dedal Posted October 5, 2017 Share Posted October 5, 2017 A female friend of mine has been flirting with my male friend for 6-7yrs. (same group of friends) She has a boyfriend and have had it for 5yrs. Right before they got together she was heavily flirting with him. After she got her boyfriend it obviously stopped a little, but she has been flirty with him every once in a while.. That includes: -Kissing him on the neck -Kissing him on the cheek and calling him cute -Sitting next to him as often as possible, often holding her arms (and him holding around her) -She cuddling his hair, but stopping when someone saw her cuddling his hair -Complimenting how beautiful his eyes are -Night out, she hugging him 8-9 times in the space of 2-3hrs, but no one else -Putting her finger in his mouth while drunk, and no one else being there (saw it myself) -Laying on top of him drunk and putting her fingers on his lips (she seems very keen on his lips) -Being the last ones in the sauna they got in the shower together to shower (with bikini on). She held her arms over him -Kissing him on the lips when sitting on his lap (right before she got her boyfriend) Christian seems to like all these things, and doesn't push her away. She is very attractive so I think he find her attractive We're (our group of friends) are going on a vacation to Spain soon for 5-6 days. She is going and he is going, but not her boyfriend. Do you think anything will happen between them there, and what? Thoughts? How attracted/horny is she with him? A little? Very? Extremely? Does she want to sleep with him? Link to comment
dias Posted October 5, 2017 Share Posted October 5, 2017 Are you jealous? Ask him point blank and you will find the answer. Link to comment
rosephase Posted October 5, 2017 Share Posted October 5, 2017 How about you don't worry about it? It has nothing to do with you. Link to comment
ThatwasThen Posted October 5, 2017 Share Posted October 5, 2017 If her boyfriend isn't sussed about it then I don't think you should be. Link to comment
DancingFool Posted October 5, 2017 Share Posted October 5, 2017 Why are you getting involved? Doesn't seem like any of this is any of your business...... Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted October 5, 2017 Share Posted October 5, 2017 I reckon you must be one of the people you are pretending not to be ...to be this involved ... Link to comment
ThatwasThen Posted October 5, 2017 Share Posted October 5, 2017 I reckon you must be one of the people you are pretending not to be ...to be this involved ... That thought crossed my mind as well, Pip. Link to comment
dedal Posted October 5, 2017 Author Share Posted October 5, 2017 It's not the case I'm a friend observing. What are your thoughts on it? Link to comment
ThatwasThen Posted October 5, 2017 Share Posted October 5, 2017 My thoughts are that she's just a flirt in general and will continue to do it with whoever lets her. How does she act when she is with her boyfriend? Link to comment
dedal Posted October 5, 2017 Author Share Posted October 5, 2017 My thoughts are that she's just a flirt in general and will continue to do it with whoever lets her. How does she act when she is with her boyfriend? That's the thing. She doesn't act like this with anyone else, and doesn't act like this when the boyfriend is present. Link to comment
ThatwasThen Posted October 5, 2017 Share Posted October 5, 2017 That's the thing. She doesn't act like this with anyone else, and doesn't act like this when the boyfriend is present.Have you outright asked her why she acts likes she's single with this dude? If she's a good friend, I'd be calling her out on her behaviour. Link to comment
dedal Posted October 5, 2017 Author Share Posted October 5, 2017 Have you outright asked her why she acts likes she's single with this dude? If she's a good friend, I'd be calling her out on her behaviour. I have, vagely, but she just dismisses the question and changes the subject. What's your take on the situation? Link to comment
AtitAgain Posted October 5, 2017 Share Posted October 5, 2017 Why do you keep asking what is our take? I mean... its obvious she is behaving inappropriately. Odds are that yes they maybe have had, or may end up having sex in the future. But it almost sounds like you are looking for validation from the internet or something... Link to comment
ThatwasThen Posted October 5, 2017 Share Posted October 5, 2017 I have, vagely, but she just dismisses the question and changes the subject. What's your take on the situation? I already told you in post #10. She's an attention junky and he gives her a fix. Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted October 5, 2017 Share Posted October 5, 2017 There is deffo something not right here ..you are so adamant you need to know such determined answers to it all ..... Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted October 5, 2017 Share Posted October 5, 2017 Thoughts? How attracted/horny is she with him? A little? Very? Extremely? Does she want to sleep with him? exhibit A ^^^ this is like a consumer survey you fill in to get entered into a £500 draw Link to comment
ThatwasThen Posted October 5, 2017 Share Posted October 5, 2017 exhibit A ^^^ this is like a consumer survey you fill in to get entered into a £500 draw ... lolzzz ... Link to comment
Sarah Hummer Posted October 5, 2017 Share Posted October 5, 2017 Of course it will happen. May have already done it. Link to comment
j.man Posted October 5, 2017 Share Posted October 5, 2017 ummawgaaawwwddd gurlll she's doin waht with this boi???? Link to comment
yatsue Posted October 5, 2017 Share Posted October 5, 2017 If her boyfriend isn't sussed about it then I don't think you should be. The boyfriend likely doesn't know about the situation. With the friend refraining from displaying this inappropriate behavior in front of her bf, I would say it is certain. Dedal, are you thinking of telling her bf? I assume that's behind all of your questions. I would tell him (if you accept the possibility of losing this friend or more in the group after causing a rift, and ruining the trip). Your friend isn't listening and he deserves to know she is a cheat. Link to comment
James516 Posted October 6, 2017 Share Posted October 6, 2017 The specific details of this in your original post sounds like a Penthouse forum story. You seem more titillated than concerned and it is your only thread. But if this is real, you would need to be clear with yourself about what the concern is - if it's loyalty to her boyfriend about being possibly cuckolded in a way, or if you are concerned that the behaviors of these two will disrupt the enjoyment of the trip for everyone else. Since this has been going on in the open, I doubt you're going to change anyone's behavior or enlighten the boyfriend, you may end up in the middle of drama you don't want. So it would seem like your concern would be about the trip. It would be best to plan to spend time with the others since these two probably will be preoccupied. Link to comment
dedal Posted October 8, 2017 Author Share Posted October 8, 2017 A female friend of mine has been flirting with my male friend for 6-7yrs. (same group of friends) She has a boyfriend and have had it for 5yrs. Right before they got together she was heavily flirting with him. After she got her boyfriend it obviously stopped a little, but she has been flirty with him every once in a while.. That includes: -Kissing him on the neck -Kissing him on the cheek and calling him cute -Sitting next to him as often as possible, often holding her arms (and him holding around her) -She cuddling his hair, but stopping when someone saw her cuddling his hair -Complimenting how beautiful his eyes are -Night out, she hugging him 8-9 times in the space of 2-3hrs, but no one else -Putting her finger in his mouth while drunk, and no one else being there (saw it myself) -Laying on top of him drunk and putting her fingers on his lips (she seems very keen on his lips) -Being the last ones in the sauna they got in the shower together to shower (with bikini on). She held her arms over him -Kissing him on the lips when sitting on his lap (right before she got her boyfriend) Christian seems to like all these things, and doesn't push her away. She is very attractive so I think he find her attractive We're (our group of friends) are going on a vacation to Spain soon for 5-6 days. She is going and he is going, but not her boyfriend. Do you think anything will happen between them there, and what? Thoughts? How attracted/horny is she with him? A little? Very? Extremely? Does she want to sleep with him? Any other thoughts on this? Link to comment
mustlovedogs Posted October 8, 2017 Share Posted October 8, 2017 what do you mean? The advice is clear. Something is weird. But it doesn't matter because *this isn't your problem* and you care too much as a supposed independent non involved third party. Link to comment
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