bluecastle Posted May 2, 2020 Share Posted May 2, 2020 Sorry about all this. I hope that this immediate ugliness—his social media habits, your snooping—is all enough for you to walk away, heal, and find a better match. Perhaps that's with someone where the thought of looking through their phone doesn't even surface, because you both trust him and yourself enough to handle nerves and disconnect differently. Or maybe it's with someone who shares the view, as Sherry outlined, that the occasional sleuthing is acceptable inside the relationship, which is good stuff to talk about early and make sure you're on the same page. What seems pretty undeniable here is that this is not a man you trusted before this, and have no way of trusting in the wake of this. Link to comment
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