dude69 Posted August 22, 2006 Share Posted August 22, 2006 I remember with my ex g/f we always kissed with our eyes opened unless if it was dark or in the morning when we were both to tired to open our eyes. My question is why do people even kiss with their eyes close... i loved my ex alot and well i didnt want to miss a second of her beauty. Am i the only one or is there actualy a reason why people kiss with their eyes open ? Link to comment
rose2summer Posted August 22, 2006 Share Posted August 22, 2006 Maybe she found you incredibly attractive and wanted to look at you when she kissed you. I always kiss with my eyes closed so I am not sure of the reason ~ I would rather get lost in the kiss, then stare at someone. Link to comment
Fisch Posted August 22, 2006 Share Posted August 22, 2006 If you close your eyes your sense of touch is supposedly more sensitive, I find that sometimes it is nice to just feel it and let the chemicals run. I also agree that visual can be very nice. Everybody likes it different. Link to comment
Steven1607307306 Posted August 22, 2006 Share Posted August 22, 2006 Aside from the whole, sense of touch being magnified, I just find it awkward to be looking at someone while kissing. I don't normally make eye contact during sex either. I usually view the neck, or shoulders. I really don't know why. Link to comment
dude69 Posted August 22, 2006 Author Share Posted August 22, 2006 Aside from the whole, sense of touch being magnified, I just find it awkward to be looking at someone while kissing. I don't normally make eye contact during sex either. I usually view the neck, or shoulders. I really don't know why. im the opposite, i think eye contact with the one i loved while sex made everything feel so much better. If its someone i dont know then yes i will kiss her with my eyes closed but if its someone i know and love my eyes will be open.. weird Link to comment
rose2summer Posted August 22, 2006 Share Posted August 22, 2006 Hmmm...interesting point. I think kissing with eyes closed is good but sex with eyes open is even nicer, because I want to see the person doing their movements, but then again I have kissed quite a lot of men but only had 2 sexual partners. Link to comment
lozic21 Posted August 22, 2006 Share Posted August 22, 2006 I heard a long time ago people who kiss with their eyes open aren't trust worthy... probably not true though! I don't even remember where i heard that! Link to comment
Fisch Posted August 22, 2006 Share Posted August 22, 2006 That is utter nonesense, I am pretty sure I lost some brain cells when I read that. 1 Link to comment
yeawutever Posted August 22, 2006 Share Posted August 22, 2006 LOL, when it was my very first time kissing my ex, I had my eyes open till obviously he noticed it and say to close them. As to answer why is it done with the eyes closes, I dunno, must be the moment of surprise when you're enjoying and would feel a little uncomfortable if they're staring at you while doing it. Link to comment
shamus Posted August 22, 2006 Share Posted August 22, 2006 sometimes i will kiss my gf with my eyes open to look at her, and it turns me on seeing her kiss me and seeing her all into it, but i dont keep my eyes open for very long. Link to comment
dude69 Posted August 22, 2006 Author Share Posted August 22, 2006 LOL, when it was my very first time kissing my ex, I had my eyes open till obviously he noticed it and say to close them. As to answer why is it done with the eyes closes, I dunno, must be the moment of surprise when you're enjoying and would feel a little uncomfortable if they're staring at you while doing it. when you love someone and they love you too there is no reason to be uncomfortable.. i think that people who kiss with their eyes open might just be a sign that they are very comfortable with the person they are with and love them alot ? I was never able to close my eyes and my ex couldnt either. We staired at each other and smiled while we were kissing each other. i dunno if this actualy makes sense though Link to comment
WhyteSkaii Posted August 23, 2006 Share Posted August 23, 2006 Well here's an excerpt from cosmopolitan. "When your date's eyes are open for the mouth-to-mouth, he's totally in the moment. Because unlike women--who often prefer to close their eyes and really feel the connection-- men are visual creatures when it comes to sex." i don't know if that helps but i thought it was pretty interesting. Link to comment
Steven1607307306 Posted August 23, 2006 Share Posted August 23, 2006 I usually close my eyes all the time. Mostly because I don't know what she'd do if she opened her eyes and just saw me staring...ha. Link to comment
NKP Posted August 23, 2006 Share Posted August 23, 2006 I close i prefur guys that close there eyes aswell, one person i kissed and made out with ghe had his eyes open and it felt weird and turn me off, i dont why tho, weird Link to comment
Ms. Babydoll Posted August 28, 2006 Share Posted August 28, 2006 I think the quote... "The best things in life are unseen, that's why we kiss with our eyes closed" explains everything for me Link to comment
AdviceGuru Posted August 28, 2006 Share Posted August 28, 2006 I think kissing with eyes closed is better .. its rude to stare lol Link to comment
mitch17 Posted February 3, 2007 Share Posted February 3, 2007 i think a kiss with eyes open isnt as good as eyes closed. you should give it a try, i think u will like it Link to comment
shyguy007 Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 I found that I liked having my eyes closed; it was a little more fun. And going cross eyed when I was looking at my girlfriend was a little odd. Link to comment
anggrace Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 There is no right and wrong to this, and what is more enjoyable for others might not be so enjoyable for you. So if you like to peak or look, you should. When I was younger, I was told "this is how you kiss" but now I just do what ever feels good to me. Thats what its all about. Link to comment
EvaGina Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 I used to HATE it when he has his eyes open!! now I dont mind, my bf and I often open our eyes at the same time and then start giggling Link to comment
Fisch Posted February 5, 2007 Share Posted February 5, 2007 I like to keep one eye open and one shut, alternating every second or so. Link to comment
anggrace Posted February 5, 2007 Share Posted February 5, 2007 ^^^camera one...camera two...camera one... Link to comment
Fisch Posted February 5, 2007 Share Posted February 5, 2007 AAA!! Get that hidden microphone away from my inner voice! Link to comment
Aurian Posted February 6, 2007 Share Posted February 6, 2007 I think its hard to focus when you're that close with your eyes open anyways One closes the eyes to focus on the touch more than some blurry visual, although I do admit to peeking. Link to comment
zerohalo Posted February 6, 2007 Share Posted February 6, 2007 ^^^camera one...camera two...camera one... LOL, I just watched that the other day. Link to comment
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