Elof Valantor Posted May 17, 2008 Share Posted May 17, 2008 I hope this is the right forum. I had a hard time figuring out where to post this. If I should have put this elsewhere could a moderator kindly move it for me. Thanks. Now, some of you will think this is wrong and evil, some wont, but there we go. Simply put I really fancy my stepsister (no blood relation). It's a completely sexual attraction. I've no interest in a relationship - she isn't my type. That doesn't stop her being incredibly attractive, and I would really like to sleep with her. I'm wondering whether or not to tell her and see what happens, and how I would tell her if I decided to. I'd like some views from other people on it. I realise saying anything could be risky and potentially damaging, which is probably the main reason why I'm seeking some views from other people. To help give you an understanding of the situation I'll explain a few things. Firstly, we hardly ever see each other. I'm at Uni and don't go home often. When I do go home I'll see my dad for an evening or a day, of which I might see my stepsister for an hour or so. She's 22 and I'm 20. As far as I'm aware she has never thought of me in any way other than as a stepbrother, so I imagine any confession from me would be a complete surprise. I can trust her to keep it quiet if I should say anything I think. You can never be certain though. We were weren't brought up together either. I've only known her since my dad starting seeing her mum (a few years). They're married now so she's my stepsister. We really don't know much about each other. We'll talk a bit if we're both visiting but that's about it. Like I said, it's purely a sexual attraction. Link to comment
Notallthere Posted May 17, 2008 Share Posted May 17, 2008 Well , i dont think your a bad person or evil. I have had a friend who had the same thing come up to him, and he went ahead and asked, she took it very badly, and he cant live it down. Women sometime seem to think of a stepbrother as a real brother, and so think nothing will happen between them. If it is something you need to get off your chest i suggest sitting down and talking to her about it, maybe start out and tell her you think shes attractive. Link to comment
DN Posted May 17, 2008 Share Posted May 17, 2008 No, you should not. You could throw a lighted match into a gasoline storage tank though. That might cause a little less damage. Link to comment
rocio Posted May 17, 2008 Share Posted May 17, 2008 No, you should not. You could throw a lighted match into a gasoline storage tank though. That might cause a little less damage. ah, well said. Link to comment
BeStrongBeHappy Posted May 17, 2008 Share Posted May 17, 2008 NO NO NO!!! You say this is just a sexual attraction and nothing more, so why disrupt your whole family just for that? She will probably be both upset and horrified by this. And what is she supposed to do about it? Once she knows, trot off to the bedroom and have sex with you and then never speak of it again and act like nothing happened? This would make things EXTREMELY and perhaps permanently awkward between the two of you. The world is full of women you can be attracted to and have sex with so you don't have to act on this with her. There's an old expression that says a bird shouldn't soil its own nest. Your family is your nest, and you have to return there and don't want to do anything that might disrupt family relations. It just isn't worth it, and odds of her actually having sex with you and agreeing to that are VERY small. Link to comment
ladyblue07 Posted May 17, 2008 Share Posted May 17, 2008 Sorry dude, but I think the above post is right. This has a high risk of causing weirdness and awkwardness in your family. The odds are very low that your step sister wants to have a sex fling with you and even if she did, it would probably gross out your dad and her mom. DO NOT SAY ANYTHING TO HER!!!! Link to comment
Roasted Carrots Posted May 17, 2008 Share Posted May 17, 2008 I agree strongly with BestrongBehappy! Nothing good can ever come of this situation. Leave it be. Link to comment
sophie274 Posted May 17, 2008 Share Posted May 17, 2008 Yep, a "friend" of mine used to say "don't poo where you eat." This is a TERRIBLE idea. At best you get one time sex with your stepsister, at worse she never feels comfortable around you again. Worth it? NO WAY! Link to comment
tejas Posted May 17, 2008 Share Posted May 17, 2008 This can only go badly. If you tell her - and she is disgusted by the suggestion, you have to see her everytime you go home and at every family function - and it's going to be really awkward. If you tell her - and she's up for it, and you have sex, and then dump her - you'll have to see her everytime you go home and at every family function - and it's going to be really awkward. You should not look for a sexual escapade within your immediate family. Blood relation or not - this is someone you're going to have to maintain somekind of relationship with for a long long time. This is the one person you can definitely NOT "just have sex" with - and then never see again. Keep this one to yourself, dude. Link to comment
