LONESOUL Posted December 13, 2006 Share Posted December 13, 2006 Ohhhh, look who the CAT(not dog) brought in? It's DYT! Where have you been young lady? We have missed you! Link to comment
Vynde Posted December 13, 2006 Author Share Posted December 13, 2006 doyathink, Thank you for the complement, I think From the advice I received from you guys today, it looks like I will have to sit down w/ her and once again explain my situation - I’m fearful of doing this. However realize that it is necessary. She is a nice woman and hurting her would kill me. Not really sure what ill say yet, I guess Ill wing it. I guess letting her know that im not just thinking with my "tiny" head will be a good start Ill have an update tomorrow. That is unless I chicken out. /ugh. John Link to comment
sandyv Posted December 13, 2006 Share Posted December 13, 2006 Ya Lone: My ex that was coming for Xmas may not now, bc I didn't feel like his company the other night and he is annoyed with me, so may be alone for xmas, which is ok.... doesn't matter to me, another day....... I do go to the bar, maybe once a week, and once again on the weekend, I read, have a couple of friends who drop in, watch the occasional movie, nothing exciting thats for sure .... lol Link to comment
doyathink Posted December 13, 2006 Share Posted December 13, 2006 Hey lone, I've been here all along...just reading your posts. I think I caught a cold from sleeping in the garage tho...~sniff....sniff~ John, she will be very impressed to hear your not in it for the sex. Perhaps you could tell her that you would like to back up and start over, things went to fast and that the two of you rushed things a bit. You would like to take things slow.....and form a friendship, which is really what you need most right now anyway. I bet she will understand....I'm sure she has had a heartbreak or two and knows where your coming from. Link to comment
LONESOUL Posted December 13, 2006 Share Posted December 13, 2006 Hi again Sandy, where will your friends that drop in, be for Christmas? I wish I had a jet, I'd send it for you! Link to comment
LONESOUL Posted December 13, 2006 Share Posted December 13, 2006 DTY since you are giving very good advise today I will forgive you for spying and not checking in..lol (and for Goodness sake woman, I told you a week ago to sleep in the garage, who knew you would stay in there for a week!) lol For real John, she makes a great point. The woman will more than likely find it very refreshing. Link to comment
doyathink Posted December 13, 2006 Share Posted December 13, 2006 Well good grief, you never told me to stop...can I come back inside now? lol I just thought of something....she will probably want you more now John, knowing that you have a huge heart may be a huge turn on! Link to comment
LONESOUL Posted December 13, 2006 Share Posted December 13, 2006 ohhhhhh I don't know... I'll answer you in a week, when I get back around to checking back in with you....humphhhh!....until then, you should wear your sweater! (lol !) ut oh,John. lol Link to comment
sandyv Posted December 13, 2006 Share Posted December 13, 2006 Lone: My friends who drop in, all have family basically, boyfriends etc..... everyone's doing the family stuff mostly, I'm not worried about it..... whatever.... will be, on the other thread lotsa people said they will be checking into this site to chat because they are in the same position as I'll likely be... And Hi DYT!!!! Link to comment
LONESOUL Posted December 13, 2006 Share Posted December 13, 2006 I know you will be okay. Allot of people won't be with anyone for the hoilday. I will be with friends for dinner, but that about it, my choice. Yes come on ena. I still wish I had a jet to come get you. Link to comment
sandyv Posted December 13, 2006 Share Posted December 13, 2006 I wish, but I will be with y'all in my thoughts and the help of some Lucky Lagers......... /hickup Link to comment
doyathink Posted December 13, 2006 Share Posted December 13, 2006 ohhhhhh I don't know... I'll answer you in a week, when I get back around to checking back in with you....humphhhh!....until then, you should wear your sweater! (lol !) ut oh,John. lol link removed Link to comment
LONESOUL Posted December 13, 2006 Share Posted December 13, 2006 Nice _______. (jeans!) Link to comment
LONESOUL Posted December 13, 2006 Share Posted December 13, 2006 Gosh I was just thinking, we made it through Thanksgiving, Christmas seems a chore, and then we get to go through good ole new years eve... I'll be so happy when the only day we have coming up is like...Tuesday or something. Link to comment
sandyv Posted December 13, 2006 Share Posted December 13, 2006 Yeah Lone: Absolutely right there !!!! Link to comment
desertnomad Posted December 13, 2006 Share Posted December 13, 2006 well I plan on being really buzzed from now until next year anyways Link to comment
LONESOUL Posted December 13, 2006 Share Posted December 13, 2006 Oh boy...maybe you were right the other day Desert, we are all going to end up in AA before this is over! Maybe they need to move this thread to the "healing from premeditated self medication while getting over break up or divorce!" forum. lol (errr not funny maybe...oh what the heck LOL) Link to comment
desertnomad Posted December 13, 2006 Share Posted December 13, 2006 Well the more the merrier I say Link to comment
sandyv Posted December 13, 2006 Share Posted December 13, 2006 Yep Lone and Desert I'm with ya's /takes another guzzle of lucky lager....... Ya DIG it? Link to comment
sandyv Posted December 13, 2006 Share Posted December 13, 2006 Maybe those detox places offer group rates? DoYaThink? Link to comment
doyathink Posted December 13, 2006 Share Posted December 13, 2006 doyathink has no idea Sandy...hehe Link to comment
sandyv Posted December 13, 2006 Share Posted December 13, 2006 Hey DoYaThink: Just feeling silly tonite, and kinda nutty too, (nuttier than a Christmas Fruitcake)..... and I HATE Christmas ..... bah humbug........ Link to comment
desertnomad Posted December 14, 2006 Share Posted December 14, 2006 I think its a drinking night for me too. Link to comment
sandyv Posted December 14, 2006 Share Posted December 14, 2006 Hey Desert where ya been all my life?????? Or lately anyhow???? lol Link to comment
sandyv Posted December 14, 2006 Share Posted December 14, 2006 I think Desert I'm at the point maybe I'm feeling a little sorry for myself..... you know this xmas crap, I'm already sick of it......... Link to comment
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