moodindigo91 Posted November 23, 2016 Share Posted November 23, 2016 So, my ex and I, as many of you know, were still in contact after I moved. The first week, we were still going to "try" but it turned out to be a bunch of hours-long arguments because he was so mad that I left. This continued into the second week and in the third week he decided he was going to change massively and try to win be back (at this point I had given up). He kept saying he would be the man he needed me to be, and uplift me, and that he was sorry for everything he's done in the past and if he could have just one more chance he would prove to me he could be everything I ever wanted. He sent me flowers and chocolate to my job. I agreed to see him last night, we went for drinks and had a nice time. In the evening, I told him again that I wasn't in love with him and didn't want to be in a relationship right now, I had to watch as he cried uncontrollably. He keeps saying the pain is unbearable. We decided to go no contact. Today is the first day. I am absolutely heartbroken after seeing his face... As an aside, do you guys remember the old neighbor-friend who I hadn't talked to since the move? My last post was about possibly reaching out to him, but everyone was rightly very against it and I decided not to, and moved on surprisingly quickly from the momentary lapse of judgment. He texted me yesterday. I just thought I'd share that bit of irony. Link to comment
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