IamGroot Posted June 24, 2018 Share Posted June 24, 2018 So basically to keep the story short, one time I had sex with a friend of mine at a hotel I was staying at under the influence of alcohol after a party in my room after everyone left that night. We fell asleep, woke up and had breakfast in the morning and then I said goodbye as I left after food to travel back for work, which my job makes me travel all around the US in a tour. We’ve been friends all of college and hung out A few times after “that night” and things have been cool, but we’ve never spoke about it. I think part of the reason “I” never brought it up or pursued it further was because sometime after as the ride of my first leg of the job was concluding, I started dating someone I actually wanted to finally give my time to go steady with. I even hung out with my college friend from that night, the person who became my girlfriend, and another buddy of mine at the beach when I came home for a month and everything was fine( there was no awkwardness or problems) . I’m curious, in the future if I continue to stay steady with this girl I’m seeing now, should I eventually talk to my friend about that night, should I just leave it up to her to speak to me about it, or should we both just let it ride out as a one time thing ? My relationship with this friend is still good, there’s no problems. I’m just curious as to what yall think, as It’s been something that pops In my mind from time to time and I see myself keeping this friendship. Link to comment
Jibralta Posted June 24, 2018 Share Posted June 24, 2018 If you want to talk about it with your friend, then talk about it. There is no "should." Link to comment
sosavvy Posted June 24, 2018 Share Posted June 24, 2018 What is there to talk about? It was a one night stand as friends and you’ve both moved forward. I guess I’m not understanding the problem? Unless you have feelings for her? Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted June 24, 2018 Share Posted June 24, 2018 Let sleeping dogs lie. Focus on your new gf. Link to comment
BettyBee Posted June 24, 2018 Share Posted June 24, 2018 If it didn't mean anything there is really nothing to talk about, so don't worry about it and focus on your new girl. And don't risk making your friendship awkward by bringing it up for no reason. Link to comment
figureitout23 Posted June 24, 2018 Share Posted June 24, 2018 Is she acting different, do you get the sense that she wants to discuss it? If so be her friend and let her know where you stand, it's no secret reading here that some women get confused even with ons. If you dint notice a change then just leave it be. Link to comment
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