bubblebath Posted February 25, 2007 Share Posted February 25, 2007 masturbate? regardless of their being in a happy relationship? or is masturbation in men a sign that they are not happy? Link to comment
Locke2121 Posted February 25, 2007 Share Posted February 25, 2007 Well....thats a strange question....umm. Men masturbate when we feel the need I suppose. Its really just a physical release. May I ask why? Link to comment
southerngirl Posted February 25, 2007 Share Posted February 25, 2007 Masturbation is not a sign of unhappiness. men and women alike should feel free to give self love whenever they feel the urge. It will not cause blindness either. Link to comment
EvaGina Posted February 25, 2007 Share Posted February 25, 2007 Men and women both masterbate... even when attached... Link to comment
nini2000 Posted February 25, 2007 Share Posted February 25, 2007 i'm not a man but i am sure they do, even if they're in a happy relationship. it is definitly not a sign of htem not being happy, they're just normal healthy guys, with sexual desires, that they might not be able to fullfill all the time, because maybe you wont be there when he feels horny, so he might masturbate thinking of you or something. its just a normal thing guys do, and when they're young they might feel the need more often than not oh and like everyone else said, women too masturbate, even if they're in happy relationships Link to comment
emma34 Posted February 25, 2007 Share Posted February 25, 2007 i happen to know my boyfriend masturbates...although i wish i didn't. sometimes i worry he likes it more than having sex with me, but i don't think its the truth. all guys do it.. Link to comment
Locke2121 Posted February 25, 2007 Share Posted February 25, 2007 Don't think that! Like I said, its a quick release for us...really nothing else. Its one thing to get off a quick pop, something else to get some slow, sweet loving from our lady. Link to comment
suresuresure Posted February 25, 2007 Share Posted February 25, 2007 You don't want a boyfriend who's "backed up" all the time, trust me. It relieves tension and relaxes him, in addition to it feeling good. It sounds goofy but, if anything, his masturbation habit is possibly making your relationship happier than it would be otherwise. Link to comment
Stambler Posted February 25, 2007 Share Posted February 25, 2007 25% of men admit to it, the other 75% lie..... Link to comment
Cyberchick Posted February 25, 2007 Share Posted February 25, 2007 Hey there... I don't think a man ( or woman ) masterbating is necessarily an indication that he or she is unhappy with a relationship. I think masterbation and being vwith someone just has different payoffs. My friend told me some night she just doesn't feel like having sex with her bf, she'd rather get it done herself. She still loves him and is happy with her sex life. It's the same for men, too, I think. My bf masterbates usually when I'm not there to be with him. It's not an outright replacement of me. I use my vibrator sometimes and I masterbate, both of which I like. But I'd much rather just be with my bf because of the intimacy. Link to comment
agent1607307371 Posted February 25, 2007 Share Posted February 25, 2007 Men masturbate because they can. Maybe they have a stronger sexual urge than their partner, maybe they're feeling a bit stressed, maybe they came accross something that aroused them. Generally it's nothing to do with their partner or the state of their relationship, it's a natural urge. Link to comment
Meow18 Posted February 25, 2007 Share Posted February 25, 2007 i happen to know my boyfriend masturbates...although i wish i didn't. sometimes i worry he likes it more than having sex with me, but i don't think its the truth. all guys do it.. I'm no guy, but I'm sure everyone prefers sex with their significant other over pleasing themself! Unless you are really that bad.. But seriously, it's nothing to feel insecure over. Link to comment
pesh Posted February 26, 2007 Share Posted February 26, 2007 I read on a website (i cant remember which one, and i dont have a link, sorry. but im sure that you can look it up) that it is necessary for men to masturbate regularly, or at least release the built up semen through sex, otherwise there can be complications of some sort. i forget what exactly! grr. next time i'll be sure to be able to cite my sources..... Link to comment
Locke2121 Posted February 26, 2007 Share Posted February 26, 2007 I don't think so. I do know that whatever sperm men don't use within an alloted time dissolves and is absorbed by the testicles. Link to comment
kr356 Posted February 26, 2007 Share Posted February 26, 2007 masturbate? regardless of their being in a happy relationship? or is masturbation in men a sign that they are not happy? I guess it's different for everyone, I know a guy that refuses to masturbate, at all.. but the guys I know that do masturbate they do it whenever they feel like it, doesnt mean they are not happy, just means you are not able to help them for whatever reason so they do it themselves. don't females do that as well.. I couldnt survive the time between saying goodbye to my boyfriend and seeing him again without masturbation lol Link to comment
