baddasslegend92 Posted March 9, 2007 Share Posted March 9, 2007 Would you take your ex back if while you was broken up (there choice) they slept with someome else in a two week period???? Link to comment
hennypenny3288 Posted March 9, 2007 Share Posted March 9, 2007 I know I would. If he came back to me because he missed me and slept with someone else while we were broken up, I would still take him back. Link to comment
baddasslegend92 Posted March 9, 2007 Author Share Posted March 9, 2007 Can you tell me why??? Link to comment
Pegasus Posted March 9, 2007 Share Posted March 9, 2007 I'm sure I would not - that would show to ex that he/she can do it again and again and will have me waiting for them whatever happens. It's a sure way to hell. Link to comment
hennypenny3288 Posted March 9, 2007 Share Posted March 9, 2007 If he chose to come back to me, it would mean that he missed our relationship that much that he would choose to return, instead of pursuing it with someone else. Link to comment
kate111 Posted March 9, 2007 Share Posted March 9, 2007 Yes I would. It wouldn't be important who they slept with. Link to comment
bear12 Posted March 9, 2007 Share Posted March 9, 2007 i agree. i mean, assuming this is the ONLY hang up and that you're not hessitant b/c of other issues, i would take my ex back under those circumstances. i mean, one, you were broken up, it' not like he/she was cheating on you.. second, if you're feeling like "how could he/she move on so quikcly.." people have sex for lots of reasons. the best, obviously, is when you're expressing your love/affection for someone else, but people have sex for all kinds of other reasons... like just b/c they're really sexually attracted to the other person or b/c they're trying to forget about someone else. i'm not saying those are good reasons to do it, i'm just saying that just b/c he/she slept with someone else so soon after the break up doesn't imply that you really meant nothing to them... of course, there may be a lot more to the back story that would make getting back together a bad idea but if you're both committed to making it work, i wouldn't let this get in the way! Link to comment
baddasslegend92 Posted March 9, 2007 Author Share Posted March 9, 2007 She broke up with be because she said she had no time for a relationship..So I did the NC...she said she had that time to think about us and she realized that she is in love with me.It hurt when she told me that but i guess she really see what she had. Link to comment
hennypenny3288 Posted March 9, 2007 Share Posted March 9, 2007 Are you going to take her back? If the guy I loved came back to me, I would take him back in a heartbeat. No questions asked. Link to comment
baddasslegend92 Posted March 9, 2007 Author Share Posted March 9, 2007 I really want to, she'd driving all the way from VA to GA so we can be together this weekend...So most likely I will.Im just scared.I mean I felt the reason she broke it off was because she was feeling someone else and since it didn't work she coming back...But I do love her and willing to make it work for us. Link to comment
hennypenny3288 Posted March 9, 2007 Share Posted March 9, 2007 You'll do ok. At least you have a second chance at happiness. Not many people do. Cherish it. Link to comment
mintblossom Posted March 9, 2007 Share Posted March 9, 2007 I think it's not so much whether he slept with someone or not, it's whether he's worth taking back. And I certainly don't have any exes worth taking anywhere, much less back. Link to comment
pinkelephant Posted March 9, 2007 Share Posted March 9, 2007 Heck no. It's like unrecoverable damage. Link to comment
willow2900 Posted March 10, 2007 Share Posted March 10, 2007 I couldn't do it. Not after they slept with someone else that quickly. I would always be wondering "What if they have feelings for someone else again? Are they going to go sleep them? I allowed it before so why not now?" But that's me. Link to comment
Batya33 Posted March 10, 2007 Share Posted March 10, 2007 Same here and I also would feel uncomfortable dating someone who was still into casual sex. I also would be concerned about STDs. Link to comment
catren Posted March 10, 2007 Share Posted March 10, 2007 I cuould never take them back because I could never get the picture out of my mind. If you can,give it a chance. Link to comment
The Vitruvian Man Posted March 10, 2007 Share Posted March 10, 2007 No, because they aren't in to me anymore if they break up with me. Why should I waste my time with somebody who doesn't like me? Link to comment
macgyver4ever Posted March 10, 2007 Share Posted March 10, 2007 Honestly, if my ex called me back this second, saying she made the biggest mistake of her life (she already did this once mind you) and that she wanted me back, I might think about it. I would make sure she went to counseling, and got all of her stuff together before I was with her again. If someone betrays you in this way, that they need to break up with you to "do" someone else, they really need to evaluate themselves before they jump back in with you. If my ex got everything figured out, I would give it a chance. My guess is I would dump her after a couple months because I would be cheating on her by this point. WHAT COMES AROUND GOES AROUND. Link to comment
baddasslegend92 Posted March 12, 2007 Author Share Posted March 12, 2007 Well just to give you an update, we did get back togther.That was the best thing i could of ever done!!!She is sorry about what she did..and that's why i tool her back....I never been the one to take people back especilly after being with someone else.But some people deserve a second chance. Link to comment
EvaGina Posted March 13, 2007 Share Posted March 13, 2007 No People break up for a reason, there is nothing quite as soul destroying as being an on-again-off-again couple. If you cant work it out while together, then why try when you are broken up? its either un-fixable or one or both of you doesnt care enough to make it work. Link to comment
shelbydlscc Posted March 14, 2007 Share Posted March 14, 2007 yes bc you were broken up which means he/she had no obligations to you Link to comment
Rabican Posted March 14, 2007 Share Posted March 14, 2007 I broke up with my girl. Slept with another girl while she was gone. Bot back together.... things are working out great at the moment, and have been for a while. She still gets a little mad about me being with the other... Ive more or less put it out of my head, its not something I think about, and I NEVER bring it up, because I know she is still hurt by it. Anyways... Id say its perfectly possible to break up, get it on and then get back together. Just dont ask for details... she did, and wishes she didnt. Link to comment
omayra Posted March 14, 2007 Share Posted March 14, 2007 I would probably take him back if he slept with sum 1 when we were broken up, if he slept with that sum 1 when we were together tthen it would all depend on how i feel for him, if i really love the guy i would give him 1 more chance like i would tell him, this is ur last chance u beta not mess up, it wud depend if i got love for him or if u really feel hurt by it they that is u I hope this helps good luck girla!!!a1 Link to comment
omayra Posted March 14, 2007 Share Posted March 14, 2007 One more thing was it when u guys were dating then i think that wud be different Link to comment
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