Astrogirl Posted April 9, 2019 Share Posted April 9, 2019 I married a wonderful man who offered lots of emotional support. Recently, I suffered a trauma that has led to anxiety. I know I have taken it out on my closest but it has led to bickering with husband. A couple of days ago we argued over something silly resulting in my husband telling me he is sick of my attitude and told me to go away, using rude words. He has not spoken since and I am very worried I have ruined things. I answered I was going to see a solicitor, which I haven’t done. Before this argument he called screaming and shouting at me, though I remained calm. The curse words followed in a text. We currently live in different countries so I can’t really visit him easily. I know advice may be to contact him but we’re both stubborn and I do feel he has neglected me when I need him most. Not the first time and I’ve told him this before. Although I don’t want to lose him I do feel hurt he has left me when I need him to be there and I don’t know how to respond if he does contact me. He will start the conversation by shouting and claiming he is totally in the right. I feel lost as if I try to stand up for myself he’ll go MIA again, as he has before. He support is not like he used to be. Please help as I’ve not stopped crying. Thank you. Link to comment
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