Does he really want me?

I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years and the past 3 or 4 years he just doesnt want to come near me sexually.

I've tired with him but he always makes the excuse he's too tired or just not in the mood.

I'm a plus size girl and he knows I hate the way I look when I'm naked and that I hate getting dressed in front of him. But I know he has pictures of skinny naked girls on his phone and that he watches porn so It makes me feel like he doesnt find me attractive and want me like that and I just don't know what to do as I really do love him and scared he's going to go elsewhere for sex or leave me once someone better comes along.

I have tried talking to him about it and how I feel but he just starts moaning and arguing with me and I just don't know what to do anymore

You need to break up with him and not blame this on yourself. He sounds like a selfish ahole. Why stay in a loveless, sexless relationship with no affection or respect. Do you live together? What is the reason you stay?

I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years and the past 3 or 4 years he just doesnt want to come near me sexually. scared he's going to go elsewhere for sex or leave me once someone better comes along. I have tried talking to him about it and how I feel but he just starts moaning and arguing with me

You need to break up with him and not blame this on yourself. He sounds like a selfish ahole. Why stay in a loveless, sexless relationship with no affection or respect. Do you live together? What is the reason you stay?

Yes we've not long moved in together and I'm still with him because I do really love him

Love yourself. Break up with him.

It's possible you are correct about his preferences. Were you always plus sized, or did you gain weight once you were in the relationship? Either way, you need to end the relationship if it has been years since he was willing to be sexual with you. Also, seriously consider making the effort to lose the weight if you feel insecure naked. I understand it's difficult, but you feeling bad about you will seep into every relationship you have.

I would be done.

3 to 4 years of no intimacy means that no, unfortunately he isn't into you that way anymore. It's beyond time to break up.

I wouldn't have sex with someone who I knew hated me seeing them naked. Talk about a boner killer. Not saying whether this guy's a catch or not, but being confident about your body should precede intimacy.

3 or 4 YEARS?! Oh honey, please please move on from this jacka**.

They moved in together. Still having the same issues. See her other thread on the first page.