Ask For Advice
Page 1 of 5 1234 ... LastLast
Results 1 to 10 of 43

Thread: Would a girl purposely not contact you to see if youíll contact her?

  1. #1
    Rozhni
    Member
    Join Date
    Nov 2017
    Posts
    192

    Would a girl purposely not contact you to see if youíll contact her?

    If a girl is interested in a guy she wouldnít play that game right?
    Sometimes I wonder if a girl purposely doesnít respond for a few days to see if Iíll text again to see how interested I am in her.
    This isnít something Iím going through, Iím just wondering for the future.

  2. #2
    Hollyj
    Platinum Member
    Join Date
    Dec 2007
    Posts
    13,732
    People aren't so complicated. If someone doesn't respond, it means they are not interested.

    Stop with all the games and trying to find the magic formula. Be yourself!!!!!

    It seems like you post one of these questions every two days. It's almost obsessive.

  3. #3
    MissCanuck
    Platinum Member
    Join Date
    Aug 2016
    Posts
    4,392
    The immature and inexperienced set might play games like this. But they're not worth dating anyway.

    A girl who likes you and is capable of a relationship isn't going ignore you, no.

  4. #4
    Rozhni
    Member
    Join Date
    Nov 2017
    Posts
    192
    Quote Originally Posted by Hollyj [Register to see the link]
    People aren't so complicated. If someone doesn't respond, it means they are not interested.

    Stop with all the games and trying to find the magic formula. Be yourself!!!!!

    It seems like you post one of these questions every two days. It's almost obsessive.
    The only thing Iím obsessed about is posting questions on here.

  5. #5
    Hollyj
    Platinum Member
    Join Date
    Dec 2007
    Posts
    13,732
    Quote Originally Posted by Rozhni [Register to see the link]
    The only thing Iím obsessed about is posting questions on here.
    Why? And, why are you so unsure about yourself?

  6. #6
    Capricorn3
    Super Moderator Capricorn3's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2009
    Posts
    13,601
    Quote Originally Posted by Rozhni [Register to see the link]
    Would a girl purposely not contact you to see if youíll contact her?.
    The only reason I wouldn't contact someone would be because I am not interested in them. Nothing more, nothing less.

  7. #7
    Capricorn3
    Super Moderator Capricorn3's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2009
    Posts
    13,601
    Quote Originally Posted by Rozhni [Register to see the link]
    The only thing Iím obsessed about is posting questions on here.
    WHY?

    May I suggest you start a journal where you can keep all your questions in one place without needing to start new threads every day.

  8. #8
    DaisyMayPorter
    Bronze Member
    Join Date
    Nov 2017
    Posts
    220
    Gender
    Female
    I think it's a really interesting question. I had a gentleman friend of mine who had called me a few times during the holidays, then was initiating texts with me everyday during the holidays - merry xmas, New years, then texting just making conversation and joking around. Then last week he went to a conference for work, so I knew the texting would probably cease a little bit because he would be super busy. So I wanted to say hi, so I sent him a cute message last week and we had a cute little exchange, but then neither of us has reached out since then. I do wonder if it's my turn to reach out (I know no one should have a "turn" and should just reach out whenever we want, but you know...) because he was the one doing all the initiating for 2-3 weeks. But I don't know. Does he know I'm waiting for him to reach out or should I just be the one to reach out so he knows I'm interested?! Or did he just lose interest? It's not games we play, sometimes it's just humans being afraid.

    I like your questions, Rozhni! :-)

  9. #9
    Wiseman2
    Platinum Member Wiseman2's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2016
    Location
    Cloud Nine
    Posts
    23,207
    Gender
    Male
    While the 'hard-to-get' game is still out there, most people now won't waste time on that or any other dating-games.

    Most texts are like volleys. You text, they answer and so on. When one person tapers off it means they are 1) not interested and/or 2) not interested in texting all the the time.
    Quote Originally Posted by Rozhni [Register to see the link]
    I wonder if a girl purposely doesnít respond for a few days to see if Iíll text again to see how interested I am in her.

  10. #10
    DaisyMayPorter
    Bronze Member
    Join Date
    Nov 2017
    Posts
    220
    Gender
    Female
    Iím not going to lie though, after texting for a couple weeks I would prefer a guy just pick up the phone. Texting after a while starts to go nowhere.

  11.  

Page 1 of 5 1234 ... LastLast
Top Threads
Sheís always nervous around me and idk what to do
The girl Iíve been seeing for the past 4 months is still nervous around me. Weíve seen each other 7 times in 4 months. So what Iíve noticed is
SEND HELP!! Early stages of dating.. should I still put the effort in when he is multi dating?
Ok... I will give it a go: I met this guy online (we have been speaking for two months prior) we met up finally at Christmas and had a great time, we
Turns out sheís my twin flame
After first seeing her in 7th grade and being too shy back then to ever talk to her, I ended up changing schools after a week or so and lost complete
Dating a girl fresh from breakup
I met a girl I liked and we've been on two dates already. The problem is that her bf has broken up with her recently (for 2nd or 3rd time, they'd
Should I Ask Her Out Again? She's coming to me after flaking.
We're in college, so this all seems a little immature. I know things wont be as complicated as you get older. So i posted about this girl a while
His sexual past bothers me a lot? Should I dump him?
I started dating this guy recently and we've really hit it off. Thing is: I'm happy in the relationship but his past REALLY bothers me. He's
When guys are off with you, are they on with another?
This question is for the men . When you are dating a girl and suddenly lose interest (completely off) is it almost always because another woman

Featured Threads
Sheís always nervous around me and idk what to do
The girl Iíve been seeing for the past 4 months is still nervous around me. Weíve seen each other 7 times in 4 months. So what Iíve noticed is
We got back together and then...
Hey guys. Its been a few months since my last post. Id like to say hello to a few names I remember from before. Ive been reading some of everyones
Should i sell my house and live with my gf
I have been with my gf for 11 months. We are at a crossroads and i cant decide what to do as regards living with her in her home. She wants me to
Prednisone is the only thing that makes me sane
I am seeing a neurologist soon but wanted to see if there's anybody out there who has similar symptoms to me. I've tried googling it, and it seems
I think I hate my girlfriend...
Hey folks, newbie here. Long story short with a few details: I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years. We rent a house together. We met
Gift buying woes
Iíve been dating this guy for about 8 months. Heís a cop so has a cop car for work, and he has two personal vehicles. Both expensive luxury cars. I
Mother moved out. Curious how to guide her in the right direction. If possible.
[B]So if I had written this post a few days ago it would go like this:[/B] My mother moved out a few weeks ago after she found a job and an
Ask For Advice

Tags for this Thread

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •