pippy longstocking Posted September 2, 2015 Share Posted September 2, 2015 just looking in on your tiger darling xx just a little reminder that we are here xxx thinking of you Link to comment
Moontiger Posted September 2, 2015 Author Share Posted September 2, 2015 She has a very rare condition so rare I can't say what it is. (Would be easy for someone who wanted to to figure who my family is). I don't think I have ever seen my dad cry before. He cried today. Link to comment
chitown9 Posted September 2, 2015 Share Posted September 2, 2015 She has a very rare condition so rare I can't say what it is. (Would be easy for someone who wanted to to figure who my family is). I don't think I have ever seen my dad cry before. He cried today. We are all here with you, sweetie. This is so tough.....chi Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted September 2, 2015 Share Posted September 2, 2015 ahh bless him ..you are all having different emotions ..he is losing his wife , you your mum , you are all together though and I will be glad when all your siblings are there , you need each other . Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted September 2, 2015 Share Posted September 2, 2015 It is bedtime here for me in the uk darling , you will be in my prayers .. eat when you can and get naps when you can .... you need to keep your strength. much love xx Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted September 2, 2015 Share Posted September 2, 2015 hi tiger darling , how are things ? Link to comment
Moontiger Posted September 2, 2015 Author Share Posted September 2, 2015 hi tiger darling , how are things ? Brother and I just woke up. We are waiting for dad to text us to let us know when she wakes up. Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted September 2, 2015 Share Posted September 2, 2015 Brother and I just woke up. We are waiting for dad to text us to let us know when she wakes up. ok thanks for update Link to comment
chitown9 Posted September 2, 2015 Share Posted September 2, 2015 Sounds like you are living at the hospital now Moontiger. I hope you are getting some rest....chi Link to comment
Moontiger Posted September 3, 2015 Author Share Posted September 3, 2015 Brother and I found a pretty comfy lounge that we have more or less taken over. She was talking a lot today, very scared (understandable) and will be speaking with a priest for a second time tomorrow. My dad was talking to her about their first date. It was really sweet. He apparently made a bit of a fool of himself by spilling a drink on her. Link to comment
Moontiger Posted September 3, 2015 Author Share Posted September 3, 2015 I am trying to accept that she won't be around soon. It doesn't feel real. Today I was looking at a list of dates and thought "She will not be here then." The weird part was I didn't really feel anything when I thought that. I don't know if that is denial/avoidance/acceptanc or what. Link to comment
sara-pezzini Posted September 3, 2015 Share Posted September 3, 2015 I think your mind cannot fully grasp it, it needs time to come to terms with it. And you're probably also in shock.... I'm so sorry, i can't yet imagine what you're going through and it sounds scary and so difficult! Hugs Link to comment
lukeb Posted September 3, 2015 Share Posted September 3, 2015 I am trying to accept that she won't be around soon. It doesn't feel real. Today I was looking at a list of dates and thought "She will not be here then." The weird part was I didn't really feel anything when I thought that. I don't know if that is denial/avoidance/acceptanc or what. Well your Mom is still around, so I'm not sure if it is any of those things, just trying to process what is happening right now. I'm not so sure if there is any way you are supposed to be feeling. I imagine you are just numb and drained right now. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted September 3, 2015 Share Posted September 3, 2015 Hugs, you are numb right now. Link to comment
chitown9 Posted September 3, 2015 Share Posted September 3, 2015 It did not really hit me until two weeks after my Mom passed. It takes a while for the full impact to hit you, Moontiger. chi Link to comment
Seraphim Posted September 3, 2015 Share Posted September 3, 2015 Absolutely it takes a while to totally grasp that they're gone. Link to comment
JustWishing Posted September 3, 2015 Share Posted September 3, 2015 We are still all with you Moontiger....Keep us updated when you can... Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted September 3, 2015 Share Posted September 3, 2015 yep we are ..me just checking in on you as well tiger . Don't worry about what you feel or should feel ..what your poor head is processing changes every minute and you will flip from hysterics to calm to fear to loss to grief to nothing and so on xx hugs Link to comment
Moontiger Posted September 4, 2015 Author Share Posted September 4, 2015 We are moving her home late tomorrow. She is meeting with a priest late tonight. I just hope she finds peace, she is so scared and I don't want her to be. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted September 4, 2015 Share Posted September 4, 2015 We are moving her home late tomorrow. She is meeting with a priest late tonight. I just hope she finds peace, she is so scared and I don't want her to be. She wants to do her passing at home? And her last rites? Maybe after her last rites and confession she won't be afraid. Link to comment
Moontiger Posted September 4, 2015 Author Share Posted September 4, 2015 Yes it was her choice to go home. We have all taken a stance of: she says it, we do it. I don't know about the other stuff but my dad is working on trying to get a priest to come to the house on a fairly regular schedule with the time she has left. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted September 4, 2015 Share Posted September 4, 2015 If that would make her happy and her passing easier then do what you can. Hugs. I will pray for your mom and you and your family. Link to comment
Capricorn3 Posted September 4, 2015 Share Posted September 4, 2015 Yes it was her choice to go home.. My sister-in-law (42) also requested to go home for her last days. She wanted to be in her own surroundings with her family and passed peacefully. Was the best thing her family could do for her. You're in my thoughts at this very difficult time. ~hugs~ Link to comment
Cheetarah Posted September 4, 2015 Share Posted September 4, 2015 I am so sorry MoonTiger. I hope your mom takes comfort and it lessens her fears, in being surrounded by the familiarity of her own home, her family. Keeping you in my thoughts. Link to comment
Lucia Amman Posted September 4, 2015 Share Posted September 4, 2015 Good she is going home. My dad somewhat did the same and died pretty peacefully in our home with all his loved ones around him. I hope your mother can have the same peacefulness after talking to her priest. Link to comment
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