twopercenter Posted February 10, 2007 Share Posted February 10, 2007 Married 10+ years 2 kids under 10 It's been almost two months since I discovered my wife's affair. As is often the case, her affair partner was someone I knew, too. In fact, I would have called him a friend up until December 18th. The affair was more than a one night stand (15 months) and would probably be continuing right now if I hadn't discovered it. We are still together - have resolved to try and salvage our relationship. We have attended couples counseling, been reading books and doing a lot of talking. Although I have no way of knowing if this is true or not, she swears she has had no contact with him since the first week following my discovery apart from a chance meeting several weeks ago in public. I know she still has strong feelings for him. This is hard for me to deal with. I'm giving everything I have to make this work, but I feel like I'm fighting a losing battle at times. I know it'll take her some time to get over him, but I don't know if I can keep on working as hard as I am so long as she's carrying the torch for him. Quote Link to comment
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