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    Liz Fischer

    7 Steps to Securing Your Marriage License in Florida

    As a relationship expert, I've seen a countless number of couples navigate the winding path towards marriage. But before the dreamy gaze into each other's eyes, the exchange of rings, and the heartwarming "I do," there's a practical step that every couple must take - obtaining a marriage license. And in sunny Florida, known for its picturesque beaches and relaxed lifestyle, this process has its unique flavor, much like the state itself. In my early years of practice, I had a couple who came to me, anxious and confused about the process. With a bit of guidance, they not only managed to secure their license effortlessly but also learned valuable lessons that prepared them for their marital journey. So, whether you're a native Floridian or an excited out-of-stater planning a destination wedding, this guide will walk you through the seven key steps to secure your marriage license in Florida, peppered with tips to build a stronger bond, even before your big day.

    Step 1: Understanding the Importance of a Marriage License

    A marriage license is not merely a piece of paper, but a legally binding document that gives you the right to marry in a particular state - in this case, Florida. It's essentially a permit for your marriage, akin to a driver's license for driving. It is a crucial first step towards making your union official, and without it, your marriage won't be legally recognized.

    More than that, getting a marriage license can be seen as the first serious test of your partnership. It involves understanding and navigating legal requirements together, making decisions about your wedding (like the date, as you'll need to know that when you apply), and ensuring you are on the same page about this significant commitment you're about to make.

    For many couples, the process of obtaining a marriage license provides an opportunity for conversation about the legal implications of marriage. This might include discussions about name changes, finances, and future plans. So, while it may seem like a bureaucratic hassle, consider it a valuable tool in sparking meaningful dialogues that may strengthen your bond as a couple.

    In Florida, there are certain specificities you need to know. The state has some unique requirements and procedures compared to others, which we will cover in the following steps. Being aware of these nuances and preparing for them in advance will help ensure your path to obtaining your marriage license is as smooth as possible.

    Step 2: Meeting the Basic Requirements

    Like any other state, Florida has a set of basic requirements that you and your partner need to meet to be eligible for a marriage license. Knowing these in advance will save you from potential heartache and time-wasting roadblocks.

    Firstly, both parties applying for a marriage license must be at least 18 years old. For those under the age of 18, there are some specific exceptions, such as written consent from parents or legal guardians, or a confirmed pregnancy, but these situations generally require court approval.

    Another key requirement is proof of identification and age. Acceptable forms of identification include a valid driver's license, passport, or state ID. Birth certificates can also be used, particularly for those who are under 18. Don't forget that original identification documents are required, copies won't suffice.

    While most states require a social security number, in Florida, only U.S. citizens need to provide this. If you or your partner are non-U.S. citizens, you can use an alien registration number, a naturalization number, or a U.S. visa number.

    Furthermore, there's no need to worry if either of you were previously married. Florida doesn't require proof of divorce or death of a previous spouse, but you will need to know the exact date the divorce was finalized or the previous spouse passed away.

    Finally, and quite conveniently, Florida does not require couples to be residents of the state to obtain a marriage license there, making it an attractive destination for out-of-state couples and destination weddings. However, do note that a marriage license issued in Florida is only valid within the state. So, if you're planning a beach wedding in Miami or a fairy-tale theme park ceremony in Orlando, you're good to go!

    Step 3: Completing the Pre-marital Course (and Why It's a Good Idea)

    Florida offers an interesting perk that not all states provide. Couples can choose to complete a premarital preparation course from a registered provider. While this step is optional, there are several benefits to taking advantage of this offer.

    The first benefit is a tangible one - completing the premarital course grants a discount on the marriage license fee. More importantly, though, the course serves to better prepare you and your partner for marriage. Through these courses, you'll have the opportunity to engage in guided discussions about your future, deal with any potential issues, and strengthen your relationship before you say your vows.

    These courses usually cover a range of important topics, from conflict resolution to financial planning, and even intimate topics like sexual health. By addressing these areas proactively, you are likely to reduce misunderstandings and disagreements in the future.

    Beyond the practical aspects, this step can actually be a bonding experience. Working through a premarital course can bring you and your partner closer, solidify your mutual understanding, and remind you of the reasons why you are choosing to embark on this lifelong journey together.

    Lastly, taking the premarital course reduces the mandatory 3-day waiting period for the marriage license to be effective, so you can get married immediately after obtaining your license. This can be particularly beneficial for those planning a destination wedding in Florida or for couples who simply can't wait to say "I do."

