windycity123 Posted February 26, 2017 Share Posted February 26, 2017 About six months ago I started talking to the girl from my school when she was abroad. It was going well she expressed she was very interested in me but wanted to take things slow, and we would see what happens once i get to school. I agreed, we both talked to and hooked up with other people. we sent each other letters and stuff it was a good thing. She just got back to campus and things have been going well, we were hanging out taking things slow it seemed to be going not that bad. This weekend though she was being weird i asked her if everything was okay, she said she heard rumors from multiple sources that I had told a bunch of people in my frat that we were dating and i showed them nudes and we shouldn't talk anymore. This is all completely false and tbh i would never do anything like this. Also, 4 people at the start of school approached me in her abroad program saying that she told them we were dating when she was abroad... i didn't mention this to her in our argument. I was very shocked and apologized and really tried to meet in person she said she was mad at me right now and didn't want to talk, but she said she believed everything they said. she was keeping it very cut and dry saying she was mad at me and didn't want to talk about this right now. I messaged her twice to talk in person she didn't respond. I also heard someone brough it up to her and she was like "i feel like he used me", idk whether or not thats true though. it could be a rumor. Its been about 3-4 weeks now, Im in a frat, last weekend I invited her and her friends to our valentines day formal, she was super happy to come and it was chill. When we were there we were talking it was fun we were flirting i pulled her aside and held her hand, looked her in the eyes and told her it wasn't true, she kept saying "stop saying that" over and over again. and then she said "we should move past this" we were both pretty drunk, and i said I wanted to talk still she said the party wasn't the right place and she would like to talk in person at some point. I've seen her out at bars and its been chill. What should i do? this is all a lie and im super frustrated because i never did any of this and i really like this girl. psa she didn't even send me any so its obvious that this is such a bull rumor Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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