deedee911 Posted February 14, 2018 Share Posted February 14, 2018 Does anyone have experience with being in a relationship with someone and they pick a fight or do something that is known to be hurtful and upsetting then you get mad and they use that as a way to escape the relationship? My ex and I were together for 1 year at the 10 month mark everything was going really well granted we had our ups and downs but everything seemed to be working out great and out of the blue he starts with saying something that is known to upset me. Then he blames my anger. We are broken up now, but I am feeling like it is so unfair because I felt like it was all my fault but when I think back I see he did things to create problems. And stopped putting effort in our relationship and I was left to fight for us alone thinking it was all my fault the REaSON why we weren't working out. I was so hesitant in the beginning because I was hurt very badly in my last relationship and I feel like as soon as I was getting calm and falling in love with him he pulled the rug underneath my feet and blamed me for getting so upset. It's almost like he liked the chase then he got me and didn't want me anymore. This is the man that I trusted that I thought was different he said repeatedly that he loved me more than anything in this world. I trusted this and he left me high and dry. He said he didn't want to be with me anymore because I can't control my emotions! I said ok we can work on this. I was willing to go to a counsellor or couples retreat or do anything to fix the problems but he straight up said No. I am left feeling very confused how he could through away our relationship and not even want to just fix the issues. Link to comment
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