PinkCherryx Posted July 19, 2022 Share Posted July 19, 2022 I told this guy I got a new job working at a museum. But that I wasn't sure about working there. Because it was an elegant and classy place. And then he said “well you're classy and elegant.” He and I slept together before in the past he cheated on his girlfriend with me. Link to comment
Batya33 Posted July 19, 2022 Share Posted July 19, 2022 I take compliments in context. This person who said nice words to you is a person who justifies cheating on his girlfriend and exposing her to STDS. Not too classy. Also you gave him an opener to dispute your self-deprecation - which was an odd thing for you to say about yourself. Especially to someone you slept with. Why do you care if he was flirting -this man you already had intercourse with? You don't need to read signs as far as sex- if you want to have sex with him again ask him. Cats out of the bag so to speak. I doubt he wants to date you otherwise he would have asked you out -he knows you're attracted to him. Good luck with the new job! I love museums and hope you enjoy your experience there Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted July 19, 2022 Share Posted July 19, 2022 37 minutes ago, PinkCherryx said: He and I slept together before in the past he cheated on his girlfriend with me. Stop chasing this man, it's that simple. Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted July 19, 2022 Share Posted July 19, 2022 50 minutes ago, PinkCherryx said: He and I slept together before in the past he cheated on his girlfriend with me. Why are you still talking to him? It doesn't sound like flirting as much as an attempt to get you to cheat with him again. That's not the same thing. Link to comment
PinkCherryx Posted July 19, 2022 Author Share Posted July 19, 2022 1 hour ago, MissCanuck said: Why are you still talking to him? It doesn't sound like flirting as much as an attempt to get you to cheat with him again. That's not the same thing. I only talk to him when I see him where he works. Link to comment
PinkCherryx Posted July 19, 2022 Author Share Posted July 19, 2022 1 hour ago, Batya33 said: I take compliments in context. This person who said nice words to you is a person who justifies cheating on his girlfriend and exposing her to STDS. Not too classy. Also you gave him an opener to dispute your self-deprecation - which was an odd thing for you to say about yourself. Especially to someone you slept with. Why do you care if he was flirting -this man you already had intercourse with? You don't need to read signs as far as sex- if you want to have sex with him again ask him. Cats out of the bag so to speak. I doubt he wants to date you otherwise he would have asked you out -he knows you're attracted to him. Good luck with the new job! I love museums and hope you enjoy your experience there He did try to see me again after the first time. But I didn't see him because I had a feeling that he was just trying to cheat again. Link to comment
Rose Mosse Posted July 19, 2022 Share Posted July 19, 2022 2 hours ago, PinkCherryx said: I told this guy I got a new job working at a museum. But that I wasn't sure about working there. Because it was an elegant and classy place. And then he said “well you're classy and elegant.” He and I slept together before in the past he cheated on his girlfriend with me. He was flirting. Unfortunately he’s not classy and elegant. It doesn’t matter what he thinks of you. 2 Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted July 19, 2022 Share Posted July 19, 2022 6 hours ago, PinkCherryx said: He and I slept together before in the past he cheated on his girlfriend with me. Wow, What a catch! He's looking for another romp in the hay, otherwise he would have asked you out. Your call... 1 1 Link to comment
PinkCherryx Posted July 19, 2022 Author Share Posted July 19, 2022 1 hour ago, HeartGoesOn said: Wow, What a catch! He's looking for another romp in the hay, otherwise he would have asked you out. Your call... I guess that's why he tried to see me again after the first time when his girlfriend was leaving him. Link to comment
Rose Mosse Posted July 19, 2022 Share Posted July 19, 2022 44 minutes ago, PinkCherryx said: I guess that's why he tried to see me again after the first time when his girlfriend was leaving him. Just ignore people like this or change the subject if you run into him at work. Link to comment
Cherylyn Posted July 19, 2022 Share Posted July 19, 2022 He'll cheat on you again and play you for a fool. Link to comment
SooSad33 Posted July 19, 2022 Share Posted July 19, 2022 Saying you're classy & elegant, I see as a response to your comment about yourself. Not a pick up line. Does it bother you this loser said this? Or are you wanting something more? ( IMO< I wouldn't go near something like this again, knowing his behaviour). Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted July 19, 2022 Share Posted July 19, 2022 8 hours ago, PinkCherryx said: I only talk to him when I see him where he works. To tell him where you work now? Just ignore him. Link to comment
smackie9 Posted July 20, 2022 Share Posted July 20, 2022 Guys like him will do or say anything if it gets them laid...he's trying to get laid again. Put him on ignore. 1 Link to comment
Mystic Posted July 26, 2022 Share Posted July 26, 2022 On 7/19/2022 at 7:00 AM, PinkCherryx said: I told this guy I got a new job working at a museum. But that I wasn't sure about working there. Because it was an elegant and classy place. And then he said “well you're classy and elegant.” He and I slept together before in the past he cheated on his girlfriend with me. He cheated on his gf with you? What makes you think he wouldn't cheat on YOU with someone else? Move on and find a decent man. Btw - sounds like he was just trying to be "cute" with his comment. I wouldn't read much into it at all. Link to comment
Jamie425 Posted July 26, 2022 Share Posted July 26, 2022 On 7/19/2022 at 6:00 AM, PinkCherryx said: I told this guy I got a new job working at a museum. But that I wasn't sure about working there. Because it was an elegant and classy place. And then he said “well you're classy and elegant.” He and I slept together before in the past he cheated on his girlfriend with me. You probably are classy and elegant. But, once you've slept with a man and if he is interested in a repeat performance, he will take steps to make it happen. I don't know the particulars. There may be extenuating circumstances. But all you've told us is he's a cheater. So, my question is why do you care? Link to comment
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