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  1. if you're capable of commiting suicide, then you're capable of doing anything. you must be really brave to do such a thing.I mean nobody actually knows what's after death, it could be the end of everything as you wish, but it might be the start of something worse, it could be like your punishment for not even trying, and then killing yourself,, they could make you be born again into a worse life...... yeah thats not good.. but then maybe you'll get what you want i mean, who's to know.. and thats kind of ironic, because you keep beating yourself down because you don't think you're worth anything, or w/e it is, and now you're capable of doing such a crazy thing, which actually shows that you're really brave, because honestly.. i wouldn't be able to do it.. im too scared of something nobody knows about... and i honestly would like to make this life last, because at least i know whats going on now, and what i can do or w/e, and not just go off and start something new that i dont know... and honestly if you stop being so negative and stop pittying yourself, then you could be able to do whatever it is you want out of life. and why is it that you hate yourself so much?, is it because you think you're ugly? and if thats the case, why dont you just go work out and try to be the best, and have the best body you can ever have, and then if AFTER you have done this, you still feel you're ugly, even if AFTER you've gotten "ripped", you still think you're not worth anything, then you can think of committing suicide but then at least you tried to do everything in your power to change your life, and it didn't work. you know what I mean? honestly dont just go and commit suicide without at least trying to do everything in your power to change it. if you hate liars, then stop being friends with them, if its your parents, move out and get a job and be by yourself doing whatever it is you want. honestly its YOUR life, you can do with it whatever you want, but dont just go and end it without at least trying to do EVERYTHING in your power to change it, i mean come on now!!
  2. yeah Avman is right, people have different tastes, just now its a good example, me, i liked the round one, as in # 2 and four which i think are the same? reason? i really dont know i just think its pretty..
  3. i'm not a man but i am sure they do, even if they're in a happy relationship. it is definitly not a sign of htem not being happy, they're just normal healthy guys, with sexual desires, that they might not be able to fullfill all the time, because maybe you wont be there when he feels horny, so he might masturbate thinking of you or something. its just a normal thing guys do, and when they're young they might feel the need more often than not oh and like everyone else said, women too masturbate, even if they're in happy relationships
  4. I completely agree with rabbitskin, i dont think she meant to be materialistic like some people have been saying, it was all about the expectations and wanting him to know what she wanted, and i have to tell you, i've been guilty of that, but i have learned that if there is something i want my boyfriend to do for me, i should tell him first! because i remember last valentine's i was expecting this huge thing, since it was my first, and when i saw he didn't do anything special, i started hating on him, and getting into an argument about how he didn't care, but then i realized that the poor guy didn't even know i cared that much about the holiday, and he thought it was just commercial and all of that stuff. You should be happy he was trying his best to please you, but if you really want something special, you should warn him about it, and tell him what you want, and i am sure he will more than gladly do it, because he does sound like a great guy =)
  5. why would she even tell you she's going to be there at nine, and insisted even after you told her it would be ok if she didn't...so that then she wouldn't show up. The least and polite thing to do is to call and let you know... i think thats just rude.. she was probably annoyed at you deep down because you didn't go to her family get together, so she thought this was a good way to get back at you in some weird way? it was very immature of her, and really rude. She should be less selfish and realize that you didn't go because you had this quiz, not because you didn't want to go. I mean it's obvious she's not happy with you in some way if she would just leave you hanging without contacting you. I think you should try to talk to her, and tell her to be honest with you and tell you if there's anything wrong. Just let things out in the open, because it's not good for you both to just leave this at that, it could create some kind of resentment on both of you parts..
  6. I know.. i shouldn't feel guilty, it was just the how bad it was for me to say no to the guy because i really wanted to say yes... but then i thought of my boyfriend and said no.. and yeah you're right, dreams are just dreams, and today I saw him and I didn't feel that 'crazy attraction' i felt in the dream, which made me feel better =) and i do tend to think too much about things thanks again =p
  7. any opinions on the matter would be appreciated
  8. I dreamt with this guy, that i've seen around school, who I think is cute..., He was trying to hit on me, and kiss me, and i honestly felt the urge to reciprocate, you would think it was ok, but I have a boyfriend... the dream felt really real, I felt really bad for feeling these things and pushed the guy away (which was REALLY hard), and walked away. In the dream, I told my boyfriend what had occurred and I saw him there really upset, and now i feel really bad, (even though it was all a dream), because i dont know what to think... I love my boyfriend, but this dream really disconcerted me, because i felt this really strong attraction to this other guy and it was really hard to push him away. Does this mean I don't love my boyfriend as much as I thought? I don't think I would ever cheat on him, because I love him so much, and I would never want to hurt him, but what does this all mean? Does it mean that i actually I'm attracted to this guy in real life? i mean before i just thought he was cute, like something to look at, but nothing like this... and now i feel like i shouldn't be looking in the first place... I'm so confused.. i really don't know what to think...
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