scarew Posted October 27, 2006 Share Posted October 27, 2006 I'm not sure if Don don is listening anymore, but anyways... If she is suicidal, then just break up with her but make it a mutual break up. If you truly think she is going to kill herself over it than maybe you need to sugar coat it. You can come clean with her later, after the time has passed and she has gotten over it. Sometimes coming clean is a selfish act... I hope I don't get bombarded for that one. I just think that there is the odd situation where the only person who benifits from the complete truth is the one who gets to take that monkey off their back. YOU should live with the guilt that you cheated on her. Not her, not if she is suicidal. Tell her she is amazing, but the time apart is too difficult, and you think its better for both of you if you have some time apart. Give her situations that will make her agree that a break up is best. btw, yes you are an a hole. I don't understand people like you. I am not perfect, I have made mistakes before. But never consciously making a decision to be with someone else. And I also hope she is banging a bunch of guys AND a bunch of girls because you can't give her what she needs. Sorry. Just listen to that first paragraph, think about it. Link to comment
DizzyDoris Posted October 27, 2006 Share Posted October 27, 2006 So in case you havent got the hint dump the girlfriend and keep it in your pants lol Hope your using protection with these girls, an std for your girlfriend would be the icing on the cake. Just remember dude, what goes around comes around....you are so gonna get dumped on in the future! Link to comment
AntiLove_SuperStar Posted October 29, 2006 Share Posted October 29, 2006 Well, arn't you charming. I have no sympathy for you whatsoever, and my sincere advice would be to 1) Dump your GF who doesn't deserve this, no matter what she is like 2) If you only want casual sex, don't pretend otherwise. Do it, but don't lie and say you want a long term committment when you clearly don't. 3) Re-evaluate your attitude to women. ie. RESPECT, grow some. I was you a couple of years ago. And when my own heart got smashed on the rocks, I could only then fully appreciate the evil SOAB I'd have been. May you too have this revelation one day, you need it. Link to comment
arwen Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 I wonder what you expect to hear here. Did you read the many postings on the infidelity forum? And why on earth would you marry someone if you can't stay faithful NOW? Please don't harm her any further, be strong and break up with her. Obviously you don't love her. I don't believe you can ever TRULY love someone and betray them at the same time. Ilse Link to comment
lovecrazy Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 People are very strange, and that is all I can say... If I ever found out I was cheated on, I would honestly slap him/her silly. This guy sounds like the typical A-hole who needs to be taught a lesson on morals. BUt what can you do...Karma always comes back in the way it was given out Link to comment
pregnantkitty_1985 Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 Before any advice, I'd like to say that you are an a-hole . ? Heeeeeeeeh, I nearly spit out my coffee. Well said! And Original Poster Dude, ooooooh, I hope your girlfriend is cheating on you as well, because AngelEyez is right, you are a... (I'll leave that to your imagination.) And, I'll bet this guy's a million times better than you. Why? Because your girl deserves so much more than what someone as immature and immoral as you could EVER offer. I hope she wises up and NEVER marries you. Do you not see how wrong this is? You don't seem to feel even the least bit bad; as evidenced by what you said, you planned for this to happen. Maybe you didn't plan to have feelings for this other girl, but you definitely planned to have sexual relations with other girls. Again, do you not see how wrong this is??? Link to comment
pregnantkitty_1985 Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 Telling her whats up is not a good idea because she might kill me or herself. She has a real temper problem. Besides, it might turn out ok later on and I might still end up with her and then get married. We aren't married yet, so my idea is that it is ok. I gotta be able to be sure I got the right girl. So a bit of an affair is ok with me, just obviously not her. Jesus christ, I'm appalled as hell! You are incredibly unmoralistic. Why does this not bother you? How would you feel if the roles were reversed? Why do you think it's okay to cheat on someone you're supposed to be with? If you want some "strange" so badly, then why didn't you just dump the poor girl ahead of time before you sunk to that level? I mean really. Do people have no shame??? My advice to you is to take a good, hard look at yourself, and question why you feel this isn't wrong. And let your girl know, so she can dump you and find a much better man. Link to comment
yeawutever Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 I think this poster just wanted to be the center of attention, he has not written back. Link to comment
Juliana Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 I think he's hilarious. He's the biggest tool in the box, that's for sure. His girlfriend is potentially suicidal, so the right way to deal with her is to run around on her behind her back? Finding out from someone else -- Oh, that's so much less painful than having him confess he's cheating. I love this guy. Bring him back!!! Link to comment
HangingInThere Posted October 31, 2006 Share Posted October 31, 2006 you are not even worthy of a decent reply from me..... I think this person is just posting lies just to get a rise out of ENA. Link to comment
yeawutever Posted October 31, 2006 Share Posted October 31, 2006 you are not even worthy of a decent reply from me..... I think this person is just posting lies just to get a rise out of ENA. Or maybe he doesn't even have a relation, instead he has his fantasy g/f. Link to comment
arwen Posted November 1, 2006 Share Posted November 1, 2006 People, let's try not to bash dondontruedondon here. Just give your opinion on his situation and tell him what you'd do, that's what he came for. Link to comment
yeawutever Posted November 1, 2006 Share Posted November 1, 2006 People, let's try not to bash dondontruedondon here. Just give your opinion on his situation and tell him what you'd do, that's what he came for. I wasn't bashing him when I wrote my first response, but the fact that he hasn't answer and the way he writes makes me think that he could be making this up. Link to comment
arwen Posted November 1, 2006 Share Posted November 1, 2006 Hey Ailec, I was referring to the uses of profanity towards the OP, not to your posts Link to comment
arwen Posted November 3, 2006 Share Posted November 3, 2006 Again, guys. Let's refrain from using profanity. Posts will be removed if they contain words that evade the wordfilter of the forum. If you don't have any advice to give the OP, just reply to other threads instead of this one. Ilse Link to comment
MessedUpInHead Posted November 4, 2006 Share Posted November 4, 2006 please do your girlfriend a favor and let her know whats going on so she can move on as well... +1 p.s. you're g/f is already cheating on you as well! you just don't know it... Link to comment
yeawutever Posted November 4, 2006 Share Posted November 4, 2006 Wow, is it getting popular, let's party guys!!!!!!!!!! Link to comment
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