pillowsham12 Posted January 22, 2018 Share Posted January 22, 2018 My ex gf ended things at the end of November, We have been in contact throughout most of December I stayed at her place for 4 nights in December. Things started to go cold a bit before Christmas. I had been in NC for 2 weeks. We have a ton of mutual friends together, last week a mutual friend wanted to go for dinner two nights in a row and told me my ex would be there. This mutual friend usually never initiates hang outs with me or our group of friends so I thought it was odd that she set this up and knowing my ex gf would be there both day. I declined the first day and decided to go the second night. My ex has not reached out to me directly via text/phone to hang out since the NC contact period started after she claim she wanted to be friends. What I am confused about is why she would still want to see me/hang out with me and use my mutual friends as a source to get me to come out. I have a high suspicion she told my mutual friend to ask me to hang out because this mutual friend has never initiated hanging out with me before, it would usually be either me or my ex gf who would ask her out. At the dinner with our friends ,she also bought a "guy friend" and was trying to initiate conversations with me and telling me about a trip to new York that we had planned previously but now said she would be going with her girlfriend. Pretty odd how she acts so cold and not text or reach out to me but wants to tell me whats going in her life and where shes going on vacation? She was also talking about how she was going ice skating with some of our mutual friends this week and then after a pause asked if I wanted to go in which I declined. Would like to hear any thoughts? Pretty confused Many thanks Link to comment
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