taytayalyson Posted February 10, 2017 Share Posted February 10, 2017 My ex boyfriend and I dated for 1 year until he broke up with me because of distance and a lot of school work. We're both in our junior years at 2 separate universities, 3 hours a part. We're from the same hometown however and only live 5 minutes apart when on breaks and home for the summer. I still live at home, attending a local University while he goes to one 3 hours away. He could handle the distance and school work (demanding BFA program) and he also sited wanting freedom with friends to drink and party as a reason which was bull. After a few weeks of NC he talked to me again and we got back together. We dated for 3 more months until he got scared about going back to school and freaked out and broke up with me again. It's now been two months NC and he just texted me yesterday saying that I was right and I'm the love of his life and he's in it for the long haul and willing to give me as much time as I need to decide what to do because he's not going anywhere. He said his reasons for leaving were stupid and I deserve better so he understands if I don't want to talk to him, but I'm just really confused. Am I stupid if I become friends with him and take things really really slow to see where they go? What should I do? We met our sophmore year of college at the same school. We had 2 classes together and sat in different rows and eventually we started talking not knowin we were both attracted to each other from day 1. Please help me I'm so confused. I'm 21 as is he. I don't know what to do. My parents support me no matter what but friends dont. Link to comment
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