Anna. Posted May 17, 2008 Share Posted May 17, 2008 No, you should not. You could throw a lighted match into a gasoline storage tank though. That might cause a little less damage. I concur as well. Link to comment
lanty3 Posted May 17, 2008 Share Posted May 17, 2008 No, you should not. You could throw a lighted match into a gasoline storage tank though. That might cause a little less damage. What he said. Link to comment
Enigmatika Posted May 17, 2008 Share Posted May 17, 2008 No, you should not. You could throw a lighted match into a gasoline storage tank though. That might cause a little less damage. ^^^sums it up beautifully. Link to comment
eurocar Posted May 17, 2008 Share Posted May 17, 2008 You can jack off to thoughts of her, but don't dare bring up having sex with her... Link to comment
LikeYouImagined Posted May 18, 2008 Share Posted May 18, 2008 well, I must confess that I've always found a cousin of mine (no blood relation because I'm adopted) quite attractive (physically and personality), and although I wouldn't do anything with him now, I probably would not have stopped him if he ever came on to me in private or something...but we only see each other like once a year and I think that he's always just thought of me as a little cousin because I'm younger and as nothing more...so I would have NEVER told him how I felt. Link to comment
Superfreak Posted May 18, 2008 Share Posted May 18, 2008 If this was porno-land I'd say go for it. Unfortunately it's not though and this is going to cause alot more trouble then it's worth. Their's practically no chance that she wants the same thing. On the bright side, attractive girls tend to hang out with attractive girls, so who knows, maybe she has a few friends she can introduce you to. Link to comment
dream83 Posted May 18, 2008 Share Posted May 18, 2008 There's literally billions of women on this planet, many of whom you could potentially have sex with. Propositioning your step sister for sex should not even be within the realm of possibility in my opinion. It's just not a good idea no matter how you slice it (especially since all you want is sex...once again...there are lots of women out there whom you would probably find attractive and who also have vaginas). I think it would be less damaging and you could still accomplish your sexual objective if you were to seek women who don't have familial ties to you. Link to comment
jengh Posted May 18, 2008 Share Posted May 18, 2008 oh man...no way... just think of the horrible mess it would cause (DN summed it up beautifully!) if the feeling wasn't mutual? What would you say, "hey 'sis', you're hot. i want to bone you"? just keep it a fantasy Link to comment
delstar Posted May 18, 2008 Share Posted May 18, 2008 This won't end well. Even expressing a desire to do anything to anyone who knows the two of you even by hearing a 5th-hand story already knows too much information. Stop now. Don't think about it. Grab videos and handle yourself. Go get so drunk you smash your head into a curb on accident. SOMETHING to distract yourself and get her outta your mind. Link to comment
TBE_1989 Posted May 18, 2008 Share Posted May 18, 2008 No. It would cause more trouble than its worth. Besides, the sexual attraction will probably fade after a while. Link to comment
shell80 Posted May 18, 2008 Share Posted May 18, 2008 Umm yeah.....you'd be doing it for purely selfish reasons without considering your wider family's feelings. You're 20 and only after sex...do the maths matey. Link to comment
babygurl250 Posted May 18, 2008 Share Posted May 18, 2008 Women sometime seem to think of a stepbrother as a real brother, and so think nothing will happen between them. i have 6 step brothers of my own and i see them so strongly as my brothers! theyre all a similar age to me, just a few years apart. if one of them turned around to me and told me they were sexually attracted to me and wanted to sleep together i would be mortified! it would make things in the family very akward and i honestly wouldnt know where to look when i saw them and would feel very uncomfortable around them. Unless you have any clear signs that she could possibly be interested in a sexual act with you then i really dont think that you should tell her! theres a big chance that it will cause upset! it will make her feel uncomfortable around you when your at home. Link to comment
valiantv Posted May 19, 2008 Share Posted May 19, 2008 Just want to add to the list of No's! Have a cold shower, or have a toss and think of her, but DO NOT say it to her! Anyway if it's only sex you're after, there's plenty of hot women out there! Link to comment
DISTROYER1385 Posted May 4, 2014 Share Posted May 4, 2014 Listen I feel just like you do. My step sister is 16 and I'm 13. I live in Florida with my mom and my dad lives in Texas with my step sister and them. I have felt the same way you do since I first met her. My brothers tees me about wanting to sleep with her. That started in 2010. I say stick to your fantasies. There you can be happy and your sister wont look at you in disgust. Link to comment
Longview01 Posted May 4, 2014 Share Posted May 4, 2014 Start using your brain instead of something else in the future Link to comment
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