sparkit Posted September 25, 2019 Share Posted September 25, 2019 I'm married. We've had our ups and down but things are fine at the moment. However 2 years ago whilst we were away on holiday with some friends, I suddenly developed a crush on this friend. Like literally overnight. It turned into a full blown infatuation for a while. It's a little less intense these days but its definitely still there. I'm not worried about it. It's just a little fantasy. No harm. BUT... recently my husband has been making lighthearted comments about the two of us. To me alone, and in front of this friend. He sounds jokey when he does it but over the last 2 months there have been quite a few of these 'jokes' and comments and I'm not sure what to make of it. They are all around the friend flirting with me, jokingly asking if we're having an affair, saying we're engrossed in each other etc. So something has piqued my husband's interest recently. But what? I don't think I'm being any different around the friend than I've always been. I certainly don't want him to know I'm attracted to him. It's just a little fantasy I would NEVER act on. Ever. But as a woman of a certain age whose been married for a while... well it puts a spring in my step! That's all. But now I can't help wondering if it is in fact mutual. If my husband is picking up on something from the friend. We get on very well. We have a lot in common. He talks to me about his problems. Hugs me a little more than feels natural. Touches me when talking. I've felt his gaze on me once or twice and seen him turn away as soon as I look up. Little things like that. He's miserable at home by the way. Does it sound like he's attracted to me? Because if he's not then it must be something I'm doing! And do you think I should be worried about my husbands comments? Link to comment
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