suresuresure Posted February 26, 2007 Share Posted February 26, 2007 My friend told me some night she just doesn't feel like having sex with her bf, she'd rather get it done herself. hahaha, if there was ever a clearer picture illustrating the contrast in sexual feelings between men and women, i have yet to see it...not that all women have had such an experience, but i doubt ANY man would ever choose his hand over a willing girlfriend/wife unless he's lost all attraction to his partner the more time i spend with my girlfriend the less i masturbate, and that ain't no coincidence Link to comment
EvaGina Posted February 26, 2007 Share Posted February 26, 2007 I would much rather have sex with my bf than masterbate, but then I dont always finish with him and although I am satisfied emotionally, im not physically... so I do it when hes not around. Or if I am just suddenly in the mood and I wont be seeing him any time soon, Ill do it then, too. Link to comment
WithHimForeverX3 Posted March 12, 2007 Share Posted March 12, 2007 Dont teeenage boys usaully mastubate cause they are not ready for sex? and... Is there a way to tell how much my boyfriend masturbates without asking him? Link to comment
CharLit Posted March 12, 2007 Share Posted March 12, 2007 OP: Well, i can't speak for "men", and none of the men here can either since every man is different. For myself though, I masturbate regularly: I love my boyfriend to bits and I love sex with him, but sometimes I get horny when he's not around... sometimes I even do it lying in bed beside him because he can be completely comatose in the morning... so i sort myself out, and then jump him when he finally begins to wake up Dont teeenage boys usaully mastubate cause they are not ready for sex? Generally, people of all ages masturbate because it feels good. and... Is there a way to tell how much my boyfriend masturbates without asking him? Nope Why do you need to know? Link to comment
applepie Posted March 12, 2007 Share Posted March 12, 2007 I've only known one man who didn't admit to masturbating and he was a very highly religious whacky guy. I still think he did does it. Even when I'm in a relationship, I still masturbate. Just about everyone does it, but not everyone cares to admit, or talk about it. Link to comment
surreal123 Posted March 12, 2007 Share Posted March 12, 2007 I'm a man and nothing beats the real deal (sex) but masturbation is an alternative if my girlfriend is not around or tired, etc... It's just a release and I don't think it really has much to do with happiness in a relationship. It's probably just a way of getting rid of some sexual tention that is not needed at the given point in time. Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted March 13, 2007 Share Posted March 13, 2007 Masturbation is completely normal for both women and men, regardless of whether or not being in a relationship. Link to comment
WithHimForeverX3 Posted March 13, 2007 Share Posted March 13, 2007 Well me and my boyfriend joke around cause Ill go "So did you have any fun with Jill last night or was she lonely?" ("Jill" is basically yourhand if you put your hand out infront of you and spready your fingures out your thumb and inter finger make the "J" your middle finger makes the "I" and your ring and pinky finger make the "L"s) he he'll always laugh and not answer me. How can I ask him to make him think Im not just joking around like usual? Link to comment
itsthatguy Posted March 13, 2007 Share Posted March 13, 2007 Well me and my boyfriend joke around cause Ill go "So did you have any fun with Jill last night or was she lonely?" ("Jill" is basically yourhand if you put your hand out infront of you and spready your fingures out your thumb and inter finger make the "J" your middle finger makes the "I" and your ring and pinky finger make the "L"s) he he'll always laugh and not answer me. How can I ask him to make him think Im not just joking around like usual? Better question: Why in the world would you care how much your boyfriend masturbates? Its not like him doing it more or less often indicates ANYTHING about a relationship or his desire/drive to be with you. I had a day a few weeks ago where I was home alone for the entire day and I ended up rubbing one out 10 or 11 times, it doesn't mean I was unhappy with my girlfriend or anything, but rather that I was pretty darn bored and had nothing better to do. Link to comment
Helen67 Posted March 14, 2007 Share Posted March 14, 2007 Oh Itsthatguy, that made me laugh I know a couple of days in the past like that, it's crazy. Starting innocently with one, and then about 1/2 hour later going for a next then a next etc....I'm impressed with 10 or 11, I think I did about 7 or 8. I just couldn't get enough of the big 'O'. What I've heard, don't know if it's true or not is that women burn calories with an 'O', so that's my excuse and I'm sticking to it. Actually OP I masturbate far more than my SO does, and it does no harm, in fact it enhances my intimacy with him, as I'm constantly learning about my own body through it. Link to comment
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