Capricorn3

Show your fiance your thread and ask what he thinks.

You are not over reacting, and no, this is not good. What you see is what you get. He's showing you his true character and it's not exactly impressive (imo). Shoving you around when he is drunk and swearing and disrespecting you whenever he is angry is unacceptable behaviour. Sounds like he needs anger management. Do you really want a partner like this for the rest of your life? It won't get any better - in fact, it will get a lot worse over time. Show him you have some self-respect and leave.

I agree with the above. Focus on enjoying your special day with them and let all the rest fall by the wayside. Congratulations 🙂

What I read above I find really disturbing. Clearly, this is full-on abuse. What is even more disturbing is that you seem really proud of this abusive behaviour and your unwillingness to stop is beyond comprehension (to me). You then ask for advice on how to continue with this abuse. It's mind-boggling to think that anyone would truly give advice and "guidance" on how to continue this shocking behaviour to someone you claim to love. Adding to that concern, is that there are children in the home who are witness to this. You are aware that they are learning from your example, right? Doesn't this bother you? The only advice I can give is to seek qualified professional therapy to stop this abuse. The sooner the better.

OP, a simple question for you: - How would you feel if another guy had his eye on your girlfriend at the gym with intentions of getting together with her, even know she has a boyfriend? Serious question. Comes down to simple respect for others and self-respect (imo).

I would give this one a miss.

Rain, rain, rain and more rain - for days on end. Flooding starting all over the place. I feel like a drowned rat. Oh, and cold! 🥶

AKA emotional vampires.

I'll try this again. My posts keep disappearing. And the guy who comes to rescue her - the knight in shining armour? I see both these individuals as people with very low self-esteem. Both looking for attention in their own way.

I second this post. In a world where good manners are now sorely lacking, to me it's refreshing to see people who have still got some common decency and courtesy.

Can members please refrain from back-and-forth arguing/debating. It's both detracting and disrespectful to the OP. This is about Lost's dating adventures - lets keep it at that. Thanks.

I am going to be brutally blunt - the moment I read the first three sentences I was immediately put off, big time. I can see exactly why you have no girls going after you, and by the way you continue bragging and thinking you're god's gift to women, you'll be alone for a very very very long time. No amount of your perceived "perfection" will work if the personality doesn't match. Humble? I see zero of that. Try an attitude change and you might get lucky, eventually.

I have had a look and haven't found anything indicating that a thread has been deleted (btw, we don't delete threads anyway). Can you tell me which thread it was? Title? When posted?

Thread closed as per OP's request.

All I see is poor character and poor judgement - you'd think at age 54 he should know better. Ugh. He would be my permanent EX so fast he wouldn't know what hit him.