Anon107 Posted May 25, 2017 Share Posted May 25, 2017 So I started dating my boyfriend about 2-3 months ago. He is 43 and I am turning 26. Lately I've noticed that his friends wives are really catty with me. During May Long me and him were camping and having a fire and drinking. Had been drinking and cooking a roast since early afternoon. He had mentioned that a few of his friends were popping by. His friend and his wife who I've met three times, joined by her daughter and two guys, all who I had never met. I introduced myself to the daughter. Grabbed an extra chair from my trunk as we were short chairs. Got to conversing with the guys about politics and got on the topic of a recent trip I'd been on. The girls had been really quiet up to this point. I said "I tried staying up till my flight. Didn't get any sleep, got about 3 hours"- when I was abruptly cut off by the wife who said, "Well what is it?". I said, "What is what?". She responded, "Well a minute ago you said you didn't get any sleep, now you got 3 hours." I honestly can't remember if I said "I don't know.." or just stared at her but after an awkward moment one of the random guys jumped in and said "Well three hours isn't very much". I laughed it off and said "Ahh it's nothing" referring to the hours of sleep I got. My boyfriend was in the camper at the time and I decided not to say anything about it as I don't want to cause any problems. Shortly after they all got up and left, they had all came together in the same vehicle. I feel ridiculed by this woman. Not sure if I was being too much of a chatterbox or if she thought I was being too overly chatty with the guys or what got into her but it was embarrassing. I've never had a problem with her before and its really actually bothering me. I'm always so careful to watch the words that come out of mouth to avoid offending someone so I find it just totally insulting she would call me out like that. I'm almost sick about it. I was just having a good time, trying to chat with everyone who made an effort to spark conversation and I don't think I deserved that kind of treatment regardless of the situation. Don't publicly bash me in front of all these people I don't really know. She has met me sober and after a few drinks prior to this and knows im not usually so talkative. I want to know what everyone else's opinions are on this, why she would behave that way over something so unintentional. Link to comment
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