Toni Coffman Posted December 24, 2019 Share Posted December 24, 2019 Since it wouldn’t allow me to reply to Bipolarqueen..... I just really wanted to touch on this subject with you because I’m in the same exact boat. I mean literally it was almost as if it were me writing it... I’ve too tried talking to my husband about it & he says the same thing “he’ll try” or give me stupid reasons. I personally love to kiss & do you know that this man will not even kiss me unless he has just brushed his teeth. Mind you we’ve been married 15 yrs. I’ve just never experienced being with someone so inconsiderate when it comes to sex/lovemaking. The thing that bothers me the most is I know for 100% fact that he knows how to please me but it hurts my feelings that he doesn’t care too and on that same note people always say what is talk to him about it I feel like I shouldn’t have to talk to him about it he should automatically know that of course i’m going to want pleased in the bed just as well as he is you know what I mean? I don’t know I just don’t feel like I should have to tell my husband I feel he should want to make me happy. Now on his behalf I will say this he is on a drug that extremely lowers your libido oh because I forgot to mention the fact that for the past year ever since he started this medicine we maybe have sex once a month keyword maybe... but anyway I’m with you girl if you want to talk more about it I’m new to this whole app I’m sure there’s probably a way that we could discuss one on one I just haven’t figured out how yet if there even is a way but I would love to talk about it more because I know it isn’t me I’m not conceited by any means but I’m pretty confident. So it just leaves the question what is the problem??? Link to comment
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