    Step 4: Applying for Your License in Person

    Once you've ticked all the necessary boxes in terms of eligibility and pre-marital preparation, the next step is to apply for your marriage license. In Florida, you and your partner must apply in person at any Clerk of the Circuit Court office. This rule applies to everyone; there are no exceptions, not even for Florida residents. So, if you are planning a destination wedding, be sure to plan a visit to the clerk's office into your pre-wedding schedule.

    When applying, remember to bring all the required documents mentioned earlier: valid photo ID for proof of age and identity, your social security numbers if you're U.S. citizens, or your other eligible identification if you're not. Also, be prepared to provide information about any previous marriages, such as the exact dates when they ended.

    A crucial point to note is that Florida has a mandatory 3-day waiting period for the license to be effective after it is issued, unless you have completed an approved pre-marital course. Plan accordingly to ensure that this waiting period doesn't interfere with your wedding date.

    While at the clerk's office, you'll also have to pay a license fee. The fee varies by county, so it's a good idea to check the specific amount for the county where you plan to apply. The fee can be reduced if you have completed the pre-marital course, as mentioned earlier.

    Applying for your marriage license might seem like a mundane task, but think of it as one of the shared experiences that make your journey unique. Use this time to reflect on the commitment you're about to make and savor the excitement of this critical step towards your big day.

    Step 5: Planning Your Ceremony

    With the technicalities of obtaining a marriage license out of the way, it's time to focus on the more exciting parts of getting married - planning your wedding ceremony. Remember, your marriage isn't legally recognized until the license is returned to, and recorded by, the Clerk of the Circuit Court's office, following the ceremony.

    In Florida, your marriage ceremony can be performed by a range of officials, including ordained clergy, judicial officers (judges), clerks of the circuit courts, and notaries public of the state. Also, the state allows for self-solemnizing ceremonies, a somewhat rare provision. This means that you and your partner can perform the ceremony without an officiant, in case you want a truly intimate and personal event.

    Regardless of who performs the ceremony, make sure they sign the marriage license, along with two witnesses, and return it to the clerk's office for it to be officially recorded. You then receive a certified copy as proof of your marriage.

    When planning your ceremony, consider weaving in elements that reflect you as a couple, and use this opportunity to create meaningful memories. It's a celebration of your union, so make it something that speaks to your hearts.

    Step 6: Changing Your Name (If You Choose To)

    If you or your partner plan to change your last name post-marriage, it's important to know that the name change process isn't automatically triggered by getting married. In fact, this is a separate process that involves additional steps.

    The first thing to remember is that you should write your new name on the marriage license application, as your marriage certificate (which you'll get after the wedding) is a legal document that proves your new name. Then, you can use this certificate to change your name on your Social Security card, driver's license, and other personal identification documents.

    Do note that while many people traditionally take their spouse's surname or hyphenate their names, the state of Florida allows for other options as well. You can choose any last name that has been previously used by either spouse, or a combination of the two. This flexibility allows you to select a name that best represents your shared identity.

    Remember, changing your name is a significant decision and should be made after careful consideration. Discuss it thoroughly with your partner and ensure that you're both comfortable with the decision. After all, your name is a crucial part of your identity, and any changes to it should be done thoughtfully.

    Step 7: Embracing the Journey Ahead

    With your marriage license in hand and the wedding ceremony completed, the final step isn't so much a step as it is a lifelong journey. Your marriage license was just the beginning of a new chapter, filled with countless shared experiences, challenges, and triumphs. Remember that marriage, like any relationship, requires ongoing effort, understanding, and love.

    Throughout your journey, you might encounter unexpected twists and turns. It's essential to remember the bond that brought you together in the first place and to keep the lines of communication open. Listen, understand, and compromise when necessary.

    The couple I mentioned at the beginning of this guide, the ones who were so anxious about the marriage license process, are still together and stronger than ever. The process of obtaining their marriage license in Florida was, in hindsight, a minor part of their journey, but it was also a valuable experience that prepared them for their shared life.

    In closing, getting your marriage license in Florida can be a smooth process if you know what to expect and are prepared. More importantly, it's a profound commitment and a promise of love and partnership. Cherish each moment and look forward to the amazing journey ahead.

    For more insights and guidance, consider these resources:

    • "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work" by John Gottman and Nan Silver
    • "The Five Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts" by Gary Chapman
    • "Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love" by Dr. Sue Johnson

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