mike888 Posted October 2, 2017 Share Posted October 2, 2017 I met her through my best friend and the woman that he is seeing. To make a long story short, I really liked her personality and I thought she was very cute so I decided to give it a chance but I'm realizing I might be in over my head. Truth be told, I really want somebody my age or 3 to 5 years younger and I feel like I'm settling by being with her. I also don't want to date someone with kids and she has 2. I thought I would be willing to overlook these things but I really am not. I know I won't be happy being with her permanently (although I'm having a blast now). So what the hell do I do now?? I've gone out with her 6 times in 3 weeks and I'm worried she is starting to get attached to me. She wants to see me all the time. Breaking up with her would be very hard because she is best friend of woman my best friend is seeing. I don't mind a casual relationship but I don't want to marry her and I'm afraid she will only get more and more attached as time goes on. I'll be honest here. A big part of why I started seeing her is my loneliness. I want to meet someone very badly but I don't want to sacrifice my standards. I'm a good looking, very fit, college educated 28 year old male making six figures but I've bad absolutely horrible success with meeting women. The ones who have shown interest in me have been too old, too young, have kids, or are overweight, etc... I can't seem to get someone interested in me who is like the female version of me. It's incredibly frustrating Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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