hnunn13 Posted January 20, 2018 Share Posted January 20, 2018 My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year. When we first started dating he was SO sweet. The last couple of months he’s turned into someone I don’t recognize as much. He’s not as affectionate, attentive and considerate as I feel like I deserve. He sometimes takes hours to respond to text messages. I know he’s working but he works for his dad. Working hasn’t stopped him from answering me in a year, why is it now? He says things that come out mean but never apologizes. He’s begun hanging out with a guy again who he’s known for a long time...and I like the friend but my boyfriend has been continually choosing him over me. I know guys need guy time but it’s not just that. If we go out...the friend usually goes to. If we have dinner with my boyfriends family, the friend is usually there. Where as my boyfriend used to leave my house at around 10:30-11, he now leaves at 9ish and goes to his friends house. He left my house early on Christmas Eve claiming he was going home to see his parents since they’d been gone all week. An hour and a half later...he’s at his friends house. I’ve tried to confront him about this and he just gets defensive. He also has blown off an old friend, who’s very very sweet. He blocked her on social media and when she texted him apologizing for whatever she’d done. He ignored her. I know she can sometimes be annoying but I just don’t see how it’s respectful to treat her like that when she’s been so good to him. He’s blowing money. He’s being rude. He’s ignoring me. I don’t know what to do. I’ve tried talking to him about it but it just turns into a huge fight and nothing gets done about it. I’ve tried admitting my flaws first. I cry in front of him. I ask him what I did wrong. Nothing works. I love him dearly but I don’t know how to change this. Link to comment
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