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Biggest turn off ever?

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What has been the biggest turn off that has ever happened to you while engaging, or beginning to engage in, sexual activities with someone?

 

BY FAR the biggest turn off ever was with this girl who I had been dating for 2 and a half weeks. She had been in a year long relationship one month earlier and clearly wasn't ready to be in a new one. Things were getting hot, she undressed, was waiting for me on the bed, then I undressed and got on top of her ready to start making out when she decides to blurt out - "The last time I had sex, it was with my ex". And I'm like, "okay", and decide to attempt to keep going, then she says - "isn't that kinda sad? That's sad.". I got softer than a roll of charmin ultra in a matter of about 3 seconds and that concluded our sexual escapade for the evening.

 

Anyone else have one of those "giant turn off" moments happen to them?

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He was really small and a bad bad lover

 

I mean so small I could barely noticed he was in.... lasted like 40 seconds, then rolled over and started snoring.

 

We were not drunk, I am attractive and passionate, so it wasn't me... such a turn off! and I liked this guy, I waited 2 months before being intimate... I left and broke up with him the next day, but I didnt tell him why

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I have quite a few actually haha

 

- Being too instructive - like "Bend over here! Now get on your back, yeah!" That's so... weird to me

- When the person is so rough I feel like I'm being pummeled by a boxing glove

- Excessive heavy breathing, like the loud, almost creepy could-be-happening-in-the-back-of-a-panel-van kind

- QUESTIONS, too many questions of needing affirmation or reassurance like "Do you like that? Tell me you like that! You like it like this?" - Especially when the person starts narrating what they're doing to me in a gross, verging on porn kind of way

- No expression whatsoever

- Definitely no talking about exes, that's just weird

- Somebody's facial expressions can turn me off too

 

But the cream of the crop, biggest turn off ever? Uncleanliness. I don't like men shaved at all, but trim and clean is nice - not necessarily just showered, in fact I find the normal male aroma awesome, but B.O. balls are just... ugh.

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Yeah, his parents walk into the bedroom where we are going hot and heavy at it. And all he can say, "Close the door on the way out, by the way this is Paris." And then they stand there smiling and doing formal introductions while I'm crouched down behind the bed with no clothes on trying to get the earth to swallow me whole. And they all act like we're at tea together!!!!! They left finally and then I pulled on my clothes, not even bothering to put on my shoes then ran out the door and into my car while he's screaming at me to come back.

 

The bad crush I'd had on the guy for two years ended that night.

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Lol the biggest turn - off for me was, by far, getting hot and heavy, kissing and peparing for an awesome night together and then, suddenly, she gets on bed, look at me and says : " Yeah, well, so what do you want to do ?" (So romantic...)

 

Amused, I said "To play ping-pong".

 

And she looks at me, gets angry and tells me I ruined the night.

 

Biggest turn-off ? Lack of humour ^-^

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Lol the biggest turn - off for me was, by far, getting hot and heavy, kissing and peparing for an awesome night together and then, suddenly, she gets on bed, look at me and says : " Yeah, well, so what do you want to do ?" (So romantic...)

 

Amused, I said "To play ping-pong".

 

And she looks at me, gets angry and tells me I ruined the night.

 

Biggest turn-off ? Lack of humour ^-^

 

I would've said... "we just did "

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Fudgie Grand Master

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My first ex liked to grab at my females bits and constantly ask "what's this? what's this?" --- like in what he thought was a sexy voice or something. UGH. I get irritated just remembering that!

 

I got irritated just reading that, LOL!

 

My ex used to have sex with me in doggy style and he'd get into it and say "Mmm yeah take it, take it, take it".....yuck.

 

Another one is having a guy cum in your mouth without telling you that he's going to cum. Double yuck.

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OMG I can't stop giggling at this thread!!

 

Any sort of baby talk...just no. If you wanna talk during sex at least use a sexy voice not a baby voice! One of my exes did this a few times and I had to tell him to stop, it was way too weird for me.

 

One of my exes had issues with climaxing too early, so when it happened, he would still keep on going even though he was soft..as if I wouldn't notice?... it was and instant turn-off.

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My first ex liked to grab at my females bits and constantly ask "what's this? what's this?" --- like in what he thought was a sexy voice or something. UGH. I get irritated just remembering that!

 

Oh no he din't! Ooooh, that's awful. Right up there with the guy who liked to grab my breasts and making honking clown noises. Yeah, that one got shown to the door fast too.

 

Any sort of baby talk...just no.
Right there with you on that one. Also no calling me "Mamma, Mom, Mommy" or any other name reminding me I'm a parent while we're in the bedroom. Don't ask, let's just say it had a creep factor of 20 on a scale of 1 to 10.
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