Lulu1992 Posted December 26, 2017 Share Posted December 26, 2017 I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years we are recently engaged. I have always known he's a little bit selfish but the longer were together it just seems to be getting worse. Every year we have Xmas at my parents as his family isn't here but this year he decided he wanted to have it at our house. For months he was asking about the schedule for the day etc no one was to bothered about it but him . I worked all day Xmas eve then came home and did food shopping that night he went out to his friends while I decorated the house ( as we hadn't even put the tree up due to us both working so much ) and prepared food for the next day until 11pm he came home and I had just finished prepping I asked if he could help me tidy up & he replied no & went to bed. The next day I got up and made gingerbread cookies I then vacuumed the house & spent the day making deserts and food he never once asked if I needed help . He started drinking went in the spa . When everyone arrived didn't even ask if they wanted a drink they had been at our house for 2 hrs & I asked when he would start the bbq he didn't want to I had to ask again 30 minutes as our guests where getting hungry and all I could see was him sitting there drinking . Eventually he did . I set the table etc the only thing he had to do was organise the meat he didn't even end up cutting the ham so the Xmas dinner ended up being just sausages and steak. I then did all the cleaning up & made tea and coffees etc when he proceeded to pick on me about never relaxing well how can I ? At the end of the night I asked if he had a good day & he said no as I was mean to him I asked what I had done and he said I was looking at him funny . I had worked every day up until Xmas I had organized everything & ive been unwell he never once said thanks it was his idea to have Xmas at ours I feel he could at least say thank you. He responded with I didn't thank him for cooking the bbq I didn't actually eat the bbe as I'm vegetarian which is why I didn't say thanks. Am I being selfish or is he? Link to comment
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