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Thread: Very complicated situation (22/F) and feeling very depressed.

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    I think he meant the drug abuse is what would continue to happen. Either way, it is still a situation I do not want to be a part of. I think I am mostly feeling guilty that I didnít inform him prior to sexual relations this time. I really wanted to be a good person and I feel a lot of self hatred because I didnít say anything. And now after what happened I canít because Iím scared of the outcome. I just wish it didnít have to be this way.

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    Then tell him and end it!

    Why are you not using condoms?

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    I also thought you said you had treated it?

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    I did, as in thereís no visible symptoms. But it still can be spread without them apparently.

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    I will ask a third time. Why aren't you using condoms?

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    What do mean "sort have been seeing each other? "

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    Because I wasnít thinking in the moment.

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    Heís the only person I have seen this year. But at first it was sort of long distance and it was more of a casual thing. We have never been officially in a relationship

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    Originally Posted by beeurself173
    Because I wasnít thinking in the moment.
    What if he has HIV or another STD. I suggest you get tested and be smarter next time.

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    Originally Posted by beeurself173
    Heís the only person I have seen this year. But at first it was sort of long distance and it was more of a casual thing. We have never been officially in a relationship
    Oh goodness. Why has any of this been okay for you?

    Tell him, then go NC. Get tested and seek counseling to deal with your complete lack of self worth. You are on a very dangerous path.

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