uneek Posted March 1, 2017 Share Posted March 1, 2017 I just recently split from my bf. It was a short relationship(3 mos.)but it was actually a happy one. He seemed perfect for me until now. For starters, he just had a birthday recently (hes 34, im 33) i ended up taking him out to dinner thursday night. We had a nice time out and i got him a nice gift. The next day i noticed a change with him. He used to call me before he went to work in the morning and on his breaks. But i didnt hear from at all until later that night. He texted me once. Saturday i text him a cpl times and called once. He answered my call and we have a brief convo. but he didnt respond to my texts later that day. When he doesnt reply back i got worried. Sunday i text him once and he still doesnt respond. Monday i text again and get no response. By this time im very sad and can barely sleep over this situation. It wasnt until TUESDAY morning this a##hole sends me a 'good morning how have you been?' Text. Like nothing happened. I proceeded to rip him a new one before he could even explain the lack of response. From saturday night-monday he was m.i.a! I was expecting him to have some great explanation about a family matter, health scare etc. Instead he tells me something i said at dinner made him think i didnt want a serious commitment. (Im still confused about what gave him that impression) He also said something about my parents judging him and im not standing up for him. I told him about a conversation i had with my mom picking apart his facebook. In hindsight, i shouldnt have told him about this. But i had no idea he felt the way he did. He never bothered to share that with me. But none of this excuses him ignoring me and putting me through some heartache for a cpl of days. I was still very angry, so i called it quits with him. Later that day he called and texted several times(i didnt respond) He left a voicemail apologizing and asked me to forgive him. He wants to work it out etc. But i dont know if he even deserves another chance after that. I really felt horrible those days he intentionally ignored me. Ps. This is the 2nd time he went m.i.a. the 1st time there actually was a serious family matter. (Confirmed it through one of his relatives) I didnt hear from him for 3 days. But i gave him a pass and a warning not to do that again. Link to comment
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