he was showing pictures of "himself" to her, and she was saying things like "oh yes, i cant wait to bla bla bla" . She returned from sandiego a week ago. I then checked her myspace....OH MY GOD. I couldnt even cry. I kid you not, 100's of dirty emails, her saying she had a boyfriend, but still wants to meet up. She has thousands of emails, thousands from hundreds of different guys saying things like "oh my god, you are the hottest girl alive, lets meet up so i can make love to you" and "hey girl im glad we could see eachother, your body is amazing and cant wait to have sex with you all night" I couldnt believe it, in fact, there were so many, that i had 5 of my co-workers read different sections of the myspace inbox. She didnt add me as a friend on myspace until recently, but keeps putting nude pics of her up there. She only takes them down when i yell at her. I have been lied to for months and months. But i really really love this girl, and were getting married in a month, and our kid is about to be born. WHAT DO I DO? This girl is my best friend and we have a house together. What do I do? i dont wanna control her, that will push